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all the social media apps are crumbling and this was the only place open (she/he/they)

[itsthatphaseagain]

I've deleted the Tumblr app

This idea has been floating around in my mind for a couple of days now… Tumblr has been my home away from home for so long but I honestly feel like I’m not getting that same love back. A lot of the content posted on here is a mixture of good bad but I found myself blocking more things than enjoying the good stuff. I thought maybe I should just stick to notifications from people that I followed and I found that to be disheartening as well. I love the people that I have gotten to know (i constantly think of how those friendships would have never existed without tumblr) and I love them sweet memes. I love being able to just shout into the void about my problems but now I’m figuring out that you kind of have to be listened to sometimes… and Tumblr wasn’t giving me that. I felt like I was giving so much of myself to this website and being obsessed over what other people approved off that I lost track of what I wanted. I started a side blog thinking maybe that that would center me and it helped but I found myself going down the same path that I was going with my main blog. Plus the app itself was taking up so much room on my phone that I really didn’t have a lot of other things. I kinda sound like a whiney baby like oh you guys aren’t paying attention to me but that’s honestly one part of it. I’m tired of the drama. Tired of the discourse. Tired of people telling you what to watch and what to ship and what to post (even if people weren’t directly telling me these things… I felt this pressure to present this blog in a certain way to appease others and I don’t want to do it anymore). I will never forget the times and the memories that I have experienced being on here but I’m closing this chapter of my life… yes the adjustment period will be hard to get used to and yes I’ll still be on social media just not on this site. 

To my mutual: Message me if you want to set up some other way of communicating and we’ll figure it out I don’t want to just put new information on here because the purpose is to move forward. 

I’ll be checking once a day around 5ish or so for two weeks to get everything in order but after that I’m leaving this blog as is as a sort of memento. 

Thanks for being with me on this journey. 

<3

Kass

[itsthatphaseagain]

I've deleted the Tumblr app

This idea has been floating around in my mind for a couple of days now… Tumblr has been my home away from home for so long but I honestly feel like I’m not getting that same love back. A lot of the content posted on here is a mixture of good bad but I found myself blocking more things than enjoying the good stuff. I thought maybe I should just stick to notifications from people that I followed and I found that to be disheartening as well. I love the people that I have gotten to know (i constantly think of how those friendships would have never existed without tumblr) and I love them sweet memes. I love being able to just shout into the void about my problems but now I’m figuring out that you kind of have to be listened to sometimes… and Tumblr wasn’t giving me that. I felt like I was giving so much of myself to this website and being obsessed over what other people approved off that I lost track of what I wanted. I started a side blog thinking maybe that that would center me and it helped but I found myself going down the same path that I was going with my main blog. Plus the app itself was taking up so much room on my phone that I really didn’t have a lot of other things. I kinda sound like a whiney baby like oh you guys aren’t paying attention to me but that’s honestly one part of it. I’m tired of the drama. Tired of the discourse. Tired of people telling you what to watch and what to ship and what to post (even if people weren’t directly telling me these things… I felt this pressure to present this blog in a certain way to appease others and I don’t want to do it anymore). I will never forget the times and the memories that I have experienced being on here but I’m closing this chapter of my life… yes the adjustment period will be hard to get used to and yes I’ll still be on social media just not on this site. 

To my mutual: Message me if you want to set up some other way of communicating and we’ll figure it out I don’t want to just put new information on here because the purpose is to move forward. 

I’ll be checking once a day around 5ish or so for two weeks to get everything in order but after that I’m leaving this blog as is as a sort of memento. 

Thanks for being with me on this journey. 

<3

Kass

[itsthatphaseagain]

I've deleted the Tumblr app

This idea has been floating around in my mind for a couple of days now... Tumblr has been my home away from home for so long but I honestly feel like I'm not getting that same love back. A lot of the content posted on here is a mixture of good bad but I found myself blocking more things than enjoying the good stuff. I thought maybe I should just stick to notifications from people that I followed and I found that to be disheartening as well. I love the people that I have gotten to know (i constantly think of how those friendships would have never existed without tumblr) and I love them sweet memes. I love being able to just shout into the void about my problems but now I'm figuring out that you kind of have to be listened to sometimes... and Tumblr wasn't giving me that. I felt like I was giving so much of myself to this website and being obsessed over what other people approved off that I lost track of what I wanted. I started a side blog thinking maybe that that would center me and it helped but I found myself going down the same path that I was going with my main blog. Plus the app itself was taking up so much room on my phone that I really didn't have a lot of other things. I kinda sound like a whiney baby like oh you guys aren't paying attention to me but that's honestly one part of it. I'm tired of the drama. Tired of the discourse. Tired of people telling you what to watch and what to ship and what to post (even if people weren't directly telling me these things... I felt this pressure to present this blog in a certain way to appease others and I don't want to do it anymore). I will never forget the times and the memories that I have experienced being on here but I'm closing this chapter of my life... yes the adjustment period will be hard to get used to and yes I'll still be on social media just not on this site. 

To my mutual: Message me if you want to set up some other way of communicating and we'll figure it out I don't want to just put new information on here because the purpose is to move forward. 

I'll be checking once a day around 5ish or so for two weeks to get everything in order but after that I'm leaving this blog as is as a sort of memento. 

Thanks for being with me on this journey. 

<3

Kass

[mochific]

[askr-deactivated20230503]

Something that makes me sad, the Chinese for “homosexuality” is 同性恋 which literally translates to “same sex love”

So in Mandarin, it sounds like the same characters for “same heart connection” (同心连)

And that sounds cute to me, like soulmates, heart to heart, you share that love and it binds you together

They’re syllables that if you interpret them differently, you could picture something sweet, something lovely and pure.

And yet all I ever hear, when someone says those words out loud, is hatred, and disgust, and anger.

[askr-deactivated20230503]

actually something i forgot about, 同心 can also mean “united”

[nictii]

When the monster you’re hunting is limping and whining while desperately trying to run away and is scared for its life, but you still have to kill it

[siderealsandman]

When the monster you’re hunting is limping and whining while desperately trying to run away and is scared for its life after it’s killed you 40 times

[shiirkyy]

@twiicetheheart

[chrisevansgifs]

[ikimaru]

I read that ask and I just had to lmao

#rate the lions

[miyuliart]

Michael in the Bathroom (studies)  

[maggie-stiefvater-deactivated20]

:( :( :(

[ashestoashesjc]

me, a sensible boy, feeling a tickle: just your leg hair, calm down

caveman brain: it is so many spiders

[mayormaynotbegone]

Lovebirds ♥

[gravesecret]

- “Who the hell is Steve?”

[grumpybets-deactivated20180424]

I hadn’t posted a speedpaint in a while so!!

[grumpybets-deactivated20180424]

dick grayson

[michonnegrimes]

Chandler Riggs – he’s my American son. He’s an incredibly sweet young man. To watch somebody grow on screen and off over the last eight years has been one of the great privileges of my career. He’s a super fine actor, he’s taught me about the south; his humor, his faith, his manners, and his southern charm is soaked into my bones. He’s a very, very special part of my life. – Andrew Lincoln

[cobaltdays-deactivated20210208]

my pet: *does anything*

me: