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@jiaade
Day 🎉#1000!!!!🎉 of David Tennant as a Fennec Fox!! 🦊
We made it!! 😭🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉
To celebrate here is the post that started it all. Day #1!! I can't believe it's been 1000 days and close to three years! Wow! Thank you for being on this journey with me 😭❤️🙏🏻
if you've spontaneously become disabled be gentle with yourself. it takes time to adjust to your new normal and that's okay. it's not a race to refigure out your life, you have time. it's okay to grieve and it's okay to mourn, it is a loss. your life is not over and you can get through this. it's hard and it's unfair but you will learn to live again.
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disabled people when their disability disables them
i really don't get why people act like "hating your disability" and "being proud to be disabled" are opposites. i hate the inconvenience and pain and discomfort and isolation and not being able to do the things i want to do. i'm proud that i'm still truckin along anyway, and that i'm part of such a resilient and vibrant community.
friendly reminder you dont need a diagnosis to be in disability spaces, as an example im in constant pain and fatigue, have migraines every week and my joints hurts to a point I can't write, but since familiar gaslighting/medical trauma and the fact that im an indigenous, brown skin fat man a diagnosis is fucking hard (but im in my way! :)) , but i still deserve a safe space to talk about my experiences and to feel valuable and supported.
never feel like youre interrupting someone's space or that you shouldn't be here cause you dont have a diagnosis, disabilities existed before diagnosis
shout out to everyone with a sleep disorder or condition that affects the quality and quantity of sleep. i think it's incredibly unfair to be denied even the comfort of rest
btw, shoutout to disabled people who don’t do everything right.
to disabled people who knowingly do things that will make their condition (temporarily or permanently) worse.
to disabled people who aren’t the ‘perfect’ disabled person that does everything possible.
to disabled people who refuse to push themselves too hard or try to live up to able-bodied standards, and to disabled people who (knowingly or not) push themselves too hard and suffer because of it.
able-bodied people seem to struggle with the idea that disabled people can do whatever they want with their bodies. they seem to think disabled people should be doing what’s best for them 24/7, and should never do “bad/wrong” things.
disabled people deserve respect and autonomy, always.
Some people don’t want to hear this but sometimes accessibility is not sustainable or eco-friendly. Disabled people sometimes need straws, or pre-made meals in plastic containers, or single-use items. Just because you can work with your foods in their least processed and packaged form doesn’t mean everyone else can.
I always see those “you’ll get better”, “it won’t be like this forever”, “you will heal”, etc. positivity posts and like- some of us won’t. Some of us will never get better, some of us will never heal, and for some of us things will be like this forever. We need more positivity posts for those of us with life long conditions and problems.
one thing i wish ableds would remember is that, unfortunately disability doesn't magically pause for holidays, special events, or celebrations. just because it happens only once a year or you saved up for it doesn't mean that people are not disabled. the fact that a member of your group is disabled should have been included in the planning in the very first place because we can't just wing it or push through.
Being neurodivergent and chronically ill is crazy because you already have issues with executive functions and then your body hinders you even more. AND your sensory issues are heightened by the pain you feel.
I think that it's really important for people to realize that being disabled is traumatic. genuinely. your body and brain feel like they are breaking down and wrong. you are in constant heavy stress from stuff like chronic pain. most disabled people i know have a somewhat regular emotional break down from the trauma of it all. and we are expected to just smile through it by society, to not be in the way, to not be an issue.
Dynamic Disabilities are so frustrating.
People think “it’s not that bad! You have some bad days what’s the big deal? Aren’t you used to it by now?”
No, it’s the constant flip flopping of pain and never knowing when it’ll get bad that you will never get used to.
There are days I forget I even have pain because it’s so low only for the next day my body crashes and I can’t get out of bed because I overdid it.
It’s the not making plans in fear that you’ll have to cancel them because the pain is too much even though you were find 20 minutes ago.
It’s the fear of using mobility aids because if you don’t use them often, you’re faking it. But if you don’t use them at all, you’re fine and you’re being dramatic.
So I beg you, please don’t say this to your loved ones who have a dynamic disability. Instead ask how you can help. If they’re insecure about using aids give them reassurance. If they need to cancel last minute make sure to let them know it’s okay and check up on them after you’re done. Dynamic disability causes really bad imposter syndrome, especially for me.
previous Good Omens fan art.
