Take it all...

every encounter molds you.

[leethompkins-old-deactivated202]

lgbt meme — [ 3/3 ] coming out scenes ↳ Are you okay with this? Of course I am. I love you. And I want you to be happy. And you should never be afraid to tell me anything about yourself.

[89words]

“Tell me about your day dreams. How often have you made love to me?”

— N.M. Sanchez 

[badasspowerfulwoman]

LANY - Thru These Tears

[urfavblackgirl-deactivated20170]

lowkey wanna disappear for a little

[wunschkippen]

i wonder what’s gonna fuck me up next

[alsegaih-deactivated20200129]

you deserve someone who is sure about you.

[jillianelyse]

😘❤️🥰 #jillianelyse #lgbt #j #equality #lesbian #girlswholikegirls #babe #iwillalwaysfindyou #honeybear #androgynous #boi #philadelphia #instagay #dykeaboo #gayphilly https://www.instagram.com/p/B4X07jmpSFE/?igshid=1gcob3tfr9lfs

[jillianelyse]

And then the nights turned to days, and the world was okay again. ♥️ https://www.instagram.com/p/B1EX4R1HeCe/?igshid=b182rfug0zks

[thegoodvybe]

[thegoodvybe]

“Psychology claims that if two past lovers can remain just friends, it’s either they are still in love, or never were.”

— unknown (via thegoodvybe)

[jillianelyse]

Hi https://www.instagram.com/p/B0xFP9KHNj2/?igshid=1hym875z0wrkd

[definegodliness]

28-6-2019, “… it was real to me.”

[buttonpoetry]

“She isn’t dying, but I’ve spent my whole life watching her eat herself into the earliest grave she can fit into.”

— Imani Cezanne, “Flowers”

[llesbianfarmer]

straight people will never understand how therapeutic it is to hear the words “her girlfriend” or “his boyfriend” or how I ascend to heaven when I hear “her wife” and “his husband”

[queerbookdragon]

Female customer: “I don’t have a rewards card but my partner might.”

Me, ears perking up: “Great! Can I have their name?”

Customer: “It’s Stephanie ____”

Me: stupidly wide smile and faint twinkle in eyes because holy crap I’m not alone

[kendrysaneela]

These two women came up to my register with their twins and they called each other honey and their kids called them both Mom and my soul ascended to the heavens i was so happy

[overlyactivepingpongball]

When I worked as a contractor I knocked on a heavily pregnant woman’s door and she said she’d “have to talk to the missus” in a heeeeavy outback accent and I actually forgot how to speak for a second and had to explain that I’m not homophobic I’m just super gay and hearing her say that launched my souls directly to nirvana

[oculianthracina]

My soul when I see Queer people visibly and openly living their best Queer lives:

[jillianelyse]

You good? #jillianelyse #lgbt #yougood #jersey #slang #equality #j #instagay #jerseyslang #lol #androgynous #boi #girlswhokissgirls https://www.instagram.com/p/Bwzjs9Pl3Hp/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=4olqpa6o5a6t

[jillianelyse]

#jillianelyse #j #lgbt #philadelphia #gaystagram #girlswholikegirls #androgynous #lesbian #lgbtq #instagay #gayphilly #instadaily #dykeaboo #iwillalwaysfindyou #pride https://www.instagram.com/p/Bv7BGD1lXn1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=ktwha71x1ski

[snackwizard]

a fools guide to not wanting to die anymore

by me, a fool who doesnt wanna die anymore 

never make a suicide joke again. yes this includes “i wanna die” as a figure of speech. swear off of it. actually make an effort to change how you think about things.

find something to compliment someone for at least 4 times a day. notice the little things about the world that make you happy, and use that to make other people happy.

talk to people. initiate conversation as often as you possibly can. keep your mind busy and you wont have to worry anymore

picture the bad intrusive thoughts in youe head as an edgy 13 year old and tell them to go be emo somewhere else

if someone makes you feel bad most of the time, stop talking to them. making yourself hang out with people who drain you is self harm. stop it.

[wildlyannoyingdoofus]

… 8|

That’s some pretty good advice. I don’t know what’s left of my humor after ‘guess I’ll just die’ jokes but it’s worth a shot.

[snackwizard]

Personally i went from “guess I’ll die” jokes to “IF I HAVE TO BE HERE FOR 5 MORE MINUTES I PROMISE YOU I WILL BUY JUST, AN ARRAY OF CLOTHES.” and other wild hyperbolic stuff. Just replace the death part with something ridiculous and off topic. Its very entertaining

[808lien]

This also works with calling myself things like stupid, worthless, trash, etc. Even if you do this jokingly to yourself, your brain still believes it, and keeps up the cycle. Seriously, I found that when I stopped saying these things about myself, even jokingly, it made a massive difference.

[maramahan]

Here’s a tip I picked up from a friend that’s helped me a lot — replace self deprecating jokes with ironically self aggrandizing jokes

Like every time I trip and fall, instead of saying “l’m just a disaster human” I say “I’m the epitome of grace and beauty”

Or like, when I draw a picture I’m not 100% happy with, instead of saying “my art is trash” I say something like “you know I think it’s time we replaced the Mona Lisa”

When you do that you get to make a joke, but you’re ALSO getting practice building yourself up, y’know?

And eventually it becomes a reflex and you get so used to it that you can say nice stuff about yourself even when you AREN’T joking

[creativeronica]

These are such helpful tips.