Sexuality And Romantic Orientation

Let's get one thing straight...I'm not! I identify as an Akoiromantic Asexual Female. Look It Up.

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Lol. My username on AVEN is  TheEmoUnicorn go find me. This wan not planned.

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Friend Goals

ME: I am akoiromantic or lithromantic. Whatever you want to call it.

B: Yeah.

ME: I can't believe I just came out to you over text. I know it's not the same thing as being gay, bi, or pan. But still...Woah.

B: I mean I'm Bi but don't worry I don't like you like that I lean more towards boys.

ME: Cool!

B: I thought you were gonna say ew.

ME: I am your friend. I wouldn't stop being your friend because of who you like. Personally, I think it's awesome. Hey! We are both in the LGBTQIA+ community! I am also Asexual. So, You know, the A.

B: HAHA well that's good. I support as long as your happy :)

ME: I am. Thanks for understanding. You get the best of both worlds, and I get BFF's.

ME: WAIT. Did we just come out to each other? Talk about friendship goals!

B: ...oMG

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Yeah, Fear Me! 

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My discussion with my friends

A: Do you want me to tell him you like him?

A: Cause I will. You have 10 days.

ME: NO! I am not even sure if I like L, to be honest. I think he is cute, but I don't want to be in a relationship with him. Like, EWWWW!

B: He is looking at you.

ME: Really?! (turns around) Yep.

L: Madison? (me) YOu had something you wanted to tell me?

ME: UMM...No. B told you that without me knowing.

B: Since I am a nice person I won't say, F**K you!

ME: I may have a squish on him.

(Hears L asking someone if anyone likes him)

(panicked)

ME: (LYING) I seriously don't know. I'm pretty sure I don't like him like that.

(LATER....)( Over Snapchating A)

ME: A, I don't like anyone that way. Or sexually either for that matter.

A: Oh, Ok.

(doesn't say anything else)

ME: Are you weirded out by me?

A: NO

ME: Oh. Good!

(Later Facetiming B)

ME: Look up what a squish is and you'll understand.

B: OK

(After she has been silent for a while)

ME: Did you look it up?

B: No I am on Snapchat.

ME: Look it up now so I can answer any questions you have.

(B does)

B: Ok, I get it.

ME: OK. Good.

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Another Update

I do way too much internet exploration. I just came across the term Lithromantic. It means that you have romantic feelings but if those feelings are reciprocated, you lose them. You like the idea of Romantic relationships in theory, but if you try to apply them to yourself it sounds weird and just........NO! I feel like that I think. I get crushes, but if they like me back, or if I think about going on a date with them, that feeling disappears. I feel all EWWWWW! NO! That is way, way, way too awkward. Any help?  If you think you have any useful info, please reply or comment.

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Update

So, after a lot of internet exploration, I discovered I am not graysexual. I am Asexual. I am also Gray Aromantic. I realized this when I tried to explain to my friend how I liked my crush, and I couldn’t. I ended up saying I think he is cute and funny and annoying. Am I squishing him? NO... I think it is more than that. But I don’t want to date him or reciprocate any of that kind of stuff. I think I am scrishing him. It is in-between a crush and a squish. Hey, that sounds like Grey Aromantic qualities.

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ME

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Reblog if you agree ace people are LGBT.

I’m sorry I’m making another post about this. But the fact people exclude them is so wrong. And I know people are going to call me stupid for it but whatever.

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I agree. I fall under the graysexual umbrella, and it is awesome to see someone stand up for all of us!

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This picture reminds me that we are as strong as a dragon. We don’t need sexual intimacy to feel loved. We are one. We are GRACE!

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Sexuality is so fluid, and Gray- A represents more of a possibility to be unsure.

Wikipedia

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I am Grey Ace

I first discovered I was Grey A (graysexual) about a week ago. When I first heard about it, I didn’t know what it was. In fact, I actually thought I was Demisexual! It is good to know that there is a community of people out there who experience the same things as I do.That is why I made this blog. I made this so that others can feel excepted, and if they want to know more, ask questions. I haven’t told anyone but you, the person who is reading this, that I am Gray A and it feels great to get this off my chest.