eat your vegetables

Jayboli/Jay - they/he/mor/mors - draws sometimes

[cutecipher]

whether or not men benefit from feminism has no bearing on whether feminism is worthwhile

[cutecipher]

put another way. i dont care about how men are impacted by feminism

[cutecipher]

already have people mad about this. okay here's another take. men should be feminists for no benefit.

[mantis-lizbian]

just as white people should be anti-racism for no benefit, and cis people should be pro-trans for no benefit. the only "benefit" that should be required is the creation of a more just world, not because you, personally, actually do get something out of it.

[gallusgalluss]

CHIMERA: Creature of ART

[monkeyislandtwo]

we oc based artists stick together

[monkeyislandtwo]

its us and our 7 note drawings against the fucking world

[jaybol-iiiii]

one day ill make a new better blog from here & unfollow a ton of people and just make a little space for hanging out but for now goodbye everybody

[jaybol-iiiii]

sometimes i come on here for like 1 thing that i saw a friend link to and then i go into the evil land of 1million reblogs

[toddycats]

My hope for whoever is reading this is that your life starts making sense and coming together. I hope the good days are right around the corner for you.

[coldstream]

i love having friends who can communicate like adults it's so cool

[coldstream]

imagine being like "hey this made me feel bad" and they're like "oh sorry i'll try to be better about that" and that's all it is

[electricpurrs]

furries who like inflatable toys look at this creature right now

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[puzzler00m]

I think some people have a sort of noble savage view of deviant art fetish artists

[ba1laur]

hate thinking im in a safe space with other nd people bc ill bring up adhd and autism and theyre like ok yay same! then i bring up ocd and theyre like um alright and then i dare bring up schizotypal and the light in their eyes dies a little

[rabbitkinglune777]

i hope my transfemme and trans women friends and community members know I love them, especially black girls.

[rabbitkinglune777]

I'm sorry the world is so cruel to y'all. y'all are lovelies and one of the biggest inspirations of my art and overcoming many of my struggles

[creekfiend]

the thing is that I think lots of the time we talk about childhood trauma cycles wrong, because people will frame it as like, "this happened to this person, which is why they act like this" and really it's like, "all children learn social behavior via what is modeled for them by the adults around them and their peers; if what the adults in your life model for you repeatedly, over a long period of time, is that they get their needs met by dehumanizing others, then you will learn that the way needs get met is via dehumanization"

it isn't about how certain things being done to you somehow write Abuse Into Your Psyche, it's about learned behavior. it's about not being shown alternative models. (INTO MY LOUDSPEAKER) IT'S ALL ABOUT NOT BEING SHOWN ALTERNATIVE MODELS

[deepseasmetro]

if you think for even just a second how fucking crazy bonkers it is that women are so frequently kept from being protagonists or important or fully realized characters when its like. That is literally 50% of the world population. Half of all people (more or less. hopefully more as time marches on!) are women. And you look at media and think about how many protagonists are men and their best friends are men and the ensemble cast is 80-100% men and the fandoms are about men and the romances are about men. well. YOU GO INSANE

[samwisethewitch]

I literally do not care what the Bible says about any political issue. I am not Christian. Christian scripture should have zero effect on my life or my personal freedoms. 

[largishcat]

guys….,, being friends, like actual friends, with people you have systemic privilege over is going to involve some good-natured ribbing. it’s going to involve them complaining about [insert privileged group you belong to] in front of you or even to you. that’s not a personal attack, it’s because they think you’re cool enough to hang. it’s because they think they can express their frustration to you without you attacking them. you really want to prove them wrong?

[sodachalice]

you HAVE to stop fighting against the idea of "people being mad at you" they didn't invent people criticizing you in 2020. you need to direct that anger towards actual government officials and policies that are attempting to police your ability to do anything that WOULD get people mad at you, not the fucking people who do get mad at you. because they would get mad at you regardless! criticism isn't a new concept and CAN'T go away, so maybe we should focus on the literal nazis in office. like fuck! aren't you tired of this?!

[seymourworld]

Dont call it yumeshipping white baby

[seymourworld]

You can just say selfshipping. Its fine. Its just selfshipping. You do not need to Thing, Japan this