it's really okay, i promise.

[it-is-all-okay]

i just realized that i had overlooked the obvious solution! i made a throwaway account and transferred this blog to it. this blog will no longer update, but it will not be deleted either. as of now, it is archived.

if anyone wants to run this blog, message me @thegayknee and i will transfer ownership of the blog to you.

thank you!

[it-is-all-okay]

heya! my life has gotten to the point (it got to this point a while ago, i was just in denial) that i do not have the energy to maintain this blog.

if anyone wants to run or archive this blog, please send me a message within the next couple of days.

keeping things that i don’t use causes me a lot of anxiety. and that’s okay! so if no one messages me within the next few days, i will be deleting this blog.

i will reblog this post a few more times during this period.

thank you.

[it-is-all-okay]

heya! my life has gotten to the point (it got to this point a while ago, i was just in denial) that i do not have the energy to maintain this blog.

if anyone wants to run or archive this blog, please send me a message within the next couple of days.

keeping things that i don’t use causes me a lot of anxiety. and that’s okay! so if no one messages me within the next few days, i will be deleting this blog.

i will reblog this post a few more times during this period.

thank you.

[it-is-all-okay]

heya! my life has gotten to the point (it got to this point a while ago, i was just in denial) that i do not have the energy to maintain this blog.

if anyone wants to run or archive this blog, please send me a message within the next couple of days.

keeping things that i don’t use causes me a lot of anxiety. and that’s okay! so if no one messages me within the next few days, i will be deleting this blog.

i will reblog this post a few more times during this period.

thank you.

[it-is-all-okay]

heya! my life has gotten to the point (it got to this point a while ago, i was just in denial) that i do not have the energy to maintain this blog.

if anyone wants to run or archive this blog, please send me a message within the next couple of days.

keeping things that i don't use causes me a lot of anxiety. and that's okay! so if no one messages me within the next few days, i will be deleting this blog.

i will reblog this post a few more times during this period.

thank you.

[foxes-in-love]

[makingqueerhistory]

All of your queer heroes made mistakes. Big ones, small ones, forgotten ones, remembered ones. Remember that this week, when you fail, no matter how big or small the failure is, you are not the first one who has made it and you probably won’t be the last. Fix it, keep going, you are doing great.

[thelatestkate]

February 2019 Illustrations  ヽ(• ‿•)ノ

[enby-posi]

It’s OK to not always be OK!

It’s OK to struggle with dysphoria!

It’s OK to struggle with your sexuality!

It’s OK to be upset because people don’t get your name or pronouns right!

It’s OK to not have figured yourself out completely!

It’s OK to not know what the future brings!

It’s OK to be scared.

It’s OK! Just don’t let it control you! You’re so much more than your struggles and worries!

[wholesome-suggestion]

thank you for existing,

your presence makes the world a little brighter

[cwote]

Congratulations If...

You got out of bed today.

You did your dishes or dirty laundry.

You finished some homework you’ve been putting off.

You cleaned up around your home/apartment/dorm etc.

You resisted temptation in any form.

You found a reason to smile.

Little victories are worth celebrating!!

[genderqueerpositivity]

It’s okay to be anxious or sad over sudden changes in life. It’s okay to be upset when things can no longer be the way that they were. But changes are also opportunities. So yes, be angry or grieve–but also be open to new possibilities.

[queer-posi]

It’s okay to love being queer.

It’s okay to be proud to be queer.

It’s okay to love yourself and your identities.

[it-is-all-okay]

sometimes i think really bad thoughts and i get very scared that i might internally be a bad person? idk if this makes sense but sometimes my thoughts can be super dark and awful towards myself and i worry me as a person might actually reflect these thoughts. of course i would never act on any of these things i think about but the fact i’m general that i think some of these things is enough to freak me out. sorry this definitely doesn’t make any sense i just wanted to tell someone :) ty

hello. i’m sorry it took me so long to respond to this.

i have these kinds of thoughts too. horrible words will pop into my head, and i will often physically shake myself and say aloud “stop it” to try to get them to leave my head. i do not choose to have these thoughts, and neither, i think, do you.

if you ask people what makes a person good or bad, you will get many different answers. my answer is that it is our actions and our choices that define who we are.

the thoughts we think on purpose are our actions. the thoughts we have no control over, the ones that pop into our head, the ones that distress us, are not actions.

these thoughts do not make you a bad person.

it’s okay.

[cwote]

your thoughts matter

your feelings matter

your problems matter

your opinions matter

your happiness matters

your voice matters

your life matters

YOU MATTER

[thelatestkate]

Shout-out to everyone continually battling depression. I’m glad you’re still here.   °˖✧*•  Shop, Patreon, Book, Mailing List *•. ✧˖°`

[non-aligned-sapphic]

if you’re a nonbinary person wondering and worrying over whether or not you can call yourself a nonbinary lesbian, i have a thing to tell you:

if it feels right to call yourself a lesbian, do so. if it’s easier to use, use it. if you feel like it describes you, use it. if you are unsure but want to try it out, try it out.

you don’t need my permission to do that. nor anyone else’s. you don’t have to ask me if it’s okay for you to call yourself a nonbinary lesbian. do you want to do that? go for it. i love you