Social and Racial Implications of High Expectations Asian Father
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âA-SIANS, NOT B-SIANS!â âBlood type B? Why not blood type A?â These captions are two examples of how society depicts the Asian race as illustrated in memes such as the High Expectations Asian Father. This meme stars South Korean actor Jeon Mu-Song, who is known for playing father figures in Korean film and television (Know Your Meme). The image used was taken from the 2007 movie Epitaph, where Mu-Song looks stern and disappointed (Know Your Meme). This facial expression is perfect for representing what pop culture believes to be the âtypical Asian father.â
Tumblr users Chris and Bryant launched this meme as a single topic blog back in 2010 (Know Your Meme). The first caption of the meme read, âI dun care you got A+ in English, math, History; you got A- in art. / You fail lifeâ (Know Your Meme). Due to the popularity of the initial image, variation and spread started shortly after its creation, with many stereotypical Asian parent jokes. Know Your Meme describes it as âbased on stereotypes and clichĂ©s about first generation Asian parents pushing their children to excel in academic fields in an overbearing mannerâ (Know Your Meme).
Using my own religion as an example, I can understand why I think this meme gained an enormous amount of popularity. I am a Jewish white girl, who LOVES making fun of myself with the typical Jewish/white girl stereotypes. Sometimes, I find the jokes to be extremely true in the sense where I find that I sometimes do the things we are called out for (such as loving coupons and free things!). I also agree that not everyone in our religion does these things, so the jokes only apply on occasion. These observations of my own identity make me believe that Asian people might feel this way about the memes they see about themselves. It is a way for them to make light of their culture, while comparing personal lives.
At the same time, any meme having to do with race or religion can make people view these ethnicities in certain, and often-negative light. Yes, we do make fun of ourselves, but these Internet memes help shape the way we are portrayed in society, and people partake in these various jokes without realizing the racial and social implications that come with it. As a society, we are condensing one race into one specific personality type because we think its âfunny.â Everyone is different, even if they are a part of the same race. Sometimes I see this meme and think, why are all the captions almost all the same? And then I realize, itâs because we associate the Asian race with only a few stereotypical actions. These jokes are getting repetitive, old, and are definitely not always true. A final thought, people really need to realize what they might be doing while joking around about a potentially sensitive topic. Although I donât take offence, many do. I would tread lightly with this type of meme.Â
Works Cited
"High Expectations Asian Father." Know Your Meme. N.p., n.d. Web. 8 Mar 2014. <http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/high-expectations-asian-father>.









