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mutuals can this be us
this is genuinely breathtaking lmao
i desperately need people to realize there's a difference between "women need to coddle (cis) men's feelings even when they're being misogynistic uwu" and "we shouldn't tolerate misogyny but actively keeping men separate from women and treating them like they're inherently dangerous to women is only going to worsen the problem (and also this mindset causes IMMEASURABLE harm to nonbinary, trans, and intersex people, who are already incredibly at risk right now)" and i need people to realize that NOW
I've recently learned that escaping enshitification is actually really easy. When I was younger I would use FOSS (free and open source software) because I usually couldn't afford anything else. Back then the paid options were usually significantly better than the unpaid options so when I finally got money I started using the paid stuff and completely forgot that Foss existed.
If you don't know why Foss is awesome its not just that its free. Open source software has a huge set of advantages. Most software is proprietary meaning that its code cannot be viewed by other people. Open source softwares code can be viewed by everyone and people can contribute their own code to make it better. Open source is often more secure than proprietary because more people have more eyes on it and more people have contributed to it's security. Its also easy to know how much privacy you have with every software because you can read the code. No more "trust me bro I'm not harvesting and selling your data" you know if they are collecting and selling because the code is publicly available.
In the last two months I have been switching almost completely to Foss. I was worried at first because when I stopped using Foss over 10 years ago the average Foss software was genuinely worse than the paid proprietary alternative. Thankfully things have really come full circle. 90℅ of the software I have tried in the last 2 months works better than the proprietary alternative and is 100℅ less obnoxious.
So here is a list of every Foss software I have tried and recommend. There is way more than this available. This list is just what I have used and like personally. Anyone can feel free to add and we can turn it into a master list. Please just take these as a place to start and do your own research to see if these softwares will work for your use case before you fully ditch your proprietary software.
Operating systems
Graphene os: android alt. Security and privacy focused. The most secure and private smartphone currently available.
Linux mint: easy to use linux, 100℅ better than windows.
Pop!: The Linux distro you should use if you have nividia hardware and want to play games using said hardware. Very intuitive and easy to use.
Kubuntu: Ubuntu Linux with KDE desktop. This is the linux distro one I am currently using and I don't have any plans to jump ship again. Better than windows and better than Mac. The companion app for your phone makes life soooo easy. Its pretty and easy to customize to a ridiculously granular level. No fucking notes.
Kindle jailbreak- ko reader: use jailbreak to free your kindle from the tyranny of the bezos. It will download ko reader which is a Foss OS that has every fucking feature you always wished kindle had and let's you read whatever the fuck you want, and have whatever the screensaver you want (no more ads!). Soooo fuck amazon and use this. I genuinely cannot recommend it enough.
Linux FOSS: (some available on windows and android as well)
Calibre: Foss desktop eBook library. Packed with features. You will want to use this with koreader to make managing your kindle easy.
Manuscript: skrivner alt. Does absolutely everything I need.
Bitwarden: password manager (use a keepass fork if you want self hosted)
Next cloud: private google drive and cloud alternative that you can self host if you want but it's not required. App available
Proton VPN: to the best of my knowledge it is the only Foss no log VPN you can get. You can pay for higher speeds. App available
Quad9dns: free encrypted DNS provider. App available.
News software:
Use any Foss RSS reader and for the love of god stop getting news from social media. Take control of your feed!
Apps (I only know for android)
Fdroid: great app store to find Foss android apps and download them.
Antennapod: you can get all of your podcasts fetched to one feature rich app via RSS feed. No need to rely on spotify or music steaming services.
Openreads: it's good reads but private and 100℅ stored locally. No amazon, no social media aspect, it just tracks your reading, you can import your good reads but if you want to import from storygraph you have to make a good reads burner account, import to good reads, then import to openreads. The menus Navigation on this one is a bit cumbersome but honestly good reads app is worse.
Newpipe: YouTube frontend that let's you have YouTube subscriptions, watch YouTube in the background, and blocks all ads, without logging in to YouTube. You will want to use this one with a VPN set to Canada (or any other country) so YouTube doesn't keep blocking it in order to force you to sign in. But even with that extra step its worth it for the privacy and the lack of ads.
Proton mail: one of 2 more private gmail alts. But you should note that email cannot be 100℅ anonymous or private.
I think that's it. There are still a lot software varieties I am slowly finding.
Stoic male tops in fictional porn is such a pet peeve of mine.
I want to see men on top be vulnerable. I am so tired of seeing all this porn where the top is just this bland "masculine" stoic who doesn't express any of the pleasure he is feeling. I'm advocating this point for both sub and even dom tops.
I want to see men hunched over moaning, incoherently muttering praise about how amazing their ass/pussy feels. I want to see men hug their partner for dear life; gasping as their legs uncontrollably shake from the sheer pleasure of cumming inside someone they love. I don't want to just see men mindlessly jackhammer, I want to see them passionately kiss, lick, grab, hand hold, smack, and fondle with all their heart.
I understand why men aren't so intimate and touchy in irl porn, but I think we could do so much more of it in fictional porn. If anybody has recommendations like this, please let me know.
Fun fact for internet users:
If you tell somebody to kill themselves because you think they're a loser, you've ironically outed yourself as an even bigger loser.
it disturbs me that a significant number of people think that the issue with sexual violence, gendered violence, and misogyny is sexual desire rather than dehumanization, so they are relentlessly suspicious of others' (and their own) desires while simultaneously never at all interrogating others' (and their own) dehumanizing beliefs about other people, both within and outside of sexual contexts
#and at the root you'll find the misunderstanding of sexual violence as a violent extension of sex. #when in reality sexual violence is a sexual extension of violence. and the distinction is important.
"Because I said so" straight up isn't as good an answer as you think it is.
I hate people who are like "I don't care about politics, I just care about being a good person" like they are saying something profound.
My brother in Christ, 90% of what we are arguing about is ethics, and one side is magnitudes more ethical than the other. And if you can't acknowledge that or tell which side that is, you are the not a good person.
What Jax said on his video about the art (BESIDES THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM 🫵) made me laugh so bad and remembered the tiktok edits... This man would be his number one fan.
I just want to take a moment to appreciate how well crafted the hype is for episode 5 of TADC.
Just the way Glitch feeds us little bits of information bit by bit while also baiting and switching us is such a fun approach to community interaction and creating discussion. Also love the trailer that's clearly trying to playfully imitate early YouTube videos.
Love you Glitch, never change
All I'm saying is that if Ragatha was more willing to stand on business, she could quite easily make that bratty twink behave.
Come on girl, he's clearly trying hard to compensate for something, and Caine made him a prey animal for a reason. Just pull him down by his ears and assertively tell him to bark for you like a good boy. He'll crumple, trust.
Another reminder that all rats hate TERFs.
Radfems are not and will never be welcome.
Right-wing dating standards: SHE NEEDS TO KNOW HOW TO COOK, CLEAN, AND LOVE THE LORD. SHE CANT BE MASCULINE OR HAVE TATTOOS OR HAVE PIERCINGS. SHE MUST-
Left-wing dating standards: Woaw, she's a complete loser and she's nice to me. I need her so bad
art will save you, being unreasonably passionate about something niche will save you, letting past sources of joy show you the way back to yourself will save you, earnestness over composure will save you, the natural world will save you, caring for something bigger than yourself will save you, daring to be seen will save you, kindness not as a whim but a principle will save you, appreciation as a practice will save you, daring to try something new will save you, grounding will save you, love will save you, one good nights sleep will save you