I will Obey

The story of how one man submitted to his wife that changed his life forever

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Money makes the world go round

This week I have found a new kink in my armor that my wife is more than happy to use to her advantage. As well as ensuring that i do not touch myself in her absense (this is done purely through honestly as she absolutely hates the idea of having me trapped in a device but I do wish she would!) she has now entertained the idea that I give her 10% of my income every month so she can buy herself shoes makeup and anything that makes her more attractive and feeling better about herself.

I found that when she demands things rather than asking, I just do it without thinking. Carefully selected words such as loser, bitch, cumslut and pay me seemed to do the trick. In fact it was yesterday on my way to work when I got a text message that read somewhere along the lines of “your only role is to pay me you pathetic loser” that made me get an instant hard on in the middle of the street and turn around to walk to the Cash Machine

I did manage to maintain myself after a few minutes however, did not go to the cashpoint and went to work. I told her what happened and she laughed at me and called me pathetic.

Later that afternoon I received another text message “get those bitches to pay you otherwise I might have to pimp your arse out”

My response was “you are a mean girl, as I then walked back to the shop to buy her flowers,wine  a card filled with money I took from the cash Machine and then added my debit card in which leaves me with no money. I now have to ask her if I want it.

So in the evening I got home cleaned the house, made the dinner and waited for her to arrive. She came home and gave me a kiss while I sat her down and poured her a glass of wine. We then had an amazing dinner together, spaghetti bologneise.

After dinner we went upstairs and I poured her a bath and she discovered the flowers and card. The card actually suggested what i wanted to give her financially and suggested she name her percentage of my earnings from home.

The card had a pretty pair of shoes on the front and I suggested she buy some nice shoes but of course she can buy what she likes with my money, its her money after all.

She told me she wanted 10% of my earnings every month, which seems logical as many churchgoers give their church 10% of their earnings and she is my religion and I worship her.

The bath ran, and I gave her a pamper session ensuring every part of her body was clean, she stepped out and I dried her off. I was then asked to strip and give her a full body buff with some moisturising cream, I kissed her feet afterwards and she led my head to her pussy so i got to work. After some time she demanded I fuck her till she came, then I continued until I explosed inside her, during which she told me to go down and clean up my mess. I nodded and placed my head back between her legs, keeping my mouth open as my tongue lapped up my cum back into my mouth.

This moment right here was the moment I knoew I had finally submitted to my wife, the moment I had waited for so long to happen, when I could finally give in to my urges of cleaning cum from my wifes pussy.

Fast forward to the next day.

We we supposed to go the gym but were both far too tired!

She demanded breakfast so i got up and made it while she made herself a smoothie. It was a protein stacked breakfast as I am bulking up for my own gains at the gym.

After breakfast I followed her back to the bedroom and she made me kneel behind her with my face against her arse while she got ready, she made comments about me being a good boy and that I wouldn’t mind if she saw other men and got pretty for them, there would be nothing I could do and she would be right, I would have to sit there and just watch.

As much as it excited me her talking that way to me, having that power over me. It also scares me but the power my wife has over me I am sure will continue to grow and I will never say no to her needs and demands, no matter what they are.

I am learning to understand my place and find myself very content in my position.

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Patience Darling

Its been some months since I posted to my blog. Things moved too quickly for my wife and I. I guess I became one of those demanding types that I hate and it felt a little bit like “work” for her.

Back then I go so into my role that I was “expecting” tasks every day that I would just LOVE to do, but when it comes to it she doesn't want to spend her time thinking up what task to give me, she just wants things done.

This time round we are trying things differently and I hope that things work the way we want them to, instead of tasks I have noticed hints. 

Example:

Wife: Baby, my back hurts. Husband: Gets out the body lotion and immediately gets to work with a massage.

Example 2

Husband: Missy are you going to eat that piece of bread, Wife: Sure but I can’t be bothered to butter it Husband butters it for her.

Example 3:

Wife: Take me to the bathroom and wash by feet little bitch Husband doesn't say a word, takes her hand and leads her to the bathroom while his cock rises at the thought of serving his wife, cleaning them. His wife then rewards him by letting his masturbate over her feet and cleaning his cum off with his tongue.

I still need to learn not to ask for things and only offer my opinion when expected of me but my cum tasted so good I had to ask for seconds this evening!

So anyway, this time round. We are taking it slowly and I will learn to be a much better submissive husband and take my duties seriously. Pampering her, kissing her feet when asked and doing anything that is asked of me without question. I hope I am doing well and her own dominance gets stronger as this ultimately what we both want. 

She is taking complete control of my finances next month, which leaves me without my bank card, and other than the fact that I will have to ask her for permission to use it like it. I will likely feel like a a boy asking mummy for his pocket money on the other hand I think it will keep me in a constant state of arousal and that mixed in with her keeping me locked until she wants to use me, not in a real device but in trust...I can only imagine desperately wanting to pamper her every day.

But anyway, this time it will be better. As I know my role and don’t need to be told what to do..I havent been given any rules as such but I know what is expected of me and i can only guess in time as my wife gets more into her role, certain rules will come into play. 

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Being submissive can be extemely difficult

Being submissive can be extemely difficult. Being the dominant I can imagine to be even tougher.

I yearn to learn, to be good, respectful and obedient to my wife and I want her to teach be to be a better submissive her way. It's not just about sex and spankings and cumming (or not) although that may be the ultimate weapon for any woman who wants to train her husband. After all we are men and this is what makes us tick. My wife doesn't want sex all the time, most women don't and we need to respect that. Wether or not the wife chooses to cage you or not.

However. If you do forget to put your husband in their place and simply leave them to "get on with their life" you will find a few things start to happen.

1. They start to masturbate 2. They get cocky 3. They forget their place 4. Everthing starts to go backwards

What I mean by this is that all the hard work that you put in place to make your husband the man you want to be ends up going to waste because you have forgotten to remind them who you really are and why they should respect you. It's easy to fall into the trap when it gets busy and there are 10 things to do, however your husband needs to be led in one way or another if you are to make a man out of him. Women are strong creatures and tehy too need reminding of this fact.

Men desire to be led by women, most don't even know this.

To keep your man under control its extremely important to make them want you, yearn for you and remind them who is in control. Leaving it for too long can cause a backlash and the husband you once controlled starts to fight back. It's not that he wants to fight back, it is simply his way of telling you that you need to take back control. That is all.

Busy lives can cause things to turn, but a simple weekly reminder. A whisper in the ear or a weekly task to keep them in line is all it takes. It doesnt have to be every day, you are not there to work for him so you shouldn't feel like you have to. But remember he wants to serve and obey, but if you forget about him. He will ultimately forget him place.

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Benefits of Male Chastity

That's right; male chastity is not just fun and games, there are real benefits to the male chastity lifestyle within a couple. Find below the top 10 benefits of male chastity, so you and your spouse can make the right decision about your relationship to put him under loving lock and key.

It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, all of his sexual energy should be directed at you. It should not be wasted on him touching himself and thinking about other women. As long as he can masturbate, he is psychologically cheating on you - and lying to you by default.

Your sex life will improve. Because he'll have to please you in order to get his release, he'll become a more experimental and better lover. You will have more orgasms per week than you've ever had before.

Your relationship will become stronger. Male chastity encourages open and honest communication about each others needs. This is an incredible benefit for any couple, and why male chastity can help any couple improve their natural bonding.

His orgasms will improve. As long as he can masturbate regularly, he is taking action that desensitizes his penis. Once he is on a more normal ejaculation schedule, his penis will become more sensitive and his orgasms will become stronger.

You'll never have to worry about him cheating on you. Face it - most men, no matter how much they love their wives, can't turn down an attractive, sexy woman. Male chastity makes it impossible for him to act on these urges, so you are helping him remain faithful.

The romance will come back into your relationship. As long as he knows he can have sex with you any time he wants, there's no reason for him to romance you. That's why the romance stopped after you got married. By limiting his sexual access to you, you'll train him to be the romantic lover he was when you were still dating.

You'll never have to perform oral sex on him again. Of course, you can if you want to; but he'll be quite happy with any sort of release, and certainly never bother you to do it for him.

Your friends will compliment you on what a wonderful, attentive husband you have. They will be so jealous of your strong, committed relationship.

He'll become much more helpful around the house. Knowing that the only way he can get the release his body craves so badly is by pleasing you, he'll actually volunteer to do the dishes, clean the bathroom and make the bed every morning. Won't that be nice?

He'll feel better about himself. Most men are ashamed that they masturbate so often (usually seven to 15 times a weeks! Ewww!). But, they are slaves to their libido and can't help themselves. It's an addiction. Mostly it makes them feel like little boys who can't control themselves. Once he no longer is able to give into the temptation to masturbate, he'll feel proud of his self-control and behave more like a grown-up man who releases his sexuality into his wife, instead of down the shower drain.

Those are just the top 10 benefits of the male chastity lifestyle. Don't you think it would be a wonderful addition to your long-term relationship?

[iwillobeyher]

Today has been a rather odd day.

Today has been a rather odd day. The first time my wife denied me, it was mighty frustrating as it was my first time. I had the horn like crazy and I spend my entire time thinking about nothing but my wife.

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I feel the pain today

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My punishment was perfect

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Last night started out well.

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I have started to truly accept my chastity

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Why I dont want to cum any time soon..

I read a very interesting post today on Mistress Ivey's blog titled "Anything" Mistress Ivey discusses how keeping a man in Chastity and preventing him from cumming will make him do anything for you and I agree. Mistress Ivey uses the following words on her blog

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