selfdestructing

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[maliketh]

Stupidest Most Dumbest Fucking Bitch Alive (self diagnosed)

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[hirxeth]

[cwote]

this quote helps me during the bad times and helps me enjoy the good times :))

[6thdmnsion]

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my sensitivity levels are set up, I’m gone need you to give me 5-7 business days to recover from what you said to me.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my anxiety is set up, I’m gone need you to not put me on the spot.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my clapback game is set up, I’m gone need us to continue this argument via text where I have a greater advantage.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my passiveness is set up, I’m gone indirectly tell you I’m mad at you.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my emotional trauma is set up, I’m gone need you to not ever disappear on me.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my toxicity bubble is set up, I’m gone choose loneliness over your negative energy any day.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my heart is set up, I’m gone give you 1,000 chances because being the source of your happiness is more important than my own happiness.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

The way my forgiveness is set up, I’m gone give you more chances than you deserve.

[johnnaholmgren]

So you know when you’d rather not share an opinion online because gasp what if someone doesn’t agree and yes, for sure it’s easier to just keep it light and relatable. Definitely. But this is my heart. Babies grow within us for nine entire months. But as a society (is this just the United States? Tell me how it is in your country, please) we almost instantly begin to set the notion and expectation towards independence. We ask whether the baby is a “good” baby. She’s considered “good” only if she’s sleeping through the night. Then we applause when someone gets through the weekend of withdrawing from their newborn in the night. Success. I am all for different routes of parenting. We are all one forest of trees, rooted but growing separately. Some co-sleep full time, some babes sleep in cribs. So many ways to do SO many things! Different is not bad. This isn’t to shame past decisions, it’s to encourage current or future parents in the same position I once was in. I have had intensely difficult nights. Nights where I felt I had nothing left to give. I felt like I couldn’t offer quite enough goodness to their cries and I have felt so tired and hopeless. Those nights will be there too, but the morning comes and strength will always return. But with everything I have in me— go to your child when he cries. Hold your child while she is sad. Run to your infant’s needs and envelope them with touch and empathy and human care and connection. Listening and responding is the most tangible way to show what it means to care for another human being. The child will eventually sleep. Their health will not be endangered if they wake at night. To care for another is to BE that for our children from the beginning so that when all these current children grow up, they’ll all be adults who have veins that drip and bleed kindness and empathy. They will have learned how to treat another soul because of the way they were treated. So forever and ever, if your child is crying out for you, go to them!

[killue]

realizing u have to wake up again tomorrow and the next day and the day after that:

[idiona]

do u ever do something mildly impolite like not give a nice goodbye or not hold a door and spend the rest of the day thinking about it

[neilnevins-deactivated20240617]

The most relatable moment from spongebob for me is when he went over to Sandy’s house for the first time and was too polite and socially nervous to tell her he was slowly dying

[hishap]

white women: omg i read an article that men hate high waisted skirts so i wore 17 pairs on top of eacha other to school because fuck the patriarchy and my principal told me to take it off because it was a hindrance so i spit acid into his eyes. ANY WOMAN SHOULD WEAR WHATEVER SHE WANTS. #feminism

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black women: i can’t go shopping without dressing like i’m going on an interview. i have to prove with my clothing choice that i have money to the store clerks because if i go out in sweatpants and a t-shirt they’ll accuse me of stealing and perform embarrassing and degrading searches on me in front of everyone. white women may be free to wear whatever they want, but i am not.

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[leafsea]

deflect // 1.31.2018

[adrenaline]

i love you but fuck you

[memeufacturing-deactivated20161]

a person from 150 years ago would be terrified by modern stuff . however , a duck from 150 years ago would just be all like ,still got lakes? yes ? okay cool

[elodieunderglass]

“How fleeting are all human passions compared with the massive continuity of ducks.”

― Dorothy L. Sayers, Gaudy Night (1935)

[chatdomestique]

Reblogging again because I thought they changed the quote so I decided to look up the actual quote and it’s not fake that is very much the actual quote

[paleaged]

me: logs into gmail from a different computer

my phone, having a nervous breakdown: if you don’t confirm your identity in the next ten seconds i’m gonna shoot your whole family and then myself

[pxpi]

Don’t fuck wit my feelings while knowing I’m down as fuck for you

[princess-amz]

your blog sucks

you should see my life