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it/he, adult

[spiralhouses]

THEO - IT/ITS - ADULT

welcome to my tumblr blog!

i am not white, i am not cis, i am not a singlet, i am not allistic, and i am not sane. posts will reflect this.

ART TAG: #artful TALK TAG: #talkful

if you want to see ALL my art (not just the pieces I find polished enough to post) you can check my toyhouse.

may post mildly suggestive content, will do my best to tag. no strict DNI but i block on a hairtrigger.

blacklist "#ventful" to avoid seeing my whining

[ekrixart]

thanks for walking me home

[spiralhouses]

gimmick blog where i make fr scries based on album covers

yes awesomeness

noo thats sucks

i don’t know what the fuck that is biiitch!!!!

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[spiralhouses]

i love engaging w other peoples music taste but unlike a lot of the blogs ive seen crop up i don’t really have a hobby or interest that has a large collection of colorful creatures i can pull out on a whim. bc im a fake cartoon fan

[spiralhouses]

gimmick blog where i make fr scries based on album covers

yes awesomeness

noo thats sucks

i don’t know what the fuck that is biiitch!!!!

Remaining time: 22 hours 45 minutes

[gawdland]

"divorced the wife today. Probably wont get the kids. Drank beer that was 300 caIs. Gonna go yell at minorities on facebook."

#oldmanblogging #this is an old man blog #this is what makes us old men #the big lebowski #hell is a middle aged man #male testeria #man interrupted #humbert #nickleback #im just a man

[decompose1]

an interesting amnt of people seem to think of intersexism as a "less bad" form of oppression for.... one of the only kinds of oppression that routinely involves mutilating infants and young children. and then a lifetime of very specific and unique medical abuse. it actually makes me feel kind of insane

[decompose1]

like. Trans bottom surgeries have to meet a pretty high standard- and that's a very good thing! People would not be getting these bottom surgeries if they were bad. Trans bottom surgeries are almost always very good, advanced, visually "realistic" (look close to or indistinguishable from natal genitals, depending on the surgery), and prioritize very good outcomes for function and sensation- genitals that work the way genitals should, feel pleasure (if desired), and heal well.

This is not true for IGM (intersex genital mutilation) victims. When i say intersex infants and children are being mutilated, i am not disparaging bottom surgery- i mean that the intersex ""corrective"" surgeries performed against our will do not meet the same standards. They aren't something we choose, they're forced on us. Victims of IGM are often left with chronic pain, issues with genital function and sensation, poor aesthetic outcomes, and scarring (which affects both the visual appearance AND can cause functional issues). These surgeries are completely unnecessary and done largely at the doctor's discretion, often without the knowledge of parents (either because they were not told or they were fooled), and the victim is almost always deeply unhappy (and often dysphoric) as a result. Doctors get to decide to mutilate us, lie to our families, and then also mistreat and abuse us for the rest of our lives. Further, outside of the surgical procedures, growing up intersex means routinely going through violating and invasive "inspections" of your genitals by doctors. I can recall having doctors, nurses, and volunteers demand to see my genitals as a young child, touching and examining them without my consent- same for my breasts once i hit puberty. Just about every intersex person i know can say the same. It's routine and constant medical and sexual abuse from medical professionals.

And that's not even getting into the social impact! Finding work is difficult when you're intersex. Dating is so much more dangerous when you're intersex. Intimacy is so much more dangerous when you're intersex. We have extremely high rates of childhood bullying, as well as extremely high rates of physical and sexual abuse. We're highly fetishized, both in broader society ("herm" porn) and even pretty significantly within the queer community. I hesitate to talk about my intersexness & my body in many spaces because of how many times talking about my body has resulted in people saying creepy shit about wanting my body and thinking people like me are ~sexy~, or asking invasive & often very dehumanizing questions. It's incredibly objectifying. It feels like i am not an equal to almost anyone, like i'm just some idea of a perfect sex toy with both parts and it feels awful. And everyone ignores it!!!! No one talks about it!!!! Everyone just brushes us off as this "lesser" issue, not as serious as things like homophobia or transphobia. We're always "collateral damage", "outliers", "edge cases", "accidental targets". And i'm sitting here trying to tell you we ARE targets! Society at large does not love us. It wishes to mutilate, rape, and abuse us. PLEASE love your intersex siblings. We're drowning and we need your help.

[adorableanimus]

"its still racist even if you act like youre joking"- something a shockingly few amount of people understand

[sailatina3]

No offense but if you're exclusively attracted to white people or cis people that is not a neutral or unbiased thing lmao. I know that may sound uncomfortable. But attraction is not this infallible thing that's completely uninfluenced from broader forces.

[indefiniteduration]

i started making fursonas for the whole cast, ill post them in duos as i make them !! :3

[lascitasdelashoras]

Brian Level, Vertigo

[drysqu1d]

this video's meant to be creepy but this part just made me laugh. go off spongebob

[storyweavingspider]

If you’re white, you really really shouldn’t have your pfp on a platform be a Black or brown character. If you absolutely must, PLEASE indicate you white in your bio for that platform even if you put absolutely no other personal info, especially if you don’t post photos of yourself otherwise.

Why?

Because I just had to have this conversation with a moot ive followed for months recently that I thought was Black or brown because their pfp was a face shot of a brown character. So because I never had a reason to DM them like “Hey comrade, you’re Black right?” given they was visually publicly portraying themselves as someone brown, I was casually acting to others as if they was as well and considering them among non-white community members. Which led to awkwardness when I brought them up as that publicly only to receive a DM profusely apologizing to me for accidentally misleading me because they were white and European lol.

If your only visual representation is a person of color and you don’t expressly state you aint one somewhere, a lot of people will assume on first inspection that you’re a person of color as well and aint gonna go like searching your personal tag to find a picture you posted where your hand is petting your cat to confirm your racialization.

This doesn’t mean don’t like/post Black or brown characters but just. I promise you can pin that artwork or put link to it just the same, you aint gotta be out here wearing it as your only face 😭

[fluffyfoxtails]

Hey, you. Random tumblr user. Can you be normal about Latinas without sexualizing them or calling them bitches, telling us how aggressive and spicy we are?

[seltzerwaterlime]

i love having hatred in my heart for extremely petty reasons ❤️ i hate that the same people who were calling selfshipping delusional cringe a year ago are now all into "yumeshipping" i lowkey hate the constant gentrification of japanese words and i hate that u cant say anything abt it without looking crazy 😃

[zd27]

every time i interact with my mutuals who are friends i feel like this image

[spiralhouses]

its crazy how i keep meeting people who later are like Im actually super into incest and sexualizing kids and when i go Hey im not really comfortable seeing that all the time! they act like i shot and killed their dog in front of them

[amalgamcorps]

i uh.. um.. i have to go... sorry

*flies away forever*