Poker as life
There are a lot of ways for a person to approach life, to ride the ups and downs, to embrace (or not) the minutiae of everyday life. It’s a fact that we have limited control over other people, the situations around us and the world at large.
In life, just like in poker, we don’t always get a good hand. What we need to learn how to do is play the hand that we’re dealt.
In Poker as Life: 101 Lessons from the World’s Greatest Game, Lee Robert Schreiber provides lessons that he’s learnt from sitting at the poker table and tells us how we can apply those lessons in life.
“It’s over in the blink of a one-eyed jack” is Lesson #100, a reminder that life is short. “Play each game as it it’s your last.” Every day counts.
The 231-page book is chockfull of astute one-liners, which I’m guessing are good advice for poker (I’ve never really played the game) and definitely valuable advice for life.
Lesson #64 reminds the reader that “poker is a marathon, not a sprint”.
“Each session is an incremental step in a vast, incredible process. You never stop moving forward. You never stop learning. Each time out, your job is to maximise winnings, minimise losses. You don’t look back other than to savour your triumph (briefly) and/or figure out how to improve your play."
I think this is a pretty good approach to have towards life.
While the lessons make sense, Schreiber makes it obvious that they aren’t a fixed set of rules for life. Lesson #39, for example, is “play by the book” but the very next point is “know when to go against the book”, which is a great way to say that there isn’t one fixed way to live life.
On the surface, poker may seem like a simple card game. But it isn’t. It’s a game the way life is a game. You win some, you lose some and you live to fight another day.
Life isn’t simple. At times we need to accept that “shit happens” (Lesson #12), “make the necessary adjustments” (Lesson #83) and “be fearless (or at least pretend to be)” (Lesson #76).
Besides providing these little pieces of advice on how to life life according to poker tips, Poker as Life also contains a sort of poker glossary, highlighting common poker phrases and providing their meanings.
At some point, Schreiber even manages to slip in a book list of some of the best poker books for those who might want to pick the game up.
I’d say that this book has piqued my interest.
I don’t gamble, I’ve said to people who ask if I play cards. But it turns out that poker isn’t gambling. At least, that’s what people who play poker say.
A player has no control over the cards that the dealer hands them. They have no control over their fellow players and all the good cards that they may/may not have. However, what a player can definitely control, is himself.
He can decide how he wants to play. He can scrutinise his fellow players for little tells that will give away how good (or bad) their hand is. He can play the best he can with whatever cards has been placed in front of him.
So the question here is: How do you play the hands you’ve been dealt?
*Jeannette also writes at http://jeannettegoon.com









