#gray ace

[scretladyspider]

PSA:

“Asexuality” is a sexual orientation describing little to no sexual attraction

“Ayyyyy, sexuality!” is a guy at a bar imitating Chandler from Friends while talking about sexuality

“Aye, sexuality,” is a pirate giving his kids ‘the talk’

learn and know the difference!

[sarinisanta]

I find it funny when media portrays an ace character dating an allosexual one and slowly becoming more and more sexual cause my experience was totally the opposite.

I used to be borderline hypersexual and dating an asexual folk for 10 years only made me less and less sexual to the point nowadays I identify as gray ace.

And I say funny, but not in a good sense, cause it is blatant acephobia. It represents the idea that ace folks can "discover their love of sex through romanticism" while discovering your diastaste of it through the same means is not considered plausible.

It all ends up lingering over the idea that asexuality is something that, if you find the right partner, you can cure.

And that is very cringe.

[fixing-bad-posts]

Asexuality is a spectrum. No two asexuals are the same 🖤🩶🤍💜

[gray-ace-space]

a while back i posted screenshots of a conversation with a demi friend who afaik is otherwise cishet and extremely not on tumblr. i guess he's just gonna be a recurring character on this blog.

here is me (badly) explaining the deal with unicorns and dragons to him, and a message he had for acespecs in response.

make armadillo ace a thing. do it for him.

[vinqou]

rest well, star [ February 19, 2024 ]

[debthedemi]

HAPPY SOULACE DAY to my Black asexuals and aromantics!

To celebrate and learn more, please download Black Ace Culture: A Digital Zine by blackaceculture and donate to the contributors if you can!

Black Ace Culture: A Digital Zine by blackaceculture

[aphid-girl-antennae]

There's a lot of sexual things I'll fantasize about but would hate irl. Such as:

• sex

[moshpitsandstargazing]

actually i love having relationships that are unconventional to other people. they’re customized to the people involved. the way some relationship dynamics are viewed has always bothered me. personally, i prefer leaving many of my relationships unlabeled and it works for me and those people. And that doesn’t mean discussions aren’t had about the nature of the relationship.

i love being able to have a deep meaningful relationship that also is primarily sexual in nature with no intention to move up the escalator ladder. i love relationships with the flexibility to withstand major changes even to the relationship itself. i love being able to be casual. i love being able to be in it for the long haul. i love exploring the multitude of ways to interact and engage with people. i love having the opportunity to learn myself in new ways through the doors relationships open up.