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A Journey of a Best Friend to a No Friend (Boy's perspective) Part 3 of 3

The decision was not easy for the boy too. He deeply thought about all the possible outcomes, what he could, with his little life experiences. Now, after all this was done, whenever he looks back, he now only think of one mistake that he made, that he didn’t share those ‘possible outcomes’ with his ‘best friend’ or any other people, whom he used to think as friends. 

Ø  Before saying final NO, the boy knew that the girl has his mature sister to take care of her. 

Ø  Before saying final NO, the boy knew that the girl loves him way too much then he does. 

Ø  Before saying final NO, the boy actually thought that the girl would remain as his best friend, FOREVER, as they agreed to half a decade ago.

 Present Day: (After 2 years of separation!)

All is going well and smooth, however, there is not even a single day when the boy had not thought about the girl. For the boy, still, 6 August is more prominent than 6 November. He truly misses his charm and energy he had with this ‘friend’. As it was all meant to be OK! And till date, the boy expects the same and wishes that one day the girl gets back to him and share her side of the story.

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A Journey of a Best Friend to a No Friend (Boy's perspective) Part 2 of 3

A series of events took place, both ups and downs. A new form of experiences was taking place in the life of both boy and girl, an emotional one primarily. For some reason, now they both were thinking about their future on a different track.

The boy started feeling insecure towards his girl

Now those short trips were not that pleasant as they used to be

Girl (as per Boy’s imagination) was having constant thoughts about marriage

Boy, on the other side, was constantly thinking about how to make her realize his side of the story. Better to say, get away from this topic

The topic of marriage was discussed in every 8 of 10 times. It was like a time-bomb, waiting to explode.

In all this, the boy repeatedly said that whatever happens, whether we marry or not, we will remain as friends. To what the girl always completely agreed. That is where the boy got blind-sided. He always used to think that whatever happens, he would always be on a win side, as his only best friend is anyways going to stay with him forever. 

Initially, the boy said NO to marriage

Then, after a temporary gap, the boy got a feeling and said YES, to try

The girl met the boy’s mother

The boy met the girl’s father

Both the families were slightly in disapproval. But because of previous family instance at boy’s side, his parents were ready and was willing to support their boy 

In the meanwhile, arrange marriage proposals were floating by for boy, and he met few other girls on a serious note. Certainly, both the boy and the girl still used to share their thoughts with each other and boy genuinely shared the details of these other girls with his only best friend, as a friend, and ask her opinion.

Yes, the boy was selfish, mean, idiot, but honest.

After all this torture and trouble to the girl, finally the boy said NO to his only friend, and left her alone.

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A Journey of a Best Friend to a No Friend (Boy's perspective)

Once there was a lucky boy, who was a little amateur of his age, in a way, that he had never experienced any such hardships or heartbroken moments in life. All was well for him, with no major grievances. Had good friends around him, with whom he shared experiences and was living a regular happy life.

In his early twenties, he met a person, who according to him was one charming human being, fearless and full of energy. Do not know what was it or how it happened; they both became ‘just’ friends. Occasionally started hanging out together, talking a little and so on…

During that time, the boy gained lots of respect for this person, appreciated her talent, knowledge and the way she used to take care of things. In reality, the boy became a ‘FAN’ of the girl. The boy found himself damn lucky to have such a friend to whom he could share all his little experiences and everything going in his regular life. Then, 

<#>  After 2yrs of friendship, she proposed the boy:

Boy, having no clue, was stunned. Definitely happy, but mainly confused. As before that, the boy had no intention, or better to say no courage, to even think about her as his girlfriend. 

<#>  After a little while, and silly discussions with her, the boy said YES, and the unforeseen journey starts:

A discussion like, if this relationship does not work out then we will remain as friends, forever. 

*At that point of the time, the boy (or maybe even the girl) was definitely not mature enough to understand how things could go but he was definitely concerned to not to lose his yet-to-be best friend. 

<#> Together, they explored their world in a magical way. Short trips, endless talks, and her constant motivation and sacrifices towards the boy made the life of a boy unconditionally pleasant:

There were times, when the girl used to push the boy to try new crazy things with her, to what the boy always hesitated, but later that moment became the most cherishable moment of his life. 

*Honestly speaking, those numerous experiences are what that helped made the boy what he is today, full of confidence and spirit. 

<#> After almost painless 4 years of friendship or relationship, including 2 years of a long-distance relationship, something unforeseen happened:

Certainly, to maintain a balance in any relationship, equal efforts have to be made from both ends, and that is where things started getting pale.

  Yes, they were in a deep unbreakable relationship, but immaturely, for a boy, it was the best form of friendship ever. Whereas, the girl started dreaming to take this relationship to the next level, called marriage. For the boy, who was about 25 years old, marriage was nowhere in his mind. Rather due to some on-going family incidence, the boy used to get scared about this concept of marriage. However, luckily the boy and the girl both used to share all their thoughts openly and clearly to each other, in whatever form it came out of their heads or heart.

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