Opinions And Such

[jiyuriahi]

God I hate Tumblr so much....I'm so sorry that you're getting hate from PK's fans. People don't deserve hate threats, especially ones that include rape/death.

Aaaaah, thank you very much for your kindness! 

I think the worst one was the “you deserved your abuse” one. Though, I’m more worried about everyone else, to be honest (one person got like 30 awful asks).

But thank you so much.

It means a lot.

[jiyuriahi]

you should report that anon to the police because holy shit

I don’t know how to, but thank you. They also didn’t post a “threat” in there, I don’t think. Just awful requests. So it likely wouldn’t do much.

I could possibly report them through tumblr’s flag system, but if they weren’t on their main account it won’t do much.

But thank you!

Thank you for the kindness and concern!

[jiyuriahi]

I want to ask what the flying hell is wrong with those other anons but then I realized they're fans of someone who is abusive and hangs around a pedophile and a dog rapist so I guess this behavior isn't so shocking at all lmao

Yeah, I guess so. I’m just in awe they in anyway think their points are a defense or are helping their point at all. (There’s actually one more, but it wasn’t really relevant enough to post, I don’t want to spam people too much, you know?)

Also, thank you so much for your kindness.

Have a totodile. Thank you again.

[jiyuriahi]

You deserved your abuse.

Oh ho, this is my favorite by far. By definition, no one deserves abuse. No one. The fact that you said this, and think in anyway it’s a defense, is appalling.

I mean really, you just said this. Because I posted completely unedited undoctored screenshots and evidence. You really just said this to an abuse victim. And you think you in anyway have the high ground. That’s astounding.

Let’s not forget this gem:

I mean you tried with the please, but no. 

[jiyuriahi]

it's pretty sad how desperate you are to slander PK

Screenshots and evidence and proof (all of which are completely undoctored, unlike the person you’re defending) aren’t slander. I think you need to learn the difference. 

But, yeah, sure, if you think being on anon and screaming your brains off is going to get you sympathy, it’s not. At least I had the guts to show my face. (And again, undoctored screenshots.) But hey, nothing proves that you’re all sane civil people like telling a person with Major Depression, Anxiety issues, and an abuse victim to shoot themselves.

How's that high ground? You feeling that breeze? Touching the clouds? No but seriously, some of these people are victims you’re talking to, and that’s not cool. Look, I know you want to fan worship, but this isn’t OK at all.

[jiyuriahi]

congrats on supporting a rape apologist :^)

Oh, look, another one. That’s what the person I’m criticizing is, or much closer to. But if you think this is going to make me stop going after someone I know is toxic and harmful and have seen much proof of, it’s not going to. 

Again, anon, great job.

[jiyuriahi]

Shouldn’t you take me to dinner first? Before you say these sweet things.

No, but seriously, joking aside. Look at your life for a second. Really look at it. You just told an abuse victim to get raped. And a virgin by choice, so that’s a nice twofer there. Your life is going great, isn’t it? 

For posting sources and undoctored evidence.  Also congratulations for anonymous.

[jiyuriahi]

Fucking thank you for adding more info to the call out post!! Seriously, I'm glad some of PK's fans are starting to realize how bad of a person she is! PK and her creepy harem need to leave. I don't understand how ppl can support them...

Yeah, as I mentioned it’s not even the tip of the iceberg. You should see some of the replies we got. (I just hope people are safer now.)

But I was happy to help, and I had the resources to do so. I just don’t want anymore victims. And thank you for the nice ask. It’s really appreciated, thank you so much.

[jiyuriahi]

Eevee and PK treated you like total shit and didn't even deny it. Thank you so much for speaking out about them. I also must say I really like your posts in general; you cite stuff which not many people do sadly.

Thank you so much!

I don’t see much of a point in posting something without evidence, especially considering. All in all I just care about people and use facts to back that up.

Thank you so much, though. After so much hostility, it’s nice to see this.

[jiyuriahi]

jesus christ ur so ableist and transphobic??? why do people take u seriously

OK I’m 90% certain this person is a troll, but on the off chance they’re not. 

How could I possibly be ableist and transphobic. 

You do realize I’m showing evidence of someone who called Autistics “sociopathic robots” and basically acted like we’re all mentally insane, and shouldn’t be listened to, right? 

It is however, hilarious, that you’re calling me “ableist” and “transphobic” for defending these parties. And calling out abusers and pedophiles.

Also, I’m a huge defender of trans issues, so great. 

“why do people take u seriously“

I’m going to go ahead and say it’s because I do these things like research and post uncropped sources.

But if this is because PK calls themselves Autistic and trans, and you think calling me ableist and transphobic is OK, I’m an Autistic, questioning (very likely not cis), abuse victim. Nice to meet you.

“why do people take u seriously“

But sure, say this to a sufferer of Major Depression, anxiety issues, and Autism (and abuse often attached to it), who’s just defending a lot of victims (many of which came forward with evidence) from someone who dehumanized them. That’ll show that ableism. 

[modestmeido-deactivated20151106]

WOW

[jiyuriahi]

And more bigotry. Good to see they learned nothing.

Some choice quotes:

“Aug 11 07:47:20 Angel   i have begun to grow extremely wary of anyone who's recently been dismissed from a psych ward, and anyone who has memory issues, and anyone with multiple disorders

Aug 11 07:47:29 Angel   because they are really good at liking to make up things about me for attention

Aug 11 07:47:49 Angel   about me and people around me"

Whole log found here:

http://pastebin.com/pMjvZAhS

By the way, PK self-diagnosed themselves as Autistic. And Eevee has scoffed at people on more then one occasion for judging Autistics in public:

https://archive.is/FLAuT

But this is how they talk to and about Autistics elsewhere (nothing has changed).

Just a reminder:

https://archive.is/QEvda

https://archive.is/mY0yF

https://archive.is/sWfyt

https://archive.is/KFuKg

I would like to point out this log is from today. So their views haven’t changed much from the screenshots about Autism before.

[micdotcom]

Watch: John Oliver’s sex ed video needs to be shown in every American school 

[modestmeido-deactivated20151106]

Stay away from purplekecleon’s irc/Marl/the Floraverse comics/Floraverse IRC

Hi. This is a warning and callout post written on August 10, 2015. This has some graphic descriptions of pedophilia, vivid descriptions of sex and bestiality mentions, as well as ableism and sexual harassment towards a minor.

Purplekecleon has done their  best to ignore me and has tried again and again to sweep me under the rug. This post will mostly be about my experiences with how when I was 13, around the winter/spring time of last year (January to May?) I joined the Floraverse IRC group and the Forbidden Flora IRC group (the NSFW sex adult one.) This will also detail some unsavory shit PK has said.

I do not have any logs, so this is just a personal warning. It was in a Mibbit IRC webclient and my browser data has been cleared since then. (I had to get a new computer since then.) However, once I do eventually get authorities involved, it is a possibility I can get logs from the time. The CSA dept at my area (St. Louis, Missouri area) police said that even if Marl freezes his ram chat logs will still be able to be recovered. However, I am not in the mental state or safe state with my parents to do this just yet but I plan to. If there is a way to recover logs on my end please tell me. I’m sorry if this seems cluttered or incoherent, I am really overstimmed from thinking about all of this again all at once, and I wanted to write it in 1 sitting so I don’t change my mind.

My ANONYMOUS friend posted my story on a forum called “kiwi farms” under the alias “lainiwakuraa” for me and would relay messages there. As an autistic individual, (Asperger’s syndrome) that site (filled with ableist jokes towards autistic people) made me rather uncomfortable but it was the ONLY place I could find where people where discussing purplekecleon. I posted my story there. The only posts on that forum made by me were the ones talking about my experiences with Marl.

I’m posting this on my main because it’s an aesthetic blog anyway and has a decent amount of followers to spread the word around. I am not in any way associated with people scraping Purplekecleon’s patreon, Purplekecleon’s other haters or Pengosolvent.

Under the cut

Keep reading

[lazoriss]

I remember feeling uncomfortable when PK self diagnosed themselves with Autism. And even then I didn’t know that they had called autistic people emotionless and sociopaths, while trying to act like they knew more about the disorder than the person who they were talking to (who was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder).  I also didn’t know Evee had defended possession of child porn. Just… dear God. I feel physically ill right now. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I can’t believe I’ve been supporting these people, giving them my money, and promoting their work. I even defended them after the situation with Pengo. 

You were only 13, and this 30 year old man talked to you like that? Not to mention the bestiality stuff. If you go through with legal action, I wish you the best. If you can, please keep us posted. People like this should be behind bars, not roaming the internet sexually chatting up children.

[jiyuriahi]

Hey, I hope you don’t mind, I’m going to chime in here.

I’m going to out myself now, I’m the person they were talking to in the Autism post. 

Found here:

http://potmeetkettleshessingle.tumblr.com/post/126381503498/potmeetkettleshessingle-pk-calling-autistic#notes

(I am not, however, potmeetkettleshessingle, nor do I know who they are.)

I’m also the one that brought forward the screenshots (to be honest that event actually gave me PTSD, and yes I do mean violent flashbacks. I’m also an abuse victim and I have PTSD from being dragged across the floor and beaten, so I hope that clarifies how seriously I take PTSD (a lot of my abuse was linked to my Autism, so trust me when I say this didn’t help.)). 

I have a bit of evidence of their bad behavior and hypocrisy (I will post some here). 

But I’ve also been speaking to victims. Often with evidence and logs, and man I wish I could come forward with all of it. I wish I could tell you how deep I know this goes. I can’t. It’s not my right to.

But this is far from the only stuff they’ve done. All of it abusive and awful. And all of it targeting people at their weakest or weaknesses. Marl especially goes after those most susceptible. 

I have heard Marl (a person with almost no photos anywhere) described the same by quite a few people (and as Lain described him). People who are not friends with OP. 

“He had short, dark hair and acne marks (scars?) all around his face.”

He was described to me as skinny with acne scarring and dark hair. 

What I can say is the consistent pattern is Marl targets those weak and susceptible and plays to that. He works his way around, making them feel safe and then slowly tearing them down. In a way they don’t even realize, until the damage is done. As many victims have mentioned. Do not think because someone is an adult they are safe. Even if you are an adult he can and will hurt you. He targets anyone susceptible regardless of age. And he will become mentally abusive and manipulative to get what he wants. 

Log dumps.

Evidence of the flat out hypocrisy, gaslighting, and lies that went down by this group.

PK also knew about this and covered it up. I was told that by other people who didn’t know Lain but watched it go down:

https://archive.is/HpY2w

https://archive.is/Jvi3U

Here is evidence of it. Here is someone trying to get the logs for Lain and PK’s reaction to it.

(If the logs were so in their favor why not come forward with it? They had them. Instead they brushed it aside and said it didn’t happen.)

Marl posted this journal when the group ended:

Link: https://archive.is/xdyPZ

However, here’s a screenshot of him doing the contrary:

Link: https://archive.is/ddQUa

(Also, notice I was kicked for quoting back at PK exactly what they said to me. Also, I must have misread it or freaked out (at the time due to aforementioned abuse, when the Autism came up, I freaked out (back then)) because I don’t know why I said I didn’t. I have an honesty policy, but if anything that just shows how stressed out I was.) 

Now it seems he did this quite often, because I never once publicly stated this happened (at least I can’t recall it), so I’m guessing others did. And quite a bit it seems. (Also, notice the way he insults anyone speaking out against it, despite the fact he very much so did do it.)

Now let’s get into this further.

Here is Eevee being quite obsessed with underage users viewing porn:

https://archive.is/3TPSi

Here Eevee claims that they “No, I don't have a fetish for children looking at dicks.” Except later they defended the owning of CP.

(As was mentioned above but re-link with a larger image.) 

https://kiwifar.ms/attachments/eevee-defend-jpg.38156/

And people have mentioned to me Eevee would often mention and joke about their pedophilic habits and being a pedophile (including in real life). 

And this is just a small part of it. 

PK is already trying to turn the blame on OP.

TW: Victim Blaming, Spinning, and Gaslighting.

This can be really hard to read if you are a victim. Please be careful and don’t push yourself.

https://archive.is/mr4TV

https://archive.is/2kq4x

Now, I want to break this down for a second.

PK claiming they don’t have logs of this happening:

https://archive.is/jDxLJ

But then claims this:

https://archive.is/G1iSY

https://archive.is/Mm5J4

Which sounds a lot like spinning an underage person being pressured into something by an adult as them being at fault. It reeks of victim blaming.

But then they say this:

https://archive.is/eotfa

Which contradicts the previous points (for the convenience of PK and co.). 

Also, Lain isn’t the only one saying this. 

Note: Pengo had nothing to do with posting this

And PK threatened to sue Pengo over this. If there was no grounding, why do this? People were asked to take the image down everywhere. A few of the people I’ve spoken to mentioned Marl having these tendencies as well, and here’s a log of Marl mentioning he’s into weird stuff he “can’t say” in a NSFW channel. 

http://pastebin.com/h3xQ5JSQ

(And exhibiting some nice very strong hints of transphobia, while we’re at it.)

He’s also seen exhibiting the behavior he’s often been mentioned to have, wanting to take everything over to PM. Which he has been stated to do a lot, including in OP’s post. 

But we have screenshots proving they do lie. Quite frequently, and will spin things to make victims seem like the bad guys. And they’ve been doing this a long time. 

You can not trust PK, Eevee, Marl, and co. They lie. All the time. Like abusers do they cover their tails and try to turn it on others.  PK, Eevee, and Marl can not be trusted. They’ve proven that. It’s been documented.

I know people who to this day have panic attacks because of their interactions with PK, and lasting damage. And I’ve spoken to so many victims.  So many people have wanted to come forward for so long, and now they can and have. I will not allow that to be taken from them.

PK, Eevee, and to some extent Marl (although silently) will do anything to shut them down. And I’m tired of it. I don’t want anymore victims. There are already so many, and they’re all so scared. PK, Eevee, and Marl are dangerous and abusers. And they will always play themselves as the victims. Be careful. 

[jiyuriahi]

My dad just saw all the stuff promoted on this site and it go on from there. And he hugged me. Like genuinely and with genuine affection. And he looked so angry for a split second, like he wanted to break something. Like his daughter might be losing more rights. And that upset him. And he hugged me in such a genuine way and we talked about how my therapist (since I was 8) said I had to be lying about staying home alone because of my Autism, so my dad had to be called in, and how wrong that was and how much that hurt (with him finally addressing it and agreeing with it). 

I haven’t been hugged this way by one of my parents since one of them saw someone acted like I was an animal in a cage, and acted like I couldn’t have an opinion due to my disorder. Their comments were awful. They dehumanized me and called me lesser. 

That’s how bigoted and awful people on this site are, that those 2 events are comparable.

[jiyuriahi]

The bigotry on this site makes me want to vomit.

Especially the level of silencing tactics used to make the sufferers the “bigots”. It’s appalling. It’s honestly some of the worst bigotry I’ve seen, and considering I face the fear of being dragged out of my home and being permanently locked in a facility without my consent, I was told I had to be lying about the abuse because of my disorder, the cops ignored me because of my disorder, being told I can’t have an opinion because of my disorder, and I dropped out of school because of being treated as lesser and without rights due to my disorder, trust me, I can say I’ve seen a lot. But this site? Silencing those effected for self gain is probably the most awful thing you can do, to take to their safety net from them for self gain.

[narc0tixx]

Edmonton Catholic school bans transgender child, 7, from girls' washroom

An Edmonton mother has filed a complaint with the Alberta Human Rights Commission after the Catholic school district refused to let her transgender child, born a male, use the girls' washroom.

“I’m very worried about that child’s mental health and well being.”  more like “i’m transphobic trash and my religion matters more than my students mental health”

[jiyuriahi]

For the record, the woman quoted here and being called “transphobic trash” said that in defense of the child. She was defending her right to use the girl’s bathroom. She also publicly spoke out in defense of the child and was fired for it.

What she was saying was apart of what was stated in her blog post, where she was talking about the self harm and mental health issues of transgender youth, and how much more likely they are to be stable if they have an accepting adult in their life and if the school accepts them.

“I’m very worried about that child’s mental health and well being.” What she meant by this was if the girl couldn’t use the girl’s bathroom and felt isolated and ostracized and not welcome in the school she was worried she’d self harm or worse and was defending the child and calling out the school.

Also, the issue here isn’t so black and white. The school did put in a gender neutral bathroom for this sake, they are not telling her to use the boy’s bathroom, what Patricia Grell (the quoted woman) is saying is that still isolates the child and tells her and the other kids they aren’t normal. (Which I agree.)

Here’s a few quotes from her post:

“I can’t help but see parallels between how African Americans were made to use “black only” washrooms and this transgender student being made to use the gender neutral bathroom.“

“And the arguments are petty and ridiculous but they also can cause grave harm.  Canada Journal published on May 7, 2015, a study of transgender youth that showed that in the past year, two thirds of transgender youth had harmed themselves, more than one third had attempted suicide and a third of those under the age of 18 had been physically threatened or injured. The study’s author Elizabeth Saewyc found that “If someone had a supportive adult in the family, they were about four times less likely to have self-harmed in the past 12 months.  If they felt more connected to school, they were almost twice as likely to report good or excellent mental health as those with lower levels of school connectedness.”This study shows that we must take seriously the importance of supporting transgender students in our schools.”

“If there are some parents who do not understand our stance, then we need to educate them about what the research is showing:  that with appropriate support in their schools, our LGBTQ students have less inclination to self harm.”

Found here:

https://grellblog.wordpress.com/2015/05/12/local-mother-accuses-edmonton-catholic-school-board-of-discrimination/#comments

If you read the article, you would also know she was fired for this.

Here’s more of her from the article:

“Catholic school trustee Patricia Grell recently wrote a blog post supporting the girl. She then turned on the TV news and learned that board chair Debbie Engel has called on her resignation.“I am not resigning over this social justice issue,” Grell told CBC News on Thursday. “This little girl needs advocates. She needs people like us, trustees, to stand up for her."Grell said she wrote the blog because she couldn’t keep silent on the issue."I didn’t want to be identified with that decision,” she said.As the school district has no formal policy, Grell said can’t understand how the decision was made.”

Guys, I can’t stress this enough, please research and fact check. Because you just called a Christian woman promoting other Christians to be more accepting of LGBT issues, and why it mattered, and one of the few people to stand up for this girl “transphobic trash”. When she’s been very influential in the change.

And here’s the full quote:

“Grell said an Ontario Human Rights Commission decision ordered Hockey Canada to allow those who are transgender to use the change room of their choice. That’s the answer, Grell said.“I’m really worried about the impact of this stance we’ve taken on that child,” Grell said. “I’m very worried about that child’s mental health and well-being.”

The transphobic person is Debbie Engel (among likely others).

And I want to be clear here, there’s Christians defending the child. This is important, not because “don’t judge all Christians” (though, it’s not OK to judge any group by a few bad people in it))  guys, there’s hope. That’s important to remember. It’s getting better. It’s going slow but it is. In fact the fact that they made a neutral bathroom isn’t OK, but it’s still progress over telling her to use the boy’s bathroom. (This doesn’t mean I’m defending their decision, I’m not.) It’s important to remember that, not to not criticize, but for the mental health of those effected.

And if you do want to make this a religious issue (not saying that was the intent), then I urge you to read the comments, there’s a lot of transphobic people claiming they aren’t Christian, but agree that they shouldn’t even be able to use the neutral bathroom (there’s even one saying they’re sexualizing their child, the child has literally been professionally prescribed with gender dysphoria, I just, ugh.). If you make it about religion you let these people slip through, and that’s not OK. Make it about being transphobic, not what they classify themselves as. It’ll help everyone out in the long run, I promise.

[jiyuriahi]

I swear I take it back. 

I am neither pro-gamer gate or anti-gamer gate. I have seen way too much of both sides acting like children. 

Both sides have way too many problems for me to side with either, both are after their own agenda and over looking issues. Both sides are spewing incorrect facts for self gain. 

I have seen both sides doxx and say "the other side does it more". Instead of, "you're right, and that's fucked up" 9 times of out 10 for both sides. I have seen accusations of doxxing from both sides consistently be replied to with from both sides "yeah, well likely it was someone framing us" (sometimes it's to frame, sure. But other times it's not, and to say it always is isn't right) or "the other side does it more" instead of addressing it is equally fucked up no matter who does it more. Both sides do this, just about equally (maybe not doxxing but this brush aside (it doesn't matter who does it more it just matters it's happening, hold some accountability.)) and it's appalling. 

I have seen both sides scream about how they use facts and the other side doesn't, only to see a more neutral source come in with facts and evidence that puts a more neutral front on the issue, only to be shot down with something lacking facts (a snide remark, and insult, etc.) for the part of self gain from one of the sides. I have seen facts shot down by both sides when it is no longer convenient for them. Equally. I have seen overstatements and poor comparisons from both sides. Uneducated statements from both sides. And I am nothing if not someone for facts. 

But more importantly, I am not one for blindly siding with a movement for self benefit or supporting that. I am not one to not criticize or analyze something I am apart of. 

I am a feminist, but my points here still stand:

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/83360742632

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/51553267077/about-that-whitehouse-gov-thing-my-school-had

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/47271696421/heroinfriday-jaycereinhardt-heroinfriday

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/45830018526/warning-huge-trigger-warning-terrible-language

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/45827068575/gayboycolor-i-hate-women-theyre-manipulative

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/45566191273/fireandshellamari-hurricanedeathmegatron300

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/42508602633/duedlyinfatuation-ew-the-person-that-sent-the

http://jiyuriahi.tumblr.com/post/42008217324/humanist-egalitarian-anti-radical-feminism

I stand by these points still. 

I am a feminist but I am against the fact that currently feminism is using LGBT issues for it's self gain and a pat on the back, for self promotion. Derailing LGBT issues to be about them. I support these issues due to scientific facts and the wish to support my friends and the people I respect and help them have better lives. These issues certainly aren't about my movement, and I would never use them for such.

I am a feminist but I am deeply upset with how often male abuse issues are shunned aside, and see male abuse victims as just as important to female ones. I am quite quick to point out the situation that happened with Canadian male abuse help shelters and how much that bothers and worries me. As well as other issues to do with on the matter. Anyone who knows me, knows I am.

I am a feminist but I also refused buy Far Cry 3 because of the frankly sexist views towards men the writer claims to have. (Stating that all men who enjoy his games are pigs, and give in to the male power fantasy and think that women owe them, as well as saying he wrote a male rape victim to show men what it's like to be a woman. I was ridiculously appalled by this. To this day it makes it on my top 10 list of least favorite games for making male abuse victims about women, and for promoting female on male rape. (And saying men deserve it, classy.)) 

But more then that I am someone who refuses to be apart of hypocrisy, and even more then that apart of poor values. 

Sure, I'm a feminist, and you can call that hypocritical if you wish. But I am a feminist because of real life feminists (that I have known) who were around during the serious issues, and my great respect for them and others like them keeps me in the movement. You know, real activists. The reasons I have rights. 

But I am not standing with this. I am not standing with frankly two sides acting like children. 

I loathe Zoe Quinn to the core, and I mean I really don't like her. I think the woman belongs in jail (as both a feminist, a woman, an abuse victim, and a sufferer of major depression and many other disorders). And I'm frankly appalled she isn't.

I can't stand Anita, either. I have messaged people about how not to trust her, how anti-facts and actual debate she really is, and how she's mostly a con-artist, and how her points are biased and unhelpful.

But again, I've seen so much awful from both sides I want nothing to do with either. 

You can debate this as much as you want, I've done my research, I always do. But I refuse. And I won't be replying to it, I'm done. I'm going to address all issues neutrally and honestly with facts, as I always have, and I refuse to defend or associate with either side. I'm sorry.

(And Gamergaters, yes, Anti-gamergaters can be extremely sexist and bigoted and anti-facts. But so can many gamergaters.

And Anti-gamergaters, yes, many Gamergaters can be extremely sexist bigoted and anti-facts. But so can many anti-gamergaters.)

If you followed me for this reason, then I'm sorry. I won't be posting more on it.

I will say I do still dislike Zoe Quinn and much of Game Journalism and the corruption there, as well as Anita. And I still think there's a lot wrong, and something should be done.

But I will not condone how this is being handled.