i sucked a dick for the first time and it didnt go as well as expected lol. wed been drinking a lot but we've hooked up before and we're really close so its not weird for us or anything but when i had his dick in my mouth i kept choking a little bit. i'd never done it before so i tried my best but eventually i had to stop and he understood. is there any way i can get better or anything i can do so that that wont happen anymore? i really wanna get better at it and be good at it.
Practice makes perfect, that also applies to oral sex. You say you felt like you were choking, that probably means you took too much into your mouth. Or did he held your head while you were down there? Because boys tend to do that and personally I think that’s very uncomfortable. So if he did that, you could ask him to not do that the next time.
I also found some tips and tricks you can try the next time!
Build Up To The BJ - Oral Sex Foreplay. Often you may find yourself making your way straight to your man’s crotch from simply kissing him. This is all fine and good. But men actually enjoy foreplay too! This is an blow job tip that many don’t realize. While men love quickies, foreplay makes their orgasms feel a lot stronger and more enjoyable than just 30 seconds in your mouth.So instead of just ripping his pants off and taking him straight into your mouth, start off slower. Try lowering your hand to his crotch, outside of his trousers and gently massage him through his trousers. When you get his trousers off, stimulate around his legs and groin area before you finally take him into your mouth. This bj tip where you build up to oral sex will literally have him begging you to speed up…perfect for building anticipation!
From The Base To The Tip: At this stage, your man will be very eager to start getting some oral sex from you. This is perfect. This next blow job technique is the perfect way to transition to giving him an actual blow job. Start by taking his trousers/briefs off so everything is easier to access. Gently hold the base of his penis in your hand and then use your tongue to slowly lick it from the base right to the tip. You can try licking from the tip down to the base of his cock too, but often you’ll find it to be a little awkward.Rather than just constantly licking straight from the bottom to the top, try a few variations of this technique. Try moving your tongue from side-to-side as you make your way from the base to the tip. You’ll also find that your man loves it when you pay most of your attention to the top of his member.
Make It Wet. Making it wet for him means that it’s going to feel a lot more luscious and sensual which means that his orgasm will feel a lot stronger and more enjoyable when he does reach orgasm.If you naturally produce a lot of saliva, then you are off to a great start at making your oral sex a wetter experience. But if you don’t (or if you want to make it even wetter) then you should consider using flavored lube on him. Alternatively, if you want it to taste even better, then try whipped cream or even some syrup.
Not Just In And Out: Now it’s time to actually start giving him a proper blow job. One of the major mistakes that girls constantly make is using the same old boring oral sex techniques over and over on their man, instead of using a little variation. The main blow job technique that is used over and over again is called the “In And Out.” This is when you simply take his penis in and out of your mouth with your lips wrapped around his shaft.The thing is that most guys love this if you use it with other techniques like:Keeping him in your mouth while using your tongue to “Twirl And Swirl” around it, massaging it as you do.Using your tongue to focus on just the head of his penis.Giving some attention to his testicles. You can lick them or take them into your mouth and gently suck and softly squeeze them.
Try the ‘Magic 8 Ball’: Keeping a regular rhythm with your mouth while giving a blow job helps build a man’s orgasm, but to avoid both of you getting bored by endlessly bobbing your head up and down, perform eight shallow sucks, just taking the tip of his penis between your lips. Next, treat him to seven shallow sucks and one deeper one. After that, give him six shallow sucks and two deeper ones, and so on… until he is ready to burst.
Use your hands: If your partner’s penis is on the large side you may find it more than a mouthful. Blow jobs can be difficult to perform on bigger penises but don’t worry - you’re not expected to be able to take it all the way down. A simple trick to blow job success is to use your hand and your mouth together - which will feel good for any size of penis. Use an edible lubricant or your saliva to get things going moving and move your hand from the shaft (bottom) to the tip until he’s really hard. Then add your mouth, taking him in as your hand moves up and down.
No Teeth! Many women want to learn oral sex tips on how to make their bjs better for their man. But very few look for the things they should avoid doing during it. This is critical if you want your man to have a good time.The number one thing that you should avoid when giving your man head is…using your teeth.His penis is obviously very sensitive, so even accidentally grazing it with your teeth can be incredibly painful for him. And for most men, pain is a turn off. If you find that it’s difficult to avoid accidentally grazing his penis with your teeth, then a great technique is to wrap your lips back around your teeth so that they have no chance of coming into contact with his sensitive bits.
Sensitive areas: To make him go weak at the knees, when giving him a blow job linger on the parts of his anatomy that are particularly sensitive - the tip of his penis, his testicles and his perineum - the secret spot between the testicles and the anus. He’ll also appreciate lots of attention around the shaft whether you use your mouth, tongue or hands, some good shaft action will get him closer to blowing his load.
Involving other areas: Oral sex is about using your mouth to maximum effect, on his penis, and other areas too. Try gently (very gently!) sucking on his testicles one at a time. Lightly kiss his inner thighs. Lick his super sensitive perineum (along the line between his anus and testicles). All added together he’ll be totally under your control - a total turn on for you too!
Vary the Motion: Don’t take him in your mouth the entire time for a boring, predictable ride. “Switch from sucking my penis to licking my shaft up and down with only the tip of your tongue,” says Mike, 35. “Then start to suck again, only to stop and tease me with more licking.”
Hot and cold: Blow jobs and oral sex should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations. Temperature play can be fun, so try taking a mouthful of warm tea, swill it around your mouth and swallow then take your man’s penis into your mouth for 20 seconds and suck. Then take a mouth full of cold water and do the same. The difference in hot and cold will feel fabulous for him. You can also try champagne, fizzy water, mint, ice cubes and ice cream for extra unexpected sensations.
Make Some Noise: Enthusiasm makes a big difference, so show him you really, really like it, says Ercan, 28. “Moaning is not only exciting to hear, but it creates a gentle vibration on the shaft for added stimulation.”
Take an Active Rest: Your mouth and jaw might get tired, and that’s OK. Take a break, but to keep things going, touch him in other places to ensure he stays turned on while you stop. “A love bite on my inner thigh or groin area feels amazing,” says Ed, 34. Or keep one hand on him while you kiss his neck or chest for a minute, then return to the action below.
Gagging: Gagging during oral sex isn’t something to be embarrassed about. He’ll think you’re gagging because he’s so massive and if you actually tell him that then you’ll give him one enormous ego boost that he’ll love you for. If you find yourself gagging often then try using your hands as well - see oral sex tip ‘use your hands’
Look Up at Him: Just because you “go down” doesn’t mean you should disappear. Connect with him by looking up into his eyes every now and then
Up Your Intensity at the End: Don’t check out when he says he’s almost there. The more “grand” your movements are at the grand finale, the better the moment feels for him. So grab his butt and pull him closer to you as he’s finishing, or try giving the boys a light squeeze to intensify the feeling.
Ejaculation: When he starts to come, there’s the question of whether to swallow or not. You don’t have to: each to their own. If you find the thought of sperm in your mouth revolting, don’t force yourself to swallow: it won’t make it any less pleasurable for him. Just make sure he withdraws in time. Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage. Some men like to come onto breasts, bellies or other parts of their partner but make sure you’ve agreed to this first - it’s entirely your choice. Of course you can swallow too - which brings us onto the subject of taste…
Ejaculation - improving the taste: Some foods and drinks do have an effect on the taste of your guys load. Alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine all add a tang to your man’s semen and make it taste like a bad night out. The day after a binge it’s probably best to avoid blow jobs altogether! Vegetarians have better tasting sperm but too much cauliflower, broccoli and asparagus can have a seriously negative impact - so get your guy to limit these foods if you’re planning to swallow after an oral sex session. Some foods to avoid are obvious - garlic and onions make our breath smell - and add a funky taste to our guy’s semen too thanks to their high sulphur content. If you want to sweeten his spunk try getting your man to eat plenty of fruits that are high in natural sugars - pineapple juice is a winner. Also sweet and fragrant foods and herbs like parsley, wheatgrass, celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon can all make for a sweet oral sex session.
Sexually transmitted diseases: When giving (or receiving) oral sex, be aware that hepatitis B, fungal infections and other STDs can be passed on via oral sex and blow jobs. The risk of HIV transmission from performing oral sex is low but it can still happen. If you’re unsure of your partner’s sexual past, use a condom. Mouth infections can also be transmitted via oral sex and remember never to give head when you have a cold sore unless you want to give him herpes!
I hope this helps! But like I said, practice makes perfect. An maybe the most important tip: try to enjoy it yourself and don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing!
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