3liza

i have a lot of medical debt: https://3liza.com/tip/ - read the post at least three times before typing out your long reply/reblog please. if you are blocked for no apparent reason, it's almost certainly not your fault, i just get so much stuff recommended to me that i really don't care about i have to block fandom type blogs a lot. zero personal offense meant! i also check my notes for terfs. terfs get put on a list. what i do with the list is up to me :)

[ryebreadgf]

maybe if you had read every post i have ever made you would have correctly interpreted the tone of my post

[3liza]

i need an east asian girl to show me how im supposed to put cluster lashes on hooded eyes in a way that actually works. because i am following ALL instructions correctly and its not working

[3liza]

i think first thing is im going to have to spend four dollars on those nonstick tweezers. they probably have teflon on them but i dont think i have a choice

[capacity2]

This guy took a video of all the 10s at pride and it’s a stream of like dozens of fine fine fine ass gay guys and the comments are killing me ppl focusing on the offensive ones but these two are so wise

[3liza]

i turned on the vacuum without turning off my space heater first and the power went out on the entire block and now i hear sirens

[3liza]

nice

[kasperknowak-deactivated2018120]

Alexander McQueen’s fw 2001 show was a truly grotesque piece of grande theatre. The show entitled “What a Merry Go Round”, was presented on giant carousels almost as if taken from a circus back in the 20th century. However, instead of joyous children playing on them, they were haunted by models, who pole danced and walked across them as if it was their last stand. The eerie imagery was expanded by genius makeup by Val Garland, which made the models look like sad and morbid clowns. The clothes found inspiration in a mix of Victorian and 20th century fashions. The show had a number of now iconic looks, like the black and white gown worn by a model who pulled a gold skeleton across the floor, which was attached to her leg.

[3liza]

[melkem0t]

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPGnLwwjaUO/?utm_medium=copy_link

[lucky-number-8]

Paul Laurenzi - Lick Ice Down in Flame (1986)

[3liza]

i need an east asian girl to show me how im supposed to put cluster lashes on hooded eyes in a way that actually works. because i am following ALL instructions correctly and its not working

[stickandthorn]

I’d die on the hill that “stranger danger” is a deeply unhelpful mentality to have. “Ooooh everyone is out to get me they’re all gonna perpetrate harm that’s actually more likely to come from someone I already know. I better never talk to anyone in my community who I don’t already know, just to be safe. I’m sure there are no other biases interwoven with this mentality” like oh my god human traffickers do not just randomly spawn in every parking lot. You don’t have to go solo hitchhiking across the country but you also don’t have to live in fear that every guy on the street is the knife man who’s gonna get you. Like have situational awareness, yeah. But most of the time the guy on the street is not knife man he’s actually just a guy on the street and he’s probably pretty chill, and you’re driving yourself crazy by living in a constant state of unnecessary fear.

[stickandthorn]

Like always safety comes first, especially if you’re in a marginalized group more likely to be targeted by random people around you. But that’s different from stranger danger. I might even say that stranger danger is something that contributes to marginalized groups getting targeted by random people. Which strangers do you find distrust worthy? Why? Does vague distrust justify harmful actions in the name of self defense? Stranger danger draws everyone away from more important issues of safety (underlying bigotries, systemic injustices, abuse in the home, etc) and towards an amorphous boogeyman that has no solution, because it’s not the real cause or culprit.

[3liza]

[relelvance]

Interview with a vampire

[3liza]

just had my tilt table test and there is no reason on gods gay earth i had to wait over a year for a specialist appointment where Mike the medical technician rotated me slowly on my y axis on a piece of equipment that costs more than the parts value of my eyes and organs. this could have been done in a bar with a picnic bench and a wristwatch by two dumb people for free

[3liza]

i have something to add about this when i get home

[3liza]

just had my tilt table test and there is no reason on gods gay earth i had to wait over a year for a specialist appointment where Mike the medical technician rotated me slowly on my y axis on a piece of equipment that costs more than the parts value of my eyes and organs. this could have been done in a bar with a picnic bench and a wristwatch by two dumb people for free

[wizardarchetypes]

absolutely looosssinggg it. i'm so obsessed with movies which portray the woman MC in a highly specific job because the writers clearly think it's like "off-beat" and "quirky" but have no idea how the field works whatsoever.

i decided to try a romcom i somehow missed i the 2000s 'head over heels' and i got 3 and a half minutes in and we're introduced to the lonely MC with bad taste in men as evidenced by her extremely short list of ex boyfriends, including her first boyfriend when she was 11 or something because i guess that's still relevant in her adult life.

so she's resigned herself to never finding love and prefers to ignore men to focus all her energy into her career.

this job is immediately presented as though it's for spinsters with no hope of ever finding a man.

the mc's lesbian bestie (whose first line involves her being scolded for being too sexual in the workplace, but moving on) points out their colleagues as evidence that they're doomed to a romance-less, sexless life if they don't switch up their shared career path. the colleagues are three old women, so-dubbed "the menopause triplets":

these women are presented as if they have no idea what's going on at any given moment. this is 2001, and presumably this is an entry level job requiring low effort and no experience.

then their boss bursts into the room, unceremoniously bumping a large painting into the door jam and walls, announcing that it's a new project for our MC.

our MC is thrilled to see the painting. apparently it's a light in the daily slog at her dreary job for loser women with nothing going on in their lives.

And that job is? Conservator of paintings (specializing in Renaissance) at the New York City Metropolitan Museum of Art.

The painting being handled like an old couch on its way to the curb?

The Bacchanal of the Andrians by Titian.

Her lesbian colleague who is presumably also a a highly trained & skilled curator finds it depressing that the MC is so excited about the painting.

it's a quirk unique to this MC that she cares so much about paintings, in her department at the metropolitan museum of art, where her colleagues find all that art business rather dreary. because we all know that's what conservators in extremely competitive museum positions are like.

[wizardarchetypes]

I'm not saying there can't be lifelong love in here somewhere but I also just feel like the monogamous heterosexual marriage you're fantasizing about isn't necessarily best represented by the bacchanal. and that's okay. but i do stand by that.

[worldofultimategaming]

The World of Ultimate Gaming

[3liza]

[jadesenigma]

Candido 800