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[thelastmessagereceived]

My grandpa was in Hospice, and he didn’t have much time left. Family members had been by his bedside all day. When I found myself alone in the room with my grandpa that evening, I knew it was probably the last private moment we would have together. He was too weak to talk, so I wasn’t expecting much of a conversation.

“So Grandpa, I’ve been talking with a girl this summer. You never know, one of these days I might have a girlfriend!”

Since my grandpa couldn’t talk, he looked up and gave me the biggest wink. I will never forget that wink…it was like he was saying, “Thatta boy!” He passed away a few days later.

[thelastmessagereceived]

“I have to go to sleep sweetie, I’m sorry.”

The last thing my dad ever said to me. He died two days later. I was the last person to ever make him laugh. It’s been 6 days and I miss him like hell.

[thelastmessagereceived]

My best friend was in the hospital with kidney failure. I went to see her, had to wait 4 hours. The last thing she said to me was 
“I love you. Don’t worry they can’t keep us apart!” 
She died the next day. Her brother texted me to let me know.
It’s been 2 months, and I miss her every day.

[thelastmessagereceived]

Yesterday I reported the assault a stranger did to me to the police, the biggest impact now is that the cop asked me the question 

“were you wearing anything short, challenging the stranger to touch you on places?” 

I was wearing a jacket and long pants.

[thelastmessagereceived]

“Do we need anything else?”

For a really long time my best friend was battling with depression and suicidal thoughts. Me and my friends decided that we should take care of him and don’t leave him alone (especially during the night) because we were afraid he would commit suicide. So I would often sleep to his house to take care of him. We woke up one morning and he was in a surprisingly good mood, making jokes and laughing a lot. He told me he was really hungry and he asked me if we could bake a cake. I told him that of course we could but we needed some flour because we didn’t have any. He offered to go and buy some. I asked him if he would be alright or he wanted me to come with him. He chuckled and said he would gonna be just fine. Before he left he asked me if we needed anything else and I told him no. As soon as he closed the door I discovered we didn’t have any eggs either. So I ran to the balcony to tell him to buy some. And then I saw him falling down. Instead of going to buy flour, he went to the roof and took his life.

[thelastmessagereceived]

“Ok see you shortly, love you" 

He was in a head on collision and died at the scene. The police investigation determined reading this text was the cause. I’ll never forgive myself.

[lazysmirk]

Just in case you forget this exists.

It exists.

[dragonofdarknesschaos]

With those “when you want to design a character but you don’t know color theory” posts flying around I thought this would be relevant again.

[secretsivekept]

SLAMs THE REBLOG BUTTON

[niyarest]

there’s also Coolors website that gives you randomized palettes!

[tf2humbug]

Don’t forget ColourLovers, either! It’s a social media-esque site where you can browse tons of palettes and share your own.

You can browse the most popular ones or search for certain colors, themes, and even specific hex codes!

When you find one you like, you can download a wallpaper swatch of it and also select the specific colors it uses to look at more palettes that use those same ones.

ColourLovers is my go-to for when I’m having trouble coming up with a color scheme! It’s also been around for over a decade, so there’s plenty to browse through.

[catatonicandraw-deactivated2019]

[septemberequinox]

the gay agenda:

kiss a cute person

nap

[dndyke-archive-deactivated20200]

3. nap with the cute person you just kissed

[septemberequinox]

good idea; you’re hired for the brainstorming team.

[blazeofgold-deactivated20190921]

has anyone else noticed there’s a very specific way women interrupt each other in conversation that’s quite distinct from the way men interrupt women in conversation? like, women seem to interject a lot more– not as a silencing tactic, but to show their enthusiasm or agreement, cause they perceive a conversation as kind of collaborative, organic exercise. but i feel like men get really annoyed if you excitedly interject when they’re saying something (most specifically in a debate/discussion context) because they perceive conversation as something combative or competitive and see an interjection as a threat or a challenge. i’ve also noticed men dismiss women’s way of talking as being sort of incomprehensible and nonsensical because of this habit we have of seeming to butt in or finish each others sentences excitably. 

[kaylapocalypse-deactivated20201]

This was actually very interestingly used in Mad Max and was a stylistic choice in the way the wives spoke to each other, or at other people as a collective.

They finished each others sentences, interjected constantly, echoed important points in reverence/understanding/agreement and relied on each other to complete the communication of a thought or a concept to someone outside their circle.  

So like, instead of one of them explaining something, they would all add fragments to form a complete thought. ____

The Vuvalini: What’s there to find at the Citadel?

Max: Green.

Toast: And water. There’s a ridiculous amount of clear water. And a lot of crops.

The Dag: It’s got everything you need, as long as you’re not afraid of heights.

Keeper of the Seeds: Where does the water come from?

Toast: [regarding Immortan Joe] He pumps it up from deep within the earth. He calls it “Aqua Cola” and claims it all for himself.

The Dag: And because he owns it, he owns all of us. _____ Capable: We are not things! Cheedo: No! The Dag: Cheedo, we are not things! Capable: We are not things. Cheedo: I don’t want to hear that again! Capable: They were her words. Cheedo: And now she’s dead! The Dag: Wring your hands and tear your hair, but you’re not going back. You’re not going back to him. ___ Interestingly, the Vuvalini do this as well. 

Everyone else in the movie (including furiosa!) speaks in short definitive statements or exclamations that cannot be piled upon or interrupted. So this was definitely done on purpose. 

its very cool.

 I wonder if this is just a thing in english/western culture or if other groups of women speak to each other like this?

[kaylapocalypse-deactivated20201]

also theirs a bunch of people in the notes fighting about “I HATE GETTING INTERRUPTED”

This isn’t so much a classic “interruption”.  like when someone talks over you to change the subject or say something unrelated or better than what you’re saying and stealing the attention from you,etc.

Its more like the person doing the interruption is expecting you not to really stop talking, or expects you to finish your thought, and is only interrupting to agree/ interject a footnote that is contributory, but not distracting.

So it would look like. Woman 1 and 2 telling a story to woman 3:

Woman 1 “We sat down and he brought out this really good green tea- Woman 2: –but it was the powder kind of green tea not the bag kind– Woman1: –yeah and he brought out these really cool whisks and let us do it ourselves– Woman 2: and Woman 1 frothed hers so much she had nothing left! Woman 3: omg did you like it? was it good? Woman 1 and 2 in unison: Yes!  Woman 1: We should go again together sometime. Woman 2- yeah I think you’d really like it too!

 See how Woman 1 is the alpha speaker (the person telling the story) and Woman 2 is the…. hype man? for lack of a better word. Every sentence that Woman 1 says is the story, and woman 2 is adding smaller clarification related details. And when she adds a dynamic detail  “had nothing left!” it is an excited interjection that continues the story, without taking ownership of the topic.  Woman 3 will walk away from this conversation feeling that Woman 1 was the expert on this situation, but that Woman 2 had a particularly exciting time.

[perrfectly]

[paragonraptors]

i drunk bought an adoptable last year on deviantart and feel extremely obligated to draw her at least once a year to celebrate her adoption

[talkingtristan-deactivated20150]

[worldtendency-deactivated202501]

Oblivion is such a good game

[okay]

“Shut the fuck up about your stupid diet”

ig: cessation_

[shit-thatblows-deactivated20140]

[antoniporowski]