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allie ○ 23 ○ bisexual english ○ français ○ 한국어 multifandom trash tbh.

[fyhyunah]

Hyuna’s Party! in JAPAN 2nd Story / 180406 © y__071005 - do not edit or remove credit

[ultrakdramamama]

bahahaha…it does 😂

cr: @jinkijinggi

[cwote]

sometimes you need to step back and look at how far youve come :)

[arabwife]

[mediokurrr-deactivated20200405]

Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

[catastrofries]

So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

[mediokurrr-deactivated20200405]

This is great advice @catastrofries

[girlwithapomegranate-deactivate]

thank you for following me I have nothing to offer

[ruinedchildhood]

[batfamcreys]

[gailsimone]

These pages have been going around a lot lately. It;s from a story I wrote for Wonder Woman’s 75th Anniversary Special, and I am reblogging to make sure that the artist/co-creator, Colleen Doran, gets proper credit for making Star-Blossom so adorable! :)

[tethmos-deactivated20180313]

This cured my depression

[stillasvnbeam]

[eearth-deactivated20180601]

Personal growth isn’t about becoming a different person, it’s about fundamentally changing how you interact with who you already are.

[jinkicult]

My heart pounds so hard at anything Shinee related. The mention of Shinee makes me want to jump to protect them at any given moment. I love them so much

[rakuzanemperor-deactivated20200]

realistic description of my existence

[subminhonet]

Today in Dubai, Minho very sweetly tried to greet fans in Arabic by saying “peace be upon you,” pronounced “assalamu alaykum.” However, Minho made the adorable mistake of saying “assalaTAmu alaykum,” which means….

Salad be upon you.

Source

[etothevictory]

*is still certified SHINee trash*

[peridoxxx]

[haewins]

wow

[dejasboo]

shinee will always be five!

[femadols]

hani for o-lens

[ultrakdramamama]

It’s certainly an upgrade…

but yes, we love ALL the SHINee lightsticks :)

cr: @RealUnkle1932