3liza

i have a lot of medical debt: https://3liza.com/tip/ - read the post at least three times before typing out your long reply/reblog please. if you are blocked for no apparent reason, it's almost certainly not your fault, i just get so much stuff recommended to me that i really don't care about i have to block fandom type blogs a lot. zero personal offense meant! i also check my notes for terfs. terfs get put on a list. what i do with the list is up to me :)

[ryebreadgf]

maybe if you had read every post i have ever made you would have correctly interpreted the tone of my post

[3liza]

SECOND TIME THE MEDICAID TRANSPORTATION TO A DR APPT HAS SHOWN UP (OR DID THEY?) OUTSIDE THE PICKUP WINDOW (REALLY EARLY THIS TIME INSTEAD OF LATE), LEFT A GARBLED VOICEMAIL, AND THEN FUCKED OFF, MAKING ME MISS THE APPOINTMENT! 🤪🤪🤪🤪

[3liza]

HERE IS W sorry here is what they do not tell you about welfare programs, and why poor people avoid using them strenuously unless it absolutely cannot be avoided: this is normal. it is normal for these programs, even when they exist, to simply not function, even when the infrastructure has been successfully instated. of the three rides i have scheduled this way, two of them have ghosted me in this manner, and neither time when i called to report it to the medicaid program front desk did the receptionist on the other end seem even vaguely surprised. they are spending your tax money on cab companies no-show fees and the cripples are still not getting to our stupid appointments. after all that. "why does everyone in america need a car" because it is impossible to go anywhere or do anything without one in 99.9999% of the square acreage of the country

the ONE trip i have successfully completed with this program required about five phone calls to do so, during which the person on the other end repeatedly told me "dont trust the website, it's not accurate" while the phone tree told me 'just hang up and use the website! it's fast and its free!" and then the receptionist added "yeah you really do need to call us after you send the trip request to make sure we got it, and then again the day of the trip to make sure the driver is actually coming"

[3liza]

every single one of these phone calls takes 20-90 minutes of waiting on hold, giving details, being nice, etc

[3liza]

SECOND TIME THE MEDICAID TRANSPORTATION TO A DR APPT HAS SHOWN UP (OR DID THEY?) OUTSIDE THE PICKUP WINDOW (REALLY EARLY THIS TIME INSTEAD OF LATE), LEFT A GARBLED VOICEMAIL, AND THEN FUCKED OFF, MAKING ME MISS THE APPOINTMENT! 🤪🤪🤪🤪

[3liza]

HERE IS W sorry here is what they do not tell you about welfare programs, and why poor people avoid using them strenuously unless it absolutely cannot be avoided: this is normal. it is normal for these programs, even when they exist, to simply not function, even when the infrastructure has been successfully instated. of the three rides i have scheduled this way, two of them have ghosted me in this manner, and neither time when i called to report it to the medicaid program front desk did the receptionist on the other end seem even vaguely surprised. they are spending your tax money on cab companies no-show fees and the cripples are still not getting to our stupid appointments. after all that. "why does everyone in america need a car" because it is impossible to go anywhere or do anything without one in 99.9999% of the square acreage of the country

the ONE trip i have successfully completed with this program required about five phone calls to do so, during which the person on the other end repeatedly told me "dont trust the website, it's not accurate" while the phone tree told me 'just hang up and use the website! it's fast and its free!" and then the receptionist added "yeah you really do need to call us after you send the trip request to make sure we got it, and then again the day of the trip to make sure the driver is actually coming"

[3liza]

SECOND TIME THE MEDICAID TRANSPORTATION TO A DR APPT HAS SHOWN UP (OR DID THEY?) OUTSIDE THE PICKUP WINDOW (REALLY EARLY THIS TIME INSTEAD OF LATE), LEFT A GARBLED VOICEMAIL, AND THEN FUCKED OFF, MAKING ME MISS THE APPOINTMENT! 🤪🤪🤪🤪

[wendy-morgan]

Wendy Morgan

[salgoot]

can you stop mocking christianity, it's so soo reddit

[intactics]

no

[salgoot]

shut up pfpless newfag, this is between adults

[intactics]

[witch-breaker]

[plus-size-aesthetics]

[prunsel]

if you've ever pet more than a few dogs you'd Know what dog residue is

[hyenaswine]

i think people are starting to confuse class analysis with bioessentialism. like... no not all men do this, but Men as a constructed social class do do this. that's still okay to say. that is regular material analysis of the world around us.

[memories-of-ancients]

Anthropeum

A daily game that challenges our understanding of human cultures. Ten objects. 5,000 years of human history. Guess where and when each artif

An interesting game where you are presented with 10 artifacts from the MET. You have to place where the artifact is from and what time period it is from. Each artifact scores up to 10,000 points, and you lose points the further away your guess is and how far off in time you are. You can only play once a day. Thanks to @baebeylik for showing this to me.

Today I scored really well. Yesterday ... not so much.

Anthropeum.com · Jun 8 2026 🟩🟦🟦🟩🟩🟩🟥🟦🟦🟩 79,001 · top 3% of players today!

[3liza]

glimpsed some passing discourse on bluesky yesterday. apparently there is a conflict stirring between "speed readers" and "normal readers", the latter accusing the former of "skimming" and "not comprehensive reading". this was very confusing to me because i was formally instructed in Evelyn Wood's speed reading methods from the 1950s by the Korean war paratrooper who taught the rhetoric class in the weird alt school for morons and dropouts i partially attended as a teenager. and the way Speed Reading was taught to me at the time was specifically as a form of skimming, which is also how it is defined and even judged in speed reading competitions where you only have to hit 50% comprehension of a text to pass. so it is, definitionally, skimming, with pretty bad comprehension, its just that you dont need to read every single thing the same way you would read a novel with prose you wanted to enjoy or whatever. theyre different skills. speed reading was a big fad in the 50s and 60s, JFK was obsessed with it. it has largely been abandoned specifically because it doesnt enable a lot of comprehension of complex texts

anyway, apparently no one told the side of this conflict that considers themselves "speed readers" that "speed reading" refers to a specific technique of skimming a lot of text quickly for basic comprehension, and they are under the impression that "speed reading" means "reading normally, just faster than regular people." (edit: which is an understandable assumption based on how old and outdated the formal "speed reading" instruction by Wood is at this point) then someone got mad at me for pointing out that reading a 137k late 20th century novel in "2 days" wasnt "speed reading", just a respectable--but normal--reading pace. that book (The Vampire Lestat) will take someone reading at 250wpm a smidge over 9 hours to finish, which is like. nothing if youre hitting it on the toilet, before bed, and on the bus to and from work (in my direct experience). 250wpm is how fast someone reads who is mentally sounding out every single word, which fast readers generally do not.

so i think not only is the literacy crisis real, there seems to be a secondary, metaliteracy crisis as well where talking ABOUT reading is now becoming more and more difficult. 250wpm is by no definition "speed reading", nor is it particularly fast for normal reading, so even the understanding of averages is drifting significantly.

[3liza]

i need an east asian girl to show me how im supposed to put cluster lashes on hooded eyes in a way that actually works. because i am following ALL instructions correctly and its not working

[3liza]

i think first thing is im going to have to spend four dollars on those nonstick tweezers. they probably have teflon on them but i dont think i have a choice

[3liza]

second thing is definitely "do not put a cluster on the distal edges of the lashline, UNDER the lashline" because the smallness and crowding and tissue sensitivity on my eyes in particular can't handle it. the glue gets damp and sticky again right away even if it previously dried and was sealed

[mortalityplays]

the tumblr report and appeal systems really are busted beyond all comprehension. I reported someone for advertising themselves as an 'anorexia coach', which is and has always been extremely bannable, and immediately got an automated response saying it didn't violate ToS. I sent another report hoping to trigger a human review, and got another instant 'this blog doesn't violate ToS'. I went through the process to appeal a moderation decision, and a couple of hours later received at exactly the same time: 1. a message informing me it wasn't a valid appeal because I had never filed a report about that blog in the first instance (??) 2. a message in reply to one of my rejected reports thanking me and informing me the blog had been taken down.

so somehow my initial reports were being bug zapped by the automod BUT were also traceable enough that a human staff member could reopen one of them and ban the blog in question BUT were also not valid in the eyes of the appeal system. and somehow both the appeal rejection and the updated outcome for my original report were sent at the same time, presumably by the same action. what is going on over there.

[squeakitties]

following weird horny furries who are into shit like pooltoys and transformation and stuff is enrichment. the vitamins and minerals of posting

[squeakitties]

[twinkenjoyer-deactivated2023083]

once you get over your ass and realise you will never get some people and that’s ok you are basically immune to right wing fearmongering. otherkin? none of my fucking business

[stevishabitat]

[mandate-transgenderism]

I must not fall victim to disgust. Disgust is the heart-killer. Disgust is the little-death that brings total apathy. I will face my disgust. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the disgust has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.

[quendergeer]

wait hang on "transformation" is considered one of the niche, out there fetishes? That's like searching pornhub for "women"

[3liza]

send me all the data you have

[sibyllance]

if your without and you put nuts on it I don't make the rules snowflake

TRUCK

was made nuts that truck is trans if you got a problem take it up with god

[probuccalfat]

50 cent was lowkey the most important man in my household growing up like it went 50 cent then jesus christ

[probuccalfat]

i vividly remember my parents arguing once and my mom yelled “you’re not even half the man 50 is” then my dad slammed a door and left. these people raised me

[cunt-force-therapy]

Jesus had 5 wounds and 50 cent has 8. I know who suffered more for the sins of humanity

[probuccalfat]

i’m pretty certain that’s the exact thing my mom said that got me formally asked not to come back to youth group on wednesdays

[unification]

something aint right about how good that lemon gelato is hitting. it feels like my brain is getting massaged. eating a slice of lemon is doing the same thing. its times like these we have to remember that ehlers danlos syndrome = higher vitamin c requirements than the average person and i think i'm getting hints that i haven't been hitting my quota