I donāt understand why people post their appreciation for their mum/dad on social media (specifically in text). I bet most of their parents are not even on their friends list (or maybe even block them out if they even have FB in the first place).
You really appreciate your mum/dad so much, write it in a card and give them, bring them out for a good meal or some fun. Then you post pictures- actions speak louder than words and a picture speaks a thousand words. So be loud and clear about it to prove you are really sincere.
Do we grow up and suddenly learnt how to appreciate our parents? And to show that we do, and to show āYes! I have grown up, Iām mature. Because I know how to appreciate my parentsā. To me, I feel that all these is just for show. So itās like if I donāt post something like this online for the entire world to see, Iām not mature/grown up (Like an indication of sorts).
Sorry, I hate my Mother and my Father, and basically my entire family. I donāt blame myself because I feel this has something to do with the upbringing (Note: I didnt blame my parents directly). So itās impossible for me to post mushy things like this on social media.
Itās like a Miss Universal answer to say I appreciate them. Iām not saying I donāt too. I know they bring me up and provide me for 23years and blah blah blahā¦. Itās as good as providing an artist-wannabe all the best tools of carpentry. The artist-wannabe may well be an artist in the future, but not a famous one. So do you still thank the people who gave you those ābest tools of carpentryā? Not as much right? As compared to if they had given the best tools an artist needs. So what Iām just trying to say is, I will never be that kinda person to do something for the sake of doing it.
As much as I wish I was brought up in that kind of happy family to show some form of appreciation for my parents, I canāt change my parents. No matter how much I tried with all my might to do something like this, itās way impossible. I see their face only, this idea will just die off.
Letās say Iām in a good mood today, and my mum/dad is in a good mood as well. I might suddenly feel like being nice and show appreciation. The following day, I will still hate them for some minute reasons. So whatās the point?
The amount of hate is unlike what teenagers say when their parents invade their privacy. Itās much more. MUCH MUCH MORE. Itās to the point where youād want to run away from home and stay out forever, but you realise you will have too many things to bring along with you especially when you are still a studying individual. So in the end you will just have to live with it for a few more years.
In short, I just want to say itās not that Iām not mature enough, or grown up enough, just because Iām not an āappreciativeā person towards my Mother/Father.
I would prefer to say that I am a very very sensitive person. I think very deeply into other peopleās actions, words, thoughts, whatās right and wrong, motives, etc.. And humans just cannot accept the truths most of the time.
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