YOU'RE MY HERO

[She/They] / Jul 14 / Spain / intj I like to draw, game and anime. My current big obsession is bnha (special mention to Bakagou). I'm into other fandoms such as Haikyuu. Please, excuse my poor English :_

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Me and my frog friendos

[teracrossing]

who said this was okay

[dsjckljdfsdkcjksdf-deactivated2]

let’s go camping with some fucking animals

[teracrossing]

cries hysterically

[radstudies]

Maurice Denis (French, 1870-1943)

Paradise

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[durbikins]

me: I want the next Animal Crossing game to have more depth into the friendships with the villagers

ya;ll freaks: YEAH LEMME DATE THEM

me:

[grandpa-ty]

The story of how Jisung betrayed Haechan  😂

[grandpa-ty]

The story of how Jisung betrayed Haechan  😂

[nakamotens]

WHO ALLOWED YOU

[johnil-deactivated20210120]

could you… take a step back please

[lvd2]

eye contact is so intimate im saving it for marriage

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[dantecain]

When I complain about being a ‘gifted’ kid who grew into a talentless adult I don’t mean that I’m not trying to work on my talents or anything

I mean that the ‘gifts’ I had are useless

Reading books above my age isn’t a talent when I’m not eleven

Knowing big words isn’t a talent when I’m not a kid, it’s just growing up

It’s just a weird thing that happens and it feels shitty when you’re brought up being told you’re an exceptional child only to realise as an adult you’re just average

[coolfayebunny]

This

[riotbrrrd]

I did a lot of reading about gifted kids and especially gifted adults when I got my “diagnosis” because I was told I was gifted at 23 and well, it serves no purpose to have a confirmation that you’re gifted at 23

Thing is, gifted children are not amazingly better than everyone else. Gifted brains just don’t work the same so they build their skills in a different order

Basically when you’re very young, most people brain learn social skills and how to interact with their peers, but gifted brains are already at the next step which is how to understand and interact with the world

That makes the stereotypical young children that are very good at math, always asking questions about how things work, very upset when they don’t know a thing

But the thing is, when everyone gets older, they’ve mastered most social skills and now turn towards understanding the world

But the gifted children have already mastered that part and are turning towards how to build social skills. Except there’s no one left to teach us about that! Because we’re late to that party

Long story short, at the end everyone, gifted or not, goes through all the necessary steps to make functioning adults, so the difference that was obvious as a child has disappeared

But us gifted people often end up with social anxiety and impostor syndrome because we are actually less equipped than others to face a world that taught everyone to be confident and talk to people while we were busy reading books above our age

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……………that last paragraph.

damn.

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[consolation-deactivated20161214]

me selling my wares from the forest

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now go! enjoy your blogging free of worry and obligation. i will defend you and keep you safe from harm. *:･ﾟ✧

{♚} saw this post and was inspired to draw this.

[wealdandwold]

I always reblog this cos I know ppl who have anxiety around stuff like that who find this helpful (anxiety’s not always rational, & even ppl superinformed about how magic works etc can get nasty intrusive surges of shit from seeing those posts from time to time!)

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RM on Twitter 1/24/18

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[wonnhao]

the most thoughtful mum ♡

[hanwooz]

coffee dates are overrated, it’s now all about maple latte dates ♡