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dog i gotta move like yesterday

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Guys im the last person that gets a social security number sorry😔

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FUCKKK

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thought I lost this one

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got eaten up with 3 words

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you coming back to tell us here

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you have to survive a week in the last series you watched, how is it going?

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Voting ended onFeb 7

#fallout #welp

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pukicho

It doesn’t matter if you’re gay, weird or stupid. You matter.

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what happens if im all 3?

pukicho

All three??

pukicho

Really?

respectissexy

One thing that has made me a much more well-adjusted person is a clip I once saw of Hank Green saying that anyone can be in amazing shape as long as being in amazing shape is one of their top three priorities.

(This is obviously a generalization that isn't true for everyone. But it is true for most people and I'm proceeding from there.)

This "top three priorities" framing has genuinely reduced my tendency toward jealousy and self-comparison a lot. Now when I feel envious of someone’s spotless, aesthetic home, I think to myself, “Having a spotless, aesthetic home is probably one of their top three priorities. It’s definitely not one of mine, so I shouldn’t expect my home to look like that.”

Or when I see an influencer with a body that takes a ton of work to maintain: “Maintaining that body is obviously one of her top three priorities, because it’s her livelihood. My livelihood is my brain, so I’m never going to prioritize my body like that.”

It also helps me to identify areas that I actually DO want to prioritize more. I realized in recent years that my envy for my friends who prioritized writing more than I did was NOT going away, so I started to prioritize writing more. (Not top three, but higher priority than it has been in the past.)

respectissexy

I love doing notes for therapist-posting on tumblr because I get tags like this.

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the worst part of "you'll understand when you're older" is that you really do understand when you're older

aqueerkettleofish

The second worst part is, once you get older, you find yourself saying "you'll understand when you're older" with Full Comprehension of how fucking annoying you're being right now, but also knowing that it's all you can say.