emm 🎀🦷🩻

7teen ~ she/her ~ lesbian annoying about lucy dacus and gracie abrams

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i HATE how tiktok is reducing ethel cain and preachers daughter to cannibalism. preachers daughter dissects real issues of religious trauma, inter generational trauma, abandonment, etc etc - cannibalism is not the main aspect of the album, nor is it that of ethel’s story.

stop clinging on to cannibalism as a metaphor for love when there are so many other aspects of hayden’s lyricism and art that are so much more complex and profound.

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Claire Cottrill for The New Yorker / Interview by Amanda Petrusich / Photographs by Justine Kurland

[welcometojane]

me for teen vogue.

photos by danica robinson

words by lex mcmenamin

styling by dot

[mooneysometimes]

[campcomputers]

[petrichara]

‘Love is the one thing that we’re capable of perceiving that transcends dimensions of time and space.’

“Eulogy from a Physicist” by Aaron Freeman, with quotes from Interstellar by Christopher Nolan, and images from NASA, Interstellar, Getty, Petrichara, and Reuters.

1- NASA: GOODS-South.

2- NASA: NGC 1850.

3- NASA: Iberian Peninsula.

4- Christopher Nolan: Interstellar.

5- NASA: From the Earth to the Moon.

6- Hannah La Folette Ryan: Subway Hands.

7- Adams Evans: Heart Nebula.

8- NASA: Exploring the Antennae.

9- NASA: Crescent Moon from the International Space Station.

10- Petrichara.

11- Getty Images.

12- NASA: SMACS 0723.

13- Reuters

[andoutofharm]

you won’t even remember that you’re dying // i’m just a full tank away from freedom

i saw the tv glow (2024) // bishops knife trick - fall out boy

[vacilllat0rr]

Fav pics of Hayden, she's so gorg

[uhcakepop]

Blue banisters will forever have a place in my heart ‹𝟹

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[dolylove]

[brhrhrhwifbrhqodithehdhth]

Lana Del Rey Rares(ish)

[firewalkwithme-1992]

me when lana releases her new country album ੈ✩‧₊˚ 🧺*:･

[swiftiesforceasefire]

Taylor had a few great moments at the Grammys last night, but there was one that stood out to us as particularly special: she got to pose together with Boygenius and their Artists4Ceasefire pins.

On October 18, Julien Baker was one of the first major celebrities to speak up about Palestine when she shared resources from IfNotNow on her otherwise rarely used X (Twitter) account encouraging people to go out and support a ceasefire in Gaza. She wrote:

I’m not a geo-political scholar or an expert in organizing, I just believe peace is possible, and I fundamentally do not think that a humanitarian conflict can be eased by advancing a war machine that reduces human lives to collateral in order to protect a state

Lucy Dacus also shared fundraisers to help support Palestinians shortly after the aggressions began, and a donation link is still her Instagram bio link even now. The two of them and Phoebe Bridgers signed the Artists4Ceasefire petition the FIRST time it went around, and brought the issue to the Grammys with their pins.

They say you are who you surround yourself with. It seems like @taylorswift has chosen some principled artists for friends - we'll see if she decides to take after them!

[prettieinpink]

HOW TO BEGIN HEALING

ACKNOWLEDGE THE PAIN AND DAMAGE. Others will try frequently to avoid these feelings and the thought that they’re hurt or hurting. However, it is a massive roadblock to starting your journey. 

You have to truly confront yourself. Journal, vent to someone, draw or however you feel is best to truly express how you feel, you do. 

EXTRACT TRIGGERS. Don’t let your physical environment encourage triggers that resurface your hurt self or continue to hurt you. E.g. friends, social media, family, bad habits etc. 

DAILY REFLECTION. You have to start to confront your feelings and experiences, but I know, it’s scary and we don’t want to revisit bad times. Please try to do some self-reflection daily about personal feelings and experiences, as it gets easier when it’s so frequent. 

ESTABLISH ORDER & ROUTINES. Start putting in good habits in your life and slowly improve your mental and physical well-being. Healing is going to be all over the place and messy. So when we have a routine to fall back on when needed, it just makes us feel better. 

ACTUAL SELF-CARE. Everything showers and face masks are nice and all, but they are not the only aspects of self-care. Self-care is doing the things that are good for you, disregarding how you currently feel. E.g. cooking and eating a healthy breakfast instead of eating takeout. 

BE PATIENT AND PERSISTENT. Healing is going to be hard regardless of what hurt you. There will be days when you feel like giving up. However, I encourage you to fight those feelings of hopelessness and continue. 

REMOVE SHAME FROM YOUR MIND. Another roadblock, it limits you from all the help and lessons you get in life. It isolates you, from everybody else who does care about you and wants to help. Asking for anything is not embarrassing. 

RECONNECT WITH YOURSELF. Start doing hobbies that you love, learning about things you’ve been curious about, and reading books on your favourite topics. Reconnection is so important because it brings emotional and mental prosperity. 

[moonarri]

Always.

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