Jamie🪐

22 | they/them stardew valley enthusiast ♿️ queer artist pfp by wetheratking

[jamiesprite]

Who is Jam?

🦕 you can call me Jam or Jamie!

🦕 they/them pronouns & neutral terms

🦕 22 years old

🦕 i am taken <3 (hiii)

🦕 physically disabled/chronically ill & mentally ill

🦕 see more about me and my blog under the cut

More about Jam

🪐 i suffer from almost daily chronic migraine which greatly impacts my life. along with that i have chronic pain and a multitude of other things you dont need to know

🪐 i am autistic and adhd

🪐 i have two cats! serafina and soleigh

🪐 i love stardew valley, dinosaurs, project hail mary and creating art

🪐 other things i like rn are Minecraft and Minecraft youtubers (hermitcraft/life series, ldshadowlady, smallishbeans, grian, geminitay), homestuck, DC, marvel, friendslop games (lethal company, peak, repo etc)

What is this blog for?

🌿 anything i desire. im horrible at remembering side blogs so everything is on one lol

🌿 artfight is coming up so expect more art from me!

🌿 im hyperfixated on project hail mary rn so expect many reblogs about it

🌿 stardew valley is my life... perhaps I'll post about my farm idk

🌿 my tags: #jam yaps, #jam art, #jam reblog #jam valley

Before you interact/follow...

🌟 due to being disabled i am not active all the time sorry!

🌟 please do not direct message me if you're under 18 i will not respond

🌟 i am very political. fuck trump, fuck ICE, anti genocide, no one is illegal on stolen land etc

🌟 i am also a very queer person who doesn't give a fuck about label discourse. he/him lesbians? hell yeah. trans people are being killed daily!!!

🌟 i love my block button <3

everything is subject to change. last updated june 19th 2026

[kaviary-blog]

BloodyMary Swap AU but it’s Rocky in the SM-13

Does it make sense? No. Do I care? No. It’s funny. Have a silly comic

[jamiesprite]

> Jam become Jeimyn!

fallen so deep into Homestuck I've made a troll oc guys. i love them though they're so cutie already <3 (shout out chem who picked the name for me)

[wetheratking]

First attack of the day >:)

This is Whirlpool/Tsunami by @jamiesprite on Tumblr and Artfight!!

I've never drawn a bass before, so I'll let my resident bass-playing moot judge me on that (you know who you are 🫵)

They were super fun to draw 😋😋

[jamiesprite]

THATS MY OC GUYS!!!! WHIRLPOOL MY BABY

i looove watching the timelapse its so good

thank you so much again im in love with this art ❤️

[nutellabit]

Hi plasma nation

[chokedqwerty]

that au wehere ilyukhina and yao dont die and everyone is a bit more happymaybe? a bit sillier?

[tb-png]

every super has their favorite bat! 🦇

[drizzledrawings]

I love when platonic love and romantic love is so blurred that it doesn’t even matter anymore. All that matters is the devotion that’s there, the unwavering devotion

[notsotinyblob]

eva stratt i'd do anything for you

[nyenye0701]

maybe my head is in the gutter but why did he describe rocky taking it apart in such detail then go into how skilled rocky is

[alienatedartt]

atlas

[akaanmo]

drawing my faves with things i suffer from

[graves-yard]

Bloodymary 2 me hashtag my bloodymary

[sisaloofafump]

Local deity drops by for a kiss

Returning to my roots (sketchy kissy superbat)

[ceruleankitkats]

it's so annoying when your weighted blanket floats away while you're sleeping.

[to-proudly-go]

They haven't talked about this particular idiom yet

[loudn-mcyt]

The core problem with basically every single instance of boundaries discourse I see is that nobody seems to know what the word "boundary" actually means.

Boundaries are personal and social. They are based on mutual respect. Boundaries are not orders, they are requests, intended to establish a cause and effect: if you do this thing, I will do this other thing. "If you show me ship fic, I will block you" is a boundary. "You are not allowed to make ship fic at all" is not a boundary, that is a rule.

Rules are not boundaries. Rules are based on power and control - they are imposed upon you. This is not necessarily bad, but it must come with understanding of where they can be applied. Rules only apply where the rulemaker has control of what is allowed. And these are how many creators seem to approach what they call "boundaries". Again, this is not necessarily bad - their own twitch chats, discords, and maintags on social media ARE spaces in which they have control (some spaces more than others - maintags are shakier since creators don't have moderation power there, but that can be alleviated by creating a dni tag and asking people to place content there instead), and are therefore places where they can make rules about what they do or do not want to be shown. This is fine. Creators have the right to moderate their own spaces how they wish.

Where the problems emerge is that many creators seem to assume that they have the power to apply their rules (in the guise of "boundaries") in places that are not their own. Non-main tags on social media, archive of our own, private discords - these are locations in which the application (or lack thereof) of boundaries is no longer the choice of a creator. They do not have power; thus, any choices made by individuals in those spaces must necessarily be based only on the social agreement between fan and creator, an inherently parasocial construction. And in this case, the parasocial agreement that actually exists is not "this thing must never be created", it is "this thing should not be created or shared in my spaces".

I would argue that the primary issue in how "boundaries" are approached is a misunderstanding of how all of this works. Boundaries cannot be enforced in private spaces because there is no power relationship there. They can only be requested. As a result, when creators attempt to enforce boundaries in spaces that are not their own, what will actually happen is a series of barely-controlled harassment campaigns aimed towards people who are, by and large, following the social contract of boundaries but not the power-enforced contract of rules. And that harassment is far more of a problem than any person in a private discord writing something against boundaries. One might make someone uncomfortable.

The other gets people hurt. And that's where the line is crossed.