AwkwardJan

“That is all I want in life: for this pain to seem purposeful.”

[robertdowneyjjr]

Married life with Ellen and Portia.

[each-our-own-devil]

IDC HOW MANY TIMES IVE REBLOGGED THIS IT IS LITERALLY MY FAVOURITE FUCKING THING

[luxurae]

[crrocs]

so i tried to make this deep and meaningful and added a water gif

[sextnoise]

I AM DEAD

[janbombshell]

Lmao #Dead

[enduredean]

u take a lot of selfies. do u think ur pretty or smoething? ur not

hi there, anon. i didn’t realize i took a lot of selfies. thanks for the info. so, your question was whether i think i’m pretty. you already answered that no, i am not. 

and i have to agree, anon. i don’t think i’m pretty bc i’m not.

i’m fat.

i always have a double chin.

i constantly look like i haven’t slept in a week bc of my dark circles

and, i always look sunburnt. idfk why

i have this white line across my nose that makeup can’t cover up 

i have tons of wrinkles on my forehead. like what the hell? i’m 25

also, it’s the size of fucking texas

i still don’t know how to smile in pictures bc i hate my fucking teeth

my feet are flat. my hips are huge. my boobs are weird. i am covered in stretch marks. my voice is grating. my ears stick out two miles from my head. i am always fucking sweating and i’ve been asked if i was pregnant more times than i can count. 

so, you’re right. i’m not pretty. i can’t stand the way i look.

which is why it’s so fucking important that i post “a lot” of selfies. bc, anon, you’d better fucking believe that if i look in the mirror that day and don’t cringe, i’m gonna take a fucking picture to save that tiny little second. and GOD FORBID i show the world that i posses a little self love every once in a fucking while. 

TO ANYONE READING THIS: DON’T EVER LET SOMEONE MAKE YOU FEEL ASHAMED FOR LIKING THE WAY YOU LOOK—EVEN IF IT’S JUST FOR A SECOND. IF YOU LOOK NICE, YOU TAKE THAT FUCKING SELFIE AND YOU SHOW IT TO THE GOD DAMN WORLD BC THEY DESERVE TO SEE THE GOD/GODDESS YOU ARE!

that beard finally coming in? go ahead, bro. take a selfie.

you finally got that piercing you’ve been wanting? not really my style, but you’re fucking rocking it. take a selfie.

your boobs look awesome in that shirt? take a selfie.

you finally lose or gain that weight you’ve been working on? take a selfie.

your eyeliner look awesome? your new sunglasses make you look like  a celebrity avoiding the paparazzi? you killing that tux? you feel a tiny, rare level of self love? you always on a high level of self love? you just like your face? 

TAKE A MOTHAFUCKING SELFIE!

thanks for the question, anon. this one’s for you.

[wentzula-deactivated20141012]

i aspire to get to that level of hot where my hair looks like shit and i smell like black coffee and yesterday’s eyeliner is smudged under my eyes but i still look fine as hell

[janbombshell]

Doesn't every girl inspire to get to this level?

[bvlgarimeg]

Fuck ur Kimye this is goals 💚

[sabriirbas]

My future better look like this

[draped-in-gxld]

Majorrrr goals.

[wishiwasastoner]

😍😍😍

[impvrfectlyleni]

I bet they fight over conditioner But that’s none of my business 💁

[watchthefirefliesdance]

[67888875322467]

I already made a separate post with a tweet I made regarding the subject, but I wanted to speak about it in further detail.

This morning I was enjoying a cup of hot chocolate at the beach by myself when a man I have never seen before grabbed my head from behind to adjust it so he could observe the tattoos behind my ear and on the back of my neck. I was so terrified I couldn’t even move. When he had the audacity to ask me, “What do the diamonds behind your ear mean?” I flipped. 

"How dare you invade my personal space and touch me without my consent! I should knock your teeth down your throat for that!"

"— but I just wanted to see your tattoos!" 

Unfortunately, things like this are very common in the body modification community. People grab my arms to look at my sleeves or my hands to look at my hand/finger tattoos, some will adjust the top of my shirt to look at my chest piece, a few have lifted up my skirts and dresses to look at the tattoos on my shins and thighs, and one person grabbed the bottom of my lip and pulled it out when they saw I had a tattoo inside my lip.

I hear countless stories like mine on a daily basis. Some include how people will stick their fingers in the lobes of someones ear, how people will touch the piercings on someones face and ask “did it hurt?”, and how people will touch the bodies of others to observe their tattoos. It’s a trend that seriously needs to end.

You shouldn’t touch anyone without their permission, but people seem to think it’s justifiable to touch someone with body modifications because “I just want to see!” Nothing justifies or excuses it. Body modifications doesn’t mean people can touch us without our consent. Please respect the individual spaces of others and knock it off.

[patronsaintofbaddecisions]

THANK YOU

[temporaryproblematicurl-deactiv]

That is so fucking infuriating WHY DO PEOPLE THINK THIS IS AN OK THING TO DO

[undertherumtree]

I once punched a dude out for lifting my shirt up. His reason? “I wanted to see you tattoo.”

[call-me-bekki]

Stop asking me to trust you while I’m still coughing up water from the last time you let me drown.

[write20xx]

I’m sorry I gave you everything I had without making sure you wanted it.

Heavy (#418: April 21, 2014)

[animalsnaps]

[kushandwizdom]

[veryfunnymemes]

Good Vibes HERE

[sapphicwedding]

How can emptiness be so heavy?

Six Word Story  (via virctis)

[dreamcatchingandkisses]

People shouldn’t assume parenting is more natural to women than men, these guys are the cutest.

[thegreatgherkin87]

How fucking adorable is this family… Just look at them

[myheartisasleep]

[lifeofthisrn2-deactivated202510]

I usually don’t post long things like this, but I truly believe everyone should read this article and really let it sink in.

[hellahoujuus]

WHEN U DRAW SOMETHING AND IT COMES OUT FUCKING GOOD

[kushandwizdom]

[words-of-emotion]

Good Vibes HERE