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DECONDITIONING THE ASCENDANT

A THREAD written by an Aquarius Sun conjunct Uranus who wants you to break the rules and throw off all your conditioning.

ARIES RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, stop going it alone. No one is holding you back, everyone’s actually just waiting for you to say “you wanna do this together?”. Stop forcing your agenda or thinking you have to do everything first or alone or the hard way.

TAURUS RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, get involved with danger and be emotionally transparent please: life conditioned you to be safe and secure. Get involved with yours and people’s demons and break through the material, the 3D reality of this world.

GEMINI RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, stop darting about all over the place physically & mentally & stop trying to bring logic into everything and constantly serve the facts, because you were conditioned to always prove how clever you were.

CANCER RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, stop giving a shit and stop caring for people who don’t give you the same back. You were conditioned to always be there for people emotionally or just physically, so break away, detach, be free.

LEO RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, CRY IN PUBLIC and show your deepest, darkest emotions. Stop putting on a happy face when you’re going through living hell - we can tell because we can feel it even though you’re a good actor. Just be honest about feelings.

VIRGO RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, stop taking on the role of doing everything for everyone. People need to do things for themselves and you don’t need to fix absolutely everything and everyone. Fix yourself and detach from everyone’s problems.

LIBRA RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, stop giving a shit. You’ve been conditioned to constantly be polite, to be a people-pleaser. The truth is only your parents asked for it, no one else ever has, and no one is asking for it anymore. Be assertive and bold.

SCORPIO RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, stop hiding every goddamn thing about yourself. What are you actually protecting yourself from? What are you hiding? When we’re all dead and buried, what will it even matter what you’re hiding?

SAGITTARIUS RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, spend time in one place and actively care about getting to know little facts, about people. You were conditioned to kind of not give a shit, and this has halted your ability to get close to the stuff around you, now.

CAPRICORN RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, be a baby. You had to grow up quick. Allow yourself to be a child. Cry openly. Tell people about your needs. Let other people take charge.

AQUARIUS RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, open your heart. You were conditioned to not care about relating personally, but relating personally is such a gift you’re missing out on. Talk about things from YOUR perspective, how it’s affected YOU personally.

PISCES RISING: To break down your childhood conditioning, stop sacrificing and start living. Everyone is always doing things because you don’t stop to realise how much you don’t do things, how much you sacrifice to let them do things instead of you. Be selfish.

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『The rising signs』

Personal life, issues, and interests.

✧Pisces✧ Pisces risings are cool, chill, seems to be non judgemental but secerelty are. They might have felt bad for the things they were into because they were seen as weird or quirky or unrealistic. They are the ones who are usually nice and open to everyone. They can overly do the things they're into. Seems to have created their own world, in their own bubble, just doing their own thing. They like to be a bit sassy but flirty at the same time. They speak as if they're in a reality show.

✧Aquarius✧An Aquarius rising can usually be seen alone or trying to find someone or a group of people to be around. Either way they end up alone even though they actually dont like being alone. The things they're into can be different from the overall group, or the only person that's into something or knows about a specific topic. They have bushy eyebrows and dark curly hair. They look pale and have well put together look, like turtle necks and jeans.

✧Capricorn✧ Capricorn risings look serious. Like they're always have something they have to go do, or always look like they're doing business with others and stabilizing something, or they're relationship with someone. They seem to recruit or employ you into their perosnal lives. They see the benefits of how you can help them and how they can help you. Like a friendship deal.

✧Sagittarius✧ A Sagittarius risings seems to always be learning about something or teaching it if they already know much about it. They have a grand outlook on the world. They like to sit back and figure out the reasons as to why ceratin things happen in their lives or life in general. Things may seem to come pretty easily to them as they are easy going people. Once they get into something they will want to teach you all about it. They will go about their interests to the extreme.

✧Scorpio✧ Scoripo risings are actually pretty "open". They want to seem normal and into the things others are into, meanwhile they're actually into some pretty dark, weird and occult things. These people can be pretty hard to spot as they try their best to fit it into the crowd. They get deep and passionate when it comes to the things their into, once you get close to them they're pretty intense. People may wonder of the type of person they truly are. "Sus."

✧Libra✧These people like to be accompanied by others. They may seen like the archetype of Leo's because they enjoy mental and verbal stimulation, so they always like to have or seek out someone to speak to. They're into pretty normal stuff. They may seem basic and shallow. But they're truly sweet people and care for the ones (friends) in their personal lives.

✧Virgo✧ These people like to have their set daily routines. Since some have Gemini in their 10th house they are known for talking to anyone and everyone, or people may feel they can just go up to them and just speak, or ask random questions. Even though they try to keep to themselves, they make it their duty to help others with their problems. Since they feel they have the time, "why not." It makes them feel good. Their personal issues usually pertain to worrying about others but also trying to take care of themselves at the same time. They might give people their own advice.

✧Leo✧ Leo risings have all eyes on them even when its un called for. They have dramatic peronsal lives that people may not take seriously. They're into things that put them in the lime light or center stage, even though they may act like they dont need it. They do. They attract out of the ordinary situations and people with Aquarius descending. They have the craziest, most random and coolest stories to tell because of that.

✧Cancer✧ Cancer risings can be seen as super creative and mysterious because of their reserved shyness. With Capricorn on the 7th house they like to go through things slowly. They like to feel out situations. Relationships might be harder for them to be successful in so they work hard for them and like consistency and dependency. People who can help them, or they attract people who try to help them even though they never really asked for it. Their personal problems change frequently like the phases of the Moon. They may be seen as emotionally unstable because of the Moons influence. But since the Moon is feminine and internal they hide it well. You have to get really close to these people for you to really be apart of their emotional lives.

✧Gemini✧ These Gemini rising people are into a little bit of everything. They like to communicate, so if you can keep up a conversation and teach them things they will make you apart of their perosnal lives. They usually get along with and can speak with everyone on all types of topics. You may hear different sides of the story they once told you from other people because they tend to lie or I should say spice it up just for the sake of talking.

✧Taurus✧Taurus risings like to buy things and make themselves look presentable and pleasant since they are ruled by Venus. Even if they arnt naturally attractive which they usually are, they will make the things they wear and the things around them look attractive. They may like to shop or go out to eat frequently. To treat themselves. They like to be around people they know they can depend on. With Scorpio in the 7th house they can attract obsessive people who will try to control them. On the other hand they can be possessive because they might see or seek out people as their own possessions. They attract people who are passionately into the things they're into. They rather stick to friends or family they know wont turn their backs on them.

✧Aries✧ Aries risings are usually into one type of thing but all aspects of it. They will go hard and fight for the things they're into and may try to make others interested in them aswell. Or even by force. They like people who can take a joke because they can be quite ruthless. They're usually the ones everyone knows. They make whatever they're interested in known. The ones with Capricorn in 10th will stabilize that and make that their main image. The ones with Aquarius in 10th will be known for their more unconventional interests, and more care free of what others think of them.

It's not backwards your backwards

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Hihi I was wondering where should we look to know what kind of humour someone has according to their chart?

hi bby!!!

mercury and jupiter + their houses, especially jupiter, for sure :')

styles of humor that are common for the elements

fire mercury: sarcasm & playful/physical humor. mouthy similar to air mercury placements. will make a complete fool of themselves to make others laugh. like or are good at using their competitive nature to make ppl laugh too

air mercury: witty. a lot of word play, mouthiness, also, just the individuality of the way they communicate can be enough to make people laugh. they're "weird" but shameless

water mercury: situational, story telling with the use of vivid expressions or voices. and similar to fire mercury placements they'll purposely make themselves look silly to make someone laugh or smile.

earth mercury: satire. intelligence is a major part of an earth mercury's humor and timing is important for their jokes to be effective, but they usually figure that part out quite easily. their delivery is a part of what makes them funny bc they usually keep a straight face

the sign a person's jupiter is in and the house it's in can tell us how much humor is a part of their personality and how they channel it!

jupiter in 1h, 3h, 5h, or 11h ppl are likely to be really, really funny. they just have a knack for humor and expressing it. it's very natural for those with it in 1h, those with it in 3h and 11h feed off the energy of others to channel it, and those with in 5h are just rly creative with it. honorable mention to people with jupiter in 10h. they know the importance of being serious but if there's a situation which calls for laughs they can make it happen so easily. jupiter in 7th people are rly humorous and lighthearted in their romantic relationships which is cute. <3 jupiter in 2nd is funnier than they get credit for. people will acknowledge that their humor is a part of who they are but might tend to take it for granted?? jupiter in 4th = the clown of the family. jupiter in 6th points to someone more serious, i'd argue the most serious of the jupiter placements. not bc they want to be, but they feel restricted in their expression of their humor. they have a comfort zone with it. jupiter in 12h can equate to someone that has rly funny thoughts and ideas but who struggles to express them, and who is sensitive to the humor of others. jupiter in 8th is similar in this sense but, at the same time, knows that humor can be a powerful tool in terms of growth and emotional intimacy and makes an effort to become accustomed to utilizing it for that. lastly...jupiter in 9th. jupiter is at home here and these people are mischievous af??? they're like the court jesters. their humor can be abrasive or lacking in self awareness to some but it is very authentic and well-intentioned. the developed jupiter in 9th person has an immense level of self awareness when it comes to humor.

fire jupiter: loud & bold with their humor. constantly cracking jokes even if there's not much to work with

air jupiter: a very opportunist but mindful humor. they always say the funniest things with the best timing

water jupiter: sensitive, comforting, friendly humor. these people have the feeling of being "jolly"

earth jupiter: respectful humor. well,, sometimes it can be a little "disrespectful" but when it is it's only directed towards ppl who can handle it or rly, rly deserve it

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mercury or virgo in the houses

Planetary expression in the houses differs slightly from sign expression. As I said previously:

Planet = What? Energy - what are you doing? Sign = How? Which way do you do it?

So here’s how the planetary influence of Mercury and its corresponding sign influence, Virgo, function in the houses.

mercury in the houses:

1st: You have intellectual vitality and alertness, and you communicate clearly and effectively. You see the world according to how you think. and you come off quite self-centered since you’re only concerned with how you think over others’ thoughts. Your mind is oriented both to the present and yourself. It is through the processes of communication that you define yourself and discover the world around you. Also indicates that your youthful appearance stays with you all throughout your lifetime.  

2nd: You would make a successful salesman or wheeler-dealer, since your mind focuses naturally on wealth and material subjects. You have your mind on your money and you money on your mind. You are very curious to understand the nature of the physical world, and it is through learning and knowing how something works that you feel secure. In order to learn and accept ideas more easily, you often need to write down your thoughts or make them visual.  

3rd: Your overall intelligence is well above average. You are curious and seek out all kinds of knowledge. You are adaptable, lively, restless and a natural communicator. You are observant and witty, and your mind literally teems with facts and opinions for which you rarely wait for permission to express. In fact, it is true to say that you have an opinion about everything. There may also be deep-rooted problems stemming from sibling rivalry. As a child, you learnt to read and write fairly quickly, and you may have a flair for foreign languages. .  

4th: You’re high strung and easily irritated. The past interests you, as does your own family history. History is a favourite subject for you. Your own memories are usually quite clear. You may prefer to do your studying at home, or even work from the home. Early in your life you may have experienced many changes of residence. Bickering and arguments may unfortunately emerge all too often in your home environment. If the Fourth House is taken to represent the father or father figure, then Mercury placed here means that you may have more than one father figure. You may see your father as being articulate, critical and quite tricky.

5th: You’re very fixed, straightforward, simplistic, and opinionated. You have a real knack for communicating with young people, and work well with them. You tell stories with flair, and your theatrical and dramatic side emerges when you communicate. Your bright, fertile and active brain seeks creativity through either the written or the spoken word. You make an excellent teacher, because you can keep concepts simple and clear, and also make learning a fun time.

6th: Your mind operates methodically, efficiently, and on a very practical level. You think things through logically and orderly, and are highly intelligent. Science and medicine are well-suited to your particular way of thinking. A lot of hypochondriacs have Mercury in the 6th, and as such, your state of mind is directly linked with your state of health and vice versa. You tend to worry a lot about your day-to-day work problems. You need to be mentally stimulated in your workplace and allowed to express your opinions. You need to watch the tendency to criticize too much.

7th: You’re very able at negotiating and arbitrating between people. In fact, you really need to communicate. Your favourite pastime is assessing and trying to understand how other people’s minds work and what they are thinking. You place great importance on intellect, so you tend to judge people according to their intellectual standards. You may choose a partner who is cleverer and younger than you. You are very interested in other people’s problems and make a good listener, even though you may simply be motivated by curiosity.

8th: Anything mysterious or secret intrigues you and you are quite skillful at drawing out other people’s secrets and working out what their true motives are. You have the ability to communicate and share with other people anything which is obscure, profound or subtle. However, when it comes to yourself, you tend to keep your secrets and motivations to yourself.  

9th: You are fascinated by knowledge and become the eternal student. You continually seek to broaden your horizons through knowledge, but paradoxically you can also become fanatical and dogmatic. You are tempted to discard facts that don’t agree with your beliefs and only keep those that do. Nonetheless, you have a curious and lively mind that is forever seeking answers. You want to know the answer to life, the universe and everything. You want to pass on what you have learnt to others. You want to both teach them and inspire them. On a side note, you seem tom have verbal battles with your relatives, more often than not.

10th: Your agile brain produces bright ideas, and you appreciate the role that education can play in furthering your career. You would like to appear as a clever and educated person and will use your knowledge to get the most out of career opportunities. You’re often looked at as being a speaker or a writer, and are seen as a verbal authority in your chosen field, able to communicate your ideas effectively. You perceive your mother as either fickle and changeable, or alternatively as intelligent and expressive in life, and you try to emulate her.  

11th: You have an original and electric mind which respects truth and reason. Your ability to think objectively and impartially gives you foresight. You enjoy debate and believe that any problem can be solved by discussion and negotiation. Many of your friendships are based on a strong intellectual rapport, and you love to bounce your ideas off your friends and get a stimulating exchange of ideas flowing. There is a strong humanitarian and philosophical bent to your mind. Can also indicate that your sibling is your best friend, or you treat your best friend as your sibling.  

12th: You are kind, charitable, creative, and humorous, but also lack confidence (especially in your ability to communicate) and are a little secretive. It is a contradiction of your character that although you are shy, you don’t mind appearing or performing in public. You may be attracted to the entertainment world, as well as psychology, mysticism and the occult. You suffer from muddled thinking and negative thoughts in particular, and the back of your mind is based on your experiences in the past. These memories may distort your perception of present events. It’s often difficult for you to know whether your own thoughts truly are your own.

virgo in the houses:

1st: You have an enviable quality of physically not looking your age. You’re generally very well-put together, and you have an exacting air of authority about you. You find it easier to be with those you consider inferior than with equals. You have a greater sense of power than you are able or willing to express. You move quietly, but with purpose. You overcome yourself through self-transformation. Your daily rituals are sacred to you and your sense of self is complete when you elevate the ordinary and do a job thoroughly, rendering everyone else useless.

2nd: Your resources are used for others. You’re practical and down to earth when it comes to spending money. You’re very practical with your finances and can spend lavishly as well as save for a rainy day. You thrive on service to others, and your self-worth is strengthened by your ability to help people when they turn to you for guidance.

3rd: Your head and your heart can either clash or work together, depending on how secure you are with yourself. Your early life might have consisted of low-self esteem issues and/or an inferiority complex. You love to tell stories, and you go into great detail in your storytelling. You have what it takes to be a great writer. You are a bundle of nervous energy and can wear yourself out mentally getting caught up in inconsequentials. 

4th: You’re a born historian. You’re rather fussy and a perfectionist, especially when it comes to your home; you feel that there’s a place for everything, and everything is in its place. You can’t see the forest for the trees and have problems letting things go. Your naggy, touchy, nit-picky nature can be an amazingly difficult temperament to deal with. You can be a bit two-faced and might be labeled erratic and unstable. You can be rather petty, but when a big crisis happens, you do rise to the occasion.

5th: When it comes to affairs of the heart, you have a difficult time, since your tendency to analyze and criticize often causes trouble. You want to enjoy affection without having to work for it, then wonder why love fails you. You need mental companionship and love to debate and have discussions. On the surface, you’re flexible, but deep down, you stubbornly stick to your own ways until you decide to change.

6th: You’re great at mechanical work and take to it like a duck to water. You act instead of talking about acting. Though impatient with others, you readily give help when asked for it. You’re interested in health, so you tend to eat healthily, diet, or engage in some sort of exercise. You rarely get sick, but when you do, it’s usually a serious issue, and you can be irritable and cantankerous. You’re capable of a lot of hard work, to the point of exhaustion. You’re rather unsentimental, and have a gift for research and are rather brainy, focusing on the details of things.

7th: You tend to choose a mate who is .in one way or another. inferior to you. Charity cases and underdogs appeal very greatly to you, and you feel as if you can “fix” or help them. You tend to be a doormat (or a martyr, to put it kindly), and seek out partners that bring you pain. You’re only really happy with someone if your have something to complain and feel miserable about. If you marry, you marry a very critical person who’s a projection of your own critical personality. You might have two marriages, with your second being happier than the first. Nonetheless, you serve your mate and aim to please.

8th: You have the highest potential to be destructive with your criticism than anyone else. You may be good at sex, but you will likely have difficulties in your sex life due to your hypercritical nature. You have a very practical approach, though, when it comes to other people’s money. You deal with death pragmatically and are the type to get your house in order so that any loved ones you may have can deal smoothly with your transition.

9th: You have a sort of skepticism where religious matters are concerned. You’re the type of prison that needs concrete evidence in order to believe something. You might do a good deal of traveling, but it would mostly be for business. You have a practical approach to life that is very much centered on the “here and now”, and the grass is not greener on the other side. Because of your intelligence and interest/aptitude for higher education, you would make an excellent teacher or even professor.

10th: You’re as keenly and ruthlessly critical with yourself as you are with others. You intensely dislike being wrong and are apt to rationalize and justify everything. With your career and your public image, you have a need to be seen as perfect and above reproach. You are someone who serves others for the expectation for being served in return. You like doing good only if you’re being publicly recognized for it. You would make a very good teacher. You might have two careers in your life. 

11th:  When you serve others and forget yourself, you are truly majestic and dynamic, because you are willing to help the underdogs in life. You’re great with animals, and would make an excellent veterinarian. There is a very strong inferiority complex that’s not apparent on the surface. You are far more shy than people think and shun crowds or large groups of people, finding them uncomfortable.

12th: You have a sort of devotional self-surrender as well as an ability to be truly humble and patient. You may be outwardly friendly towards other people, yet inwardly critical and thus may suffer from various health difficulties. When you give of yourself in service to others and are nonjudgmental, you tend to feel better, emotionally and physically.

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Solstices and equinoxes. Compton’s pictured encyclopedia. v.2. 1922. 

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u/Cant_Even18 shares the horrific details of what it was like to have COVID.

Wear your masks. Wash your hands. Socially distance. And most importantly: stay the fuck home if you can.

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hey since case numbers are SURGING AGAIN in the united states, i figure this is as good a time as any to reblog this again

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☽ moon culture ☽

moon in aries:

simple

bluntly honest

emotionally direct

single-minded when involved in their latest enthusiasm

not liking to be bothered (least of all by “emotional” distractions or someone else’s “personal needs”).

loses interest when the source of excitement is no longer new

very action-oriented

pushy

they react impatiently, even when they are not nearly so annoyed or irritated as others may assume from their explosive behaviour

doesn’t hold grudges

needs new challenges throughout their lives

fearless

SHITTY listeners

obsessively self-interested

jumps to conclusions

they need to feel that they are not influenced by others, and therefore they appear not to be listening to others’ advice or observations….

yet, months later, they may inadvertently reveal that they heard it very well and even reflected on it and accepted it later

easily bored

restless

COMPETITIVE

doesn’t hold grudges

extremely self-sufficient; they prefer independence and the freedom to act without restriction

rarely seeks any kind of input from others

moon in taurus:

steady emotions

has little self-doubt

not easily perturbed, even by powerful attacks or shocking events that would strongly affect others

amazingly resilient

remarkably poised in facing life’s demands and unpredictability is remarkable

has a steadying influence on others

reliable

seems to be always late, but really they move only when they are good and ready and insist on their own pace in everything they do in life

inner contentment

resistant to change

attuned to the rhythms of nature and the earth, and this gives them their renowned physicality and sensuality

they accept others with few demands

takes life as it comes

pleased with life in general and rather pleased with themselves

smug

conceited

self-indulgent

lazy

doesn’t readily reveal their feelings

GREAT listeners

appropriately responsive and solidly supportive, but not gushingly effusive

hey really prefer not to allow anything to quickly affect them.

crafty

good, albeit rather corny, sense of humour

stubborn

persistent

sometimes impervious to what’s going on beneath the surface of things

not willing to accept others’ moods

doesn’t believe in spontaneity

can be quite boring

moon in gemini:

reacts quickly to input and to other people

adapts quickly to changes

often has intriguing perceptions

motivated by endless curiosity

constantly needs a variety of mental stimuli to keep them feeling alive and developing

they never seem to know who they are for very long

emotions are a rather foreign territory for them, and they need to verbalize their emotions in order to feel connected with them

illogical

has a fluctuating nature

talks ENDLESSLY

glib

flirtatious

likes to continually experiment with their feelings, first expressing one thing and then another

the MOST averse to commitment

there is a pitiful lack of touch with the subconscious, and although there is endless logical analysis of motives and rational examination, there is no change

mentally disconnected; one part of the mind does not know what the other part is doing or thinking.

spreads themselves too thin

witty

amazingly skilled in a vast number of areas

can communicate in a lively way with a diverse array of people

defensive about their intelligence

cleverness pleases them better than profundity

funny > fair

exciting

provocative

chronically unhappy because they often find it difficult to really believe in anything.

suffers from a confused self-image—and thus sometimes also an unclear sexual identity

cultivates a highly energy-charged atmosphere

always on the go, doing something, giving somebody a hand

versatile

interested in many different kinds of people and activities

charming

evasive

light-hearted

hollow

fickle

moon in cancer:

tends to get fixated on what they’re feeling, sometimes to the point that their feelings become a major issue in which everyone around them has to participate

reacts with great sensitivity to all types of experiences

subjective

INSECURE

self-protective

selfish

DEFENSIVE

can be superbly attuned to others’ feelings and emotional needs

needs to feel secure, in fact, they feel most secure when engaged in protecting and nurturing others

protective of their loved ones and themselves

are easily hurt by even small insensitivities on the part of others or by what seem to them to be personal slights

hides when the going gets tough

needs complete personal privacy

their extreme sensitivity can cause problems with others who may view the strong reactions to small things as hypersensitivity

always have to walk on eggshells around them

they feel comfortable mainly with those who are familiar to them

needs domesticity, closeness, dependency, and simplicity of lifestyle

clannish

CLINGY

doesn’t really like change

traditional

quite sentimental and moody

very loyal and supportive of old friends and relatives

acts infantile, whining and manipulating others by letting everyone know how bad they feel or how badly they have suffered

lays ‘guilt trips’ on others (and on themselves) like no one else

impressionable and easily influenced

the men have a good understanding of women and also closeness to their mother

the women tend to be misunderstood and hurt quite easily

possessive

CREATIVE

has the best motherly instinct of all the moon signs

moon in leo:

warm

generous

can be charming

often enthusiastic and/or humorous.

CHILDISH

shallow yet still has personal integrity

prone to flattery

proud

pushy and domineering, mainly due to their enthusiasm

needs recognition and demonstrative affection, and their pride is often hurt if such attention isn’t given in sufficient and public ways

they are often shallow and prone to flattery, and yet they have considerable personal integrity, which is not usually compromised.

needs to live up to a big and rather dramatized image of themselves

show-offs

self-absorbed

emotionally MELODRAMATIC AS F

they can be loyal, sometimes blindly and foolishly so

generous (but they do not mind if others notice their benevolence)

shortsighted and self-unaware

exhibits obnoxious, grandiose behavior

sell themselves short and wind up worldly failures in comparison to what they had the ability to do

their huge pride prevents them from ever listening to (or asking for) honest feedback about themselves.

secretly fear that they are not quite up to their self-image

second only to libra moons, they are known for being easily triggered and insulted

fragile ego to criticism, no matter how well-intentioned.

encouraging to others that can be extremely supportive and strengthening in a crisis.

needs to be admired

winds up resenting others for not noticing all that they have given

like to be on top of things

can be easily appealed to through the ego

performers

moon in virgo:

needs a sense of order in their own minds and in the environment to feel comfortable and secure

obsessed with neatness and cleanliness

feels more secure by improving their environment, or—what is not always appreciated—in other people

busybodies

likes to to control others because they can’t control their own lives

critiques others to cover up their own insecurities and inadequacies

being helpful makes them feel better about themselves

excessively self-conscious

feelings are firmly restrained and glimpsed rather than seen

inhibited

prudish

PETTY

habitually anxious and nervous types with a tendency to worry

work provides an escape from their unpleasant emotions or depressing feelings of guilt or worthlessness

love all kinds of boring work—even housework

doubtful

skeptical

hypochondriacs

talented when it comes to detailed work is without equal

morally indecisive

moon in libra:

they weigh everything in their minds before reacting to any experience

indecisive

takes personal relationships seriously

prides themselves on fairness and being able to see the other person’s point of view

will bend over backward to please the other person—often even ignoring their own interests

needs to be liked, to the point that it can undermine their highly valued objectivity

superficial

usually nice

placating and insincere

easily loses themselves in the other’s energy field and become confused about where they end and the other begins

can be unpleasant cases who make it a point to be especially irritating and aggressive, as if to intentionally show you that they don’t care what you think

there is an inability to relate deeply and authentically

needs to share of ideas and idealism in life, and without that dynamic interchange and companionship, they do not feel secure or fulfilled

needs personal intimacy as much as they deep down have a profound fear of it

completely self-centered

insensitive to others, and very exclusive in their views of other people and in their social lifestyle.

extremely opinionated

often seems to lack intellectual confidence and thus retreats into a safe opinion that does not have to be questioned or shared

when truly balanced, they can handle many sides of any issue or concept with impartiality,

they rarely go overboard on one aspect of their lives

likes to balance out work and recreation, social time and solitude time, time away from home and time at home, sedentary activity and walking or biking, etc

moon in scorpio:

reacts intensely to experiences

usually struggles with how to hide or express their powerful feelings

they like to think that they are successfully hiding their emotions from others, but in reality, in many cases the watery energy is bursting out in ways that are quite obvious to others

tends to brooded over experiences privately

often harbors resentment or vengefulness toward others

needs intense and deep emotional involvement

are emotional extremists

POSSESSIVE

fears being overwhelmed by powerful feelings and “taboo” areas of experience, while being simultaneously strongly attracted to them

usually good in a crisis

can be self-controlled and strongly decisive

often unconsciously creates a crisis to create drama (which they secretly love) which make their lives more intense if there is none readily at hand

can be guided by inner convictions and intuitions that often prove extraordinarily accurate, which gives them inner confidence

a lot reach their potential by increasingly allowing their “gut feelings” to guide them

usually has a passionate sense of purpose or mission in life

mysterious

charismatic

petty

has a rather unconscious, sometimes desperate craving for security, which shows in their life and personality

needs to penetrate deeply into life and experience

they need to feel in control so badly that they fail to see what’s really going on

they like to strike out, cruelly, to let you know how badly you’ve hurt their feelings

can be very immature

they’re so interested in hiding their reactions from others, that they also learn to hide their reactions from themselves, which is quite unfortunate

exhibits patterns of emotional withholding

automatically suspicious and paranoid

unrevealing

secretive

calculating

shows a lot envious behaviour (particularly the females) and can become obsessed with the target of their envy

likes to infiltrate the target of their obsession interest’s life thoroughly, and is not above copying this person’s interests in order to get into their environment and private life

CAN DEFINITELY BENEFIT FROM PSYCHOTHERAPY

moon in sagittarius:

tolerant

broad-minded

buoyant attitude toward life

naturally idealistic

instinctively reacts with a philosophical attitude toward any setback, knowing that the future (not the past!) is what matters

most comfortable when exploring ideas, ideals, or outdoor places

loves a sense of freedom without limits; particularly mental freedom

the distant horizon is more appealing than the here and now

always sees the glass as half-full, not half-empty

FUNNY AS FUCK

says yes to every opportunity

promises far more than they can ever deliver

needs to be all things to all people

generous

has a larger-than-life sense of reality and self-image

oblivious to the realities right in front of them that are obvious to everyone else, so focused are they on the distant goal

likes to preach to others (usually “helpfully,” in their view), but if something does not work out, well, that’s not their problem

dislikes the heaviness of daily “reality” and personal or emotional problems

can’t handle any criticism

more indignant than any other sign—a pride that is usually hidden and often surprises others who take their positive, happy demeanor at face value

can’t STAND having one of their pet theories or convictions demolished

feels themselves too much

too proud and convinced of their “honesty” (aka tactless bluntness)

FAKE SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS (either moral or intellectual)

can be so uncompromising in their mode of expression that they often comes across as inconsiderate and unnecessarily hurtful

wants to project an idealistic, upstanding, and admirable image to others; regardless of whether they actually embody it

likes to rationalize their behaviour when it is convenient or advantageous to do so

how they feel about themselves necessarily how others see them and their behaviour

easygoing

gets along with and accepts strangers without discrimination—though sometimes self-righteous and snobbish

doesn’t seem to need so much from one as they can get from many

moon in capricorn:

can give in to the authoritarian streak in their personalities that instinctively makes them want to dominate others

seems unnaturally old and serious when they are young, but they can lighten up as they grow older

unusually capable, disciplined, and conservative

has an aura of melancholy, sometimes helped by a more adventurous—but dry—sense of humour

rigid

distant

very detached

TOUGH

often very inscrutable

prides themselves on not revealing any sign of vulnerability or personal need

instinctively self-controlled and cautious

can be defensive

REALISTIC

has a pessimism/cynicsm/negativity that is almost shocking

NEEDS CONTROL

comfortable assuming responsibility

very hardworking

often professionally successful

OLD SOULS

their constant drive to be “on top” can cripple their capacity for any human intimacy, as well as eliciting automatic distrust from others

takes charge and gives orders

has a dry mechanical approach to feelings

unsympathetic

implies that the others are incompetent

gives the impression of being callous, hardened and unaffected by the tender side of life

can have a tyrannical streak which others may respect—but at a safe distance

SERIOUS AS F

bottom-line-types of people

doesn’t suffer fools gladly

impatient with small talk

they have a certain gravity to them

not the type to be “friends with everyone”

enjoys a few serious, long-term friendships

cool in affections and looks out for self

very calcuating

very shrewd in taking care of their financial needs

very sexual in laid-back ways

doesn’t like to make mistakes

moon in aquarius:

the ultimate nonconformists

unpredictable

often eccentric

born contrarians

INDEPENDENT

also very detached

prides themselves on their objectivity and intellectual integrity

extremely experimental

rarely takes anyone’s word for “truth” or as an ultimate authority

needs freedom like they need air, and they habitually rebel against too much restraint or anyone who tries to control them

they have a rather odd emotional nature that infuriates and frustrates more conventional, predictable people

seems coldly mental, aloof, and in some cases even without normal human feelings

their emotional pressure builds up over time and it eventually explodes in impulsive, radical actions, or in sudden changes of plans or viewpoints

needs to be socially involved in some way

has an emotional need to affect large groups of people

human and social needs > the needs of individuals

often identify with a society or with humanity as a whole

remains the most objective and stays above the turbulent and confusing emotional level

clear-headed

THE BEST, MOST LOYAL and VALUED FRIENDS/FAMILY MEMBERS!

would do anything for you if you’re their friend

very understanding

honest

trustworthy

fair

reasonable

straightforward rarely finds their sense of security with family or physical relatives

has a rebellious streak

insists on freedom from social obligations and conventional values

tends to make others feel of alienated

aloof toward the sensitivities of others

prefers to maintain their stable focus and broad perspective than to be drawn into confusing morass of emotions and pettiness that many people would like them to indulge in

dislikes routine

has a strong need to prove self-sufficiency

has a prevalent feeling of separateness in relationships

lovely individuals because they don’t put any pressure on me to be any different than I am; they accept people or reject people but they rarely put anybody on the spot

very straightforward, once they’ve opened up

low-key sentimental

fixates for quite a period of time (sometimes days) on some extreme mood—either negative or unshakably upbeat

you can never tell what they are thinking or feeling, very often they seem not to be listening at all

doesn’t like hassles

can withdraw at the drop of a hat, becoming very hard to reach or read

moon in pisces:

engages in a vast range of expression and personality types

can be deeply sympathetic and generous (often with healing talent)

can be inspired artistic creators

may be public servants of all sorts

social and spiritual leaders

lazy vagabonds in society who drift with each wave and take what they can

drug and alcohol abusers and other chronic escapists

imaginative

sympathetic

responsive

may be known for being particularly compassionate and idealistic

whether actually true or not, they prefer to be seen as and to feel like someone with true sensitivity and understanding

seeks oneness with the universe

usually expresses empathy for others

obvious vulnerable

vague

evasive

NEEDS THERAPY

these people need periods of unfocused, freely wandering daydreaming, fantasy, listening to music, or other kinds of “escape” to bring them back into emotional balance

IMPRESSIONABLE

they have few psychological defenses and easily absorb the psychic influences of those they deal with

contentment often comes from going beyond the limits of individual personality or transcending the personal self through some method of self-knowledge or spiritual practice

delusional; they want to think as nicely of themselves as possible and often feel they are more sympathetic, more kind, more sensitive than anyone else, but really they’re actually mainly sensitive (or hypersensitive) to themselves alone

don’t want to know their true nature or others’ view of them

they often hear what they want to hear or what they fear hearing, rather than what someone else actually said

manipulates others by eliciting pity

has terrible judgement of people, especially romantic partners

wears their heart on their sleeves

is with you and not with you at the same time

[astrognossienne]

Angular houses: to be Succedent houses: to use Cadent houses: to understand or transform

[astrognossienne]

venus + and -

venus in aries

+: active approach to connecting, knows how to instantly link with strangers, above-board about affection; believes we’re all brothers and sisters; tells it like it is, takes the initiative in sex and in love, exciting, independent, warm, passionate, demonstrative, gives love openheartedly

-: bores easily, rides roughshod over subtleties, naive, too idealistic, impulsive, comes on too strong, sees love as a contest, lacks ability to express tenderness or romance, selfish, impatient, emotionally immature, wears themselves and their lovers out with their fiery intensity, lacks stability

venus in taurus

+: sensual, tactile, loyal, decadent, loves beauty, has innate good taste, often dresses well, affectionate, emotionally vibrant, romantic, intuitive, graceful, loves nature, knows how to please their partner physically, believes in love, generous to a fault, steadfast and true

-: boring, stingy with resources and with love, possessive, jealous, territorial, lazy, only appreciates what they can see and touch, wants constant companionship, feeling > thinking, less than understanding of their lover’s shortcomings, cloying, demanding

venus in gemini

+: verbally charming, witty, has a way with words, light and effervescent, artistic, complex, outgoing, curious, warmly expressive, loves to communicate, reinvents themselves, enjoys intelligent people, aesthetically gifted, fun, lively, experiments with possibility, free spirits, intriguing, flirty, loves variety, open to all the possibilities of life, others often find them very attractive

-: flighty, bores easily, noncommittal, evasive, disloyal, shallow, faddish, relationships are often impermanent, changeable in relationships, romantic attractions are often sudden and causal, often feels stifled and restless, promiscuous, thinks too much, talks that talk but doesn’t act on it, hates to feel bonded to something or someone, not fond of emotions/emotional scenes, flesh and blood often falls short of their ideals

venus in cancer

+: gentle, generous, caring, loving, sympathetic, devoted to their loved ones, nurturing, compassionate, artistic, romantically idealistic, vividly imaginative, emotionally strong, loyal, attentive, warm, domestically gifted, supportive, sincere, wants the best for their lovers, good business sense

-: insecure, allows loved ones to take advantage, clingy, needy, undisciplined, too sensitive, mawkishly dependent, susceptible to flattery, possessive, shy, excessively emotional, takes things for granted, bad at communication, emotionally blackmails their loved ones, unrealistic expectations of their lover, codependent, manipulative, controlling, secretive, often tries too hard to create the type of environment from which their partners dare not leave

venus in leo

+: warm-hearted, fun-loving, romantic, heartfelt, playful, courtly, surprisingly sensitive, makes grand gestures of affection, often sets standards of beauty and fashion, generous, exciting, ardent, loves others as they love themselves, likeable and friendly, stylish, makes others proud to be with you, desirous and has a healthy sexual appetite, colourful

-: very selfish, dramatic, love standards are often too high and this placement looks down on those who don’t meet them, too preoccupied with appearances, too prideful, sulks childishly when they feel unappreciated, ostentatious, uses others to bolster their own self-image and ego, self-serving, domineering, overindulgent, bossy, honest yet calculated

venus in virgo

+: neat, conscientious, dependable, has high standards for their love and won’t settle, patient, will talk about how to resolve issues in their relationships, helpful, often extremely romantic, creative in love, kind-hearted

-: highly strung, too practical, overcautious, overanaylzes emotions and relationships, nothing is ever good enough for them, inhibited, covers up their many insecurities and inadequacies in love by being hypercritical of their lover, too self-conscious and neurotic

venus in libra

+: charming, polite, socially skilled, loves the concept and reality of love, promotes peace and harmony, aesthetically gifted, gracious, good-natured, often conventionally attractive, a friend to all, diplomatic, tactful, refined, doesn’t hold grudges, sophisticated, thinks the best of everyone whether they deserve it or not, can’t love someone they don’t respect, emotionally direct

-: fake, too nice, often goes along to get along, their relationships lack substance and depth, tries too hard to be liked and perfect, often quite contrived, terribly vain and will hate when old age takes away their looks, lacks integrity, easily hurt, superficial, can’t handle honest displays of emotion, insincere, social climbers

venus in scorpio

+: dynamic, sexy, desires orgiastic merging with another, expresses their sexuality like no one else, believes in transformation when it comes to love and relationships, their love is deep, seductive, magnetic, believes that nothing of value comes easy, not afraid of the darkness of life or the soul

-: obsessive, jealous, territorial, volatile, suspicious to the point of paranoia, touchy, becomes so intertwined in their lover that they can’t tell their emotions from their lover, vengeful, unforgiving, self-frustration, destructive, too intense, domineering, controlling, manipulative, takes love too personally and seriously, bitter, has no sense of humour

venus in sagittarius

+: generous, intentions are good, exciting, rapturous, adventurous, light-hearted, demonstrative, honest, open, wild yet ethical, has a natural and healthy appetite for sex, friendly, outgoing, loves to laugh, funny, needs spontaneity, dares to feel, is unafraid of love and will push the boundaries of race, religion and class in order to find their true love

-: tends to love the unattainable, lacks perspective, may be a bit wanton, immodest, impersonal, wants their lover to behave in the upright manner that they feel they themselves ought to but fail to, needs game-playing more than a relationship, is as anxious for a stable relationship as anyone else but they want to be the one to stabilize it

venus in capricorn

+: strives to make their loved ones happy and secure, controls their desires very well, steadfast, creative, responsible, patient when it comes to building a relationship, offers unconditional support to their loved ones, devoted, deeply emotional but controls it well, enduring, trustworthy, has a slow-simmering sexuality

-: emotionally cold, opportunistic and calculating in love and relationships, repressed, fearful, selfish, tremendously insecure, relationships are based on what someone could do for them, self-abnegating, their ability to love is hidden by a self-protective wall, judgmental

venus in aquarius

+: believes in fairness and equality, believes in universal love, can’t stand jealousy or possessiveness, independent, open-minded, unusual, easily bored, objective, friendly, needs excitement and experimentation, stimulating, needs a relationship based on friendship, often one-of-a-kind, sensuous but not sensual, excellent as friends

-: fears getting too close to people, cool, distant, impersonal, a bit outlandish, affections are often unstable, sexual habits are often eccentric, has stubborn emotional attitudes, too idealistic, spreads their love around, generalities > specifics, may be superficially attracted to beauty

venus in pisces

+: loves unconditionally, sensitive, unselfish, accepts their lover as they are for better or worse and doesn’t hold it against them, affectionate, helping others makes them feel better about themselves, understanding, has a wonderful sense of fantasy, romantic, can be compassionate

-: sentimental, maudlin, suffers from a martyr complex, insecure, expects their lovers to read their mind, too fanciful and is unrealistic about their relationships, naive, easily trusting, often refuses to see the ugly truths in front of their face, escapist, deceptive

[callistolivia]

The Moon; Showing Love/Needing Love

 The Moon is a vital component to our personalities. It can show us how we go about showing love for others (and ourselves) and in what aspects we need love. Within the birth chart, positive interchanges between the Moon and personal planets can demonstrate a healthy and developed Moon sign; this is especially true with positive interchanges to Venus. These individuals hold special value in showing love and comfort for others and themselves. We can see a similar outcome in synastry charts when one individual’s Moon has positive interchanges with the other person’s Sun, Moon, or Venus. A positive interchange between one person’s Sun and another person’s Moon demonstrates the most natural compatibility two people could have. These relationships often have the most ease because one individual’s core or character (Sun) aids and uplifts the other’s needs (Moon). Similarly, compatibility between two Moons represents ease in a relationship as two people share like-minded needs; Positive Moon and Venus interchanges in synastry demonstrate ease in understanding and fulfilling another person’s needs.

Aries Moon

How they show love: An Aries’ innate curiosity is their not-so-subtle way of demonstrating love. Aries will go out of their way to spend time with the people they love and actively display interest in them. They can be very passionate and excitable around those they love, like every friend or loved one is another log in their firepit. Aries can also frustratingly push for activity with their loved ones, such as new experiences. They are very impatient and forceful towards the people they care about, but it is simply because they’d love to see them on the same level of hype as they are. Aries’ also demonstrate their love by confidence boosting or role modeling their energy.

What they need: Aries really need patience from others to feel loved and understood; they know they can be frustrating, but they will appreciate those who bare with them. They also really need someone to match their energy or someone to validate their energy; someone to riot with, or someone who is willing to understand their riot. Calming an Aries storm is a plus in their world too.

Taurus Moon

How they show love: A Taurus’ love language tend to fall in line with physical touch and specific acts of service. While physical touch is more obvious (hugs, kisses, cuddles, etc.), acts of service tends to play out in a very background kind of way. Taurus Moon individual’s can quietly carry an entire family’s burden on their backs and be a sanctuary of security and comfort. All who they love the dearest is their babies in their mind. They go out of their way to nurture the emotional well-being of others. In their network of love, they work the hardest and serve their own plate last.

What they need: Physical touch and outlets to relax. The fixed signs, such as Taurus, are guilty of holding onto emotional tension which then turns into physical tension. They need to be shown that they too can be cradled into someone’s arms and melt away. Taurus love massages, dedicated time to rest, and having some of the workload taken off of them. Good food doesn’t hurt also!

Gemini Moon

How they show love: Geminis are the spending quality time type. They can ease away tensions and anxieties with their ability to distract. Gemini Moons have an abundant presence, so while they can lead conversations, they can also direct comfortable silences too. They are great at reading the room and they are perceptive of the technicalities of others needs. With their cooled approach, they will rationalize and come up with creative ways to aid these needs. Their mental toolbox is chalked-full of ideas; “maybe you need to look at it from this perspective,” “I have just the movie for this,” “let’s go for a walk and talk it out!”

What they need: Their chilled exterior can often hide lots of inner anxieties. They really need someone to listen to their tangents. They also really need someone to tell them not to over rationalize their feelings, “you’re just feeling like this, there doesn’t need to be a because, and that’s okay.” They need people to spend their abundant, emotional energies with; vent about it, joke about it, etc.

Cancer Moon

How they show love: Cancers are very protective of their emotional world, so opening that world up to someone is their way of demonstrating love. Emotional vulnerability portrays their deepest act of sincerity. A Cancer’s innate mothering qualities is another way they demonstrate love. They want to create security for their loved ones as well as encourage personal growth. They reassure loved ones directly that their love is unconditional and uncircumstantial. Cancers are very sentimental about physical togetherness, so quality face-to-face time is an important aspect to how they show love.

What they need: Cancers need that natural nurturing quality returned. As much as they want to create security and comfort for their loved ones, they too need others to shield for them. Cancers need to be shown that they are safe; one can do this by dedicating time spent with a Cancer, perhaps inviting them over to your home or spending time at home in a familiar environment. 

Leo Moon

How they show love: Leos are known for praise and thoughtfulness. Leos like showing love through acknowledging others accomplishments that have been forgotten or overlooked. Leos are great at figuring out what is important to others and demonstrating praise, approval, and confidence building language. Leos can also be very thoughtful; they aren’t the “gift-giving” type, though when they find things that remind them of their dearest companions and loved ones, they will go out of their way to give gifts with special meaning. Similar to how a cat chooses whose lap to curl up in, Leos also show love by making one feel “chosen.”

What they need: Leos need verbal and physical praise. Leos find themselves in situations of self-doubt when without reminders of affirmation. Compliments, advice, pats on the back, and encouragement are a few ways to demonstrate affirmation. When in doubt though, a long hug goes a long way with Leos. 

Virgo Moon

How they show love: Virgos choose their words carefully and eloquently and this is how we can acknowledge their way of showing love. Though they are not one of the outright expressive Moon signs such as Cancer, they’ll know exactly what to say or write to make someone feel loved. Though cliché for a Virgo, acts of service is also their way of demonstrating care. They don’t mind doing the small things just to make someone’s life a little easier. Virgos also love leaving things better than when they first found them; physical improvements equate to mental improvements. Virgos also have a tendency of checking in with their loved ones; “have you eaten the right food today?,” “a shower might make you feel better,” “did you get enough fresh air today?,” etc.

What they need: Virgos need acknowledgement that they are doing enough. There is a major tendency towards inadequacy and guilt when they feel like they aren’t doing the right things or enough things. Virgos need reminders of what they’ve accomplished and improvements they’ve made thus far. Remedy their nerves with tea and quality time; nothing can make a Virgo feel more loved than showing them life can be simple.

Libra Moon

How they show love: Libras really set aside their own emotional needs for others; they would much rather please others than have to deal with their emotional world. They graciously give and bend their energy to their loved ones to promote harmony and contentment in their lives; “how can I make them feel comfortable?,” “how can I make them feel wanted?,” how can I make them feel luxurious?” They can be zealous in their efforts to beautify the world around their loved ones. Libras are absolutely the gift-giving type and they don’t need an occasion for it either. They enjoy surprising their loved ones and spoiling them when they can. 

What they need: Libras need to see gratitude for their efforts. Libra Moons live in an emotional world best described as “I don’t know,” so words of affirmation from their loved ones is very important. They also genuinely like hearing what you want from them as they are eager to please. Give Libras decisiveness and they will feel loved. 

Scorpio Moon

How they show love: A Scorpio demonstrates love with extreme obviousness and intensity. Their love is the smothering kind. Since Scorpios like control over their emotional world, the love they give, and the love they recieve, they use many modes of love languages. Physical and emotional intensity are the most obvious. They have an aggressive neediness for their loved ones; if they need you, they won’t beat around the bush about it, they will go and get you. Scorpios demonstrate the peak of their love when they reveal secrets and create or bond over a secret with another. 

What they need: Scorpios really need vulnerability from others. A lot of that “control-freak” persona Scorpio holds is from fear. By actively creating an environment of trust for them, they will feel loved and like they have a special bond. Scorpios really need emotional intimacy. Scorpios can also feel loved by others who give them a sense of purpose. 

Sagittarius Moon

How they show love: Sagittarius’ best demonstrate love through offering experiences. New experiences, trips, and special outings are a few ways Sagis’ try to ignite the light in another’s eyes. They acknowledge the special bonds formed through experiences or shared learnings. Sagittarius’ will go out of there way to place that booking, whether it be a concert, a campsite, hotel, or a niche workshop. Don’t feel like leaving the house? Sagis’ can get pretty creative around the house too; crafting, new recipes to try, documentaries to stream, new hobbies to take up. Honestly, don’t even be surprised if your Sagittarius brings home a tattoo gun one day. Sagittarius’ love through excitement.

What they need: Sagittarius’ really need mutual excitement and enthusiasm. They find comfort in those who truly listen to their philosophies and laugh at their jokes. Sagittarius’ really need to feel like they are a part of something, so family-like networks are also very important to their well-being despite being considered one of the more “flighty” or independent signs. An ear from many can make a Sagi’ feel truly loved.

Capricorn Moon

How they show love: Capricorns are not always direct in expressing love, but you can really tell one loves you when you are including in their life plans and goals. Capricorns have an innate need to control, so they often express love through being a providing or protective figure in their loved one’s lives. They provide a backbone or structure to their loved ones that would be extremely noticeable if they weren’t around. Capricorns also tend to provide guidance and mentorship to demonstrate care. Capricorns can be quite stingy as well, so if one spends their money on you, it says a lot!

What they need: They need people who can show them the more direct and vulnerable forms of love. They really need intense physical and emotional care; those who can introduce them to these realms of love. Saturn energy can make a person very structured and rigid so they need a good dose of warmth in their life to feel loved.

Aquarius Moon

How they show love: Without trines or sextiles, Aquarius’ showing love can be very subtle, hence why this placement is infamously known for being “unemotional.” However, Aquarius’ are fantastic lovers; they often demonstrate love through validation. Aquarius’ have a keen idea of what it’s like to be misunderstood so they’re the ones who are best at making others feel like they’re not a black sheep. They have a “being weird is okay” mentality when the focus isn’t on themselves, so if an Aquarius validates your off-beatness, it most definitely means they love you.

What they need: Aquarius’ really need validation in return for the validation they’re known for giving. Relatability is one way of demonstrating validity. Similar to Taurus and the other Fixed signs, their emotional tension leads to physical crystallization. Creating outlets to release their emotional tension as well as physical touch to aid the built-up tension are two of Aquarius’ biggest needs.

Pisces Moon

How they show love: Pisces have a large capacity to love and they demonstrate this through empathy and their fully immersed listening. They want to help their loved ones through giving advice, relating, or just lending their ear. Pisces are sensitive and openly vulnerable about how they are feelings and this is in hopes that others will relate and connect to them through this. Pisces are always the ones to step into the uncharted territories of the emotional world, leading others behind them; comforting, helping, teaching. 

What they need: Pisces really need guidance and clarity. They feel loved when someone is guiding them and giving them definitive truth to how they are feeling. Pisces can often get mixed up about their own feelings, so the ones who really look out for them, Pisces will remember and cherish. Those who show a willingness to connect also make Pisces feel loved; Pisces would absolutely be enthralled by a nap buddy or meditation partner.

[jupiteronic]

water placements are like damn i feel lonely... better isolate myself even more to cope

[lyjerria]

if you were on a date and asked the person what their sign is, what answer would make you consider leaving?...I say libra

[astrognossienne]

scorpio or pluto in the houses

Planetary expression in the houses differs slightly from sign expression. As I said previously:

Planet = What? Energy - what are you doing? Sign = How? Which way do you do it?

So here’s how the planetary influence of Pluto and its corresponding sign influence, Scorpio, function in the houses.

pluto in the houses:

1st:  You are a powerful person, who really makes an impact on your surroundings. May be surprised to realize just how powerful an effect you have on those around you. Those with this placement are constantly challenging themselves and other people to embrace all that life offers, and to forge ahead towards goals.

2nd: Possessions and money are a major challenge in your life. There is a constant sense of upheaval in your finances. This could mean that you’re constantly struggling to make enough money to cover their expenses. If this is the case, you may adapt your attitude towards money, realizing that there are more important values in life.

3rd: Your deep and penetrating intellect combined with excellent powers of observation make you a born investigator. You are able to see right to the heart of the matter and analyze an issue thoroughly, as well as communicate on all levels. Your strong opinions could cause trouble and arguments within the family unit. Relationships with siblings are likely to have been quite complex with many powerful undercurrents.

4th: Family and domestic matters are extremely important to you, involving your deepest emotions and innermost complexes. Your moods at home can be explosive, and you may be seen as a tyrant at times. Unresolved issues from early childhood may seethe in your unconscious, stirred up by issues involving your present home conditions.

5th: You bring a strong intensity to all issues involving romance, love, children, pleasures and fun, as well as all your creative endeavours. You are highly creative and have unique and unusual talents and abilities. Emotions run extremely deep for you and can be so overwhelming that you switch off from them. Your sexuality is also extremely strong.

6th: Changes and upheavals are likely to be your lot at work, whether they are external or brought about by you yourself. The way that you tend to improve conditions at work is by making huge and sweeping changes. Sometimes work can be an uncomfortable place for you, as the relationship with co-workers may be marred by undercurrents of intrigues, treachery and sexual innuendo. 

7th: Relationships will be the cause of major life crises for you. You tend to take partnerships (both business and personal) very seriously and you become intensely emotional about them. Because you tend to attract others who are as strong-willed as you are, and because you’re so intense, relationships often seem to be more like battlefields than mutually satisfying experiences. 

8th: Your life is one of constant change, as though he/she is living several lifetimes in one. Your gifts of intuition and an ability to restore to advantage when things fall apart are in your favour. You can usually see beneath the surface of any situation, which gives you a decided edge, but you try to avoid circumstances which put someone else in the driver’s seat.

9th: Study, religion and travel are challenging areas in your life. You probably have a powerful drive to discover higher meanings in life, but there’s also the possibility in some cases you will do all in your power to refuse to acknowledge a higher meaning. Either way it’s likely that orthodox religion has played a powerful role in your life.

10th: You possess an almost overwhelming desire to succeed and earn respect and authority. You can be ruthless in allowing nothing to stand in your way, and you may well achieve a position of authority and responsibility at an early age, partly because of your ability to manipulate other people and partly because of your own dynamic force.

11th: Friendships and groups are a challenge. On a positive note, you may feel drawn to powerful friends who have a profound effect on their life, enabling you to achieve their hopes and wishes. It’s also possible that you become involved with a significant group or groups that transform your life for the better. You may be drawn to political or humanitarian groups, which have a commitment to making the world a better place.

12th: One of your biggest challenges is to overcome an overwhelming sense of responsibility for other people’s problems. This is quite a feat because you are often at the center of conflict without really understanding why. This probably started when you were a young child, and seemed to be the focus of the rest of your family’s aggression.

scorpio in the houses:

1st: You’re extremely intuitive and psychic, though you are apt to be silent about many of your impressions and feelings. You have a strong sense of reserve. You can be sarcastic and vindictive and your tongue can be a deadly weapon. Nonetheless, you have the courage and persistence to see things through, no matter what the cost is to yourself and this is what ultimately commands respect from others, even if you’re not necessarily liked. You’re also creative and resourceful.

2nd: You’re very stingy and not at all interested in sharing your resources with anyone. You hold on tightly to your resources and possessions because of your reserve and tenacity, but also because of your hidden insecurity, and you fear poverty more than almost anything else. You’re very secretive about your finances and deeply resent anyone trying to pry into your affairs.

3rd: You have very fixed opinions and theories, and might even be prejudiced. You may be easygoing enough, but once your mind is made up about something, no one can change it. You’d make for a good detective. You are likely to have friction with your siblings and are not easily understood by others. You like to be on the go, but need a stable home base from which to function.

4th: You have a formidable inner strength. Once you’ve given yourself to a cause or an individual, you’re persistent, even unto death and loyal to the nth degree. Your fixity and determination get you through many obstacles and setbacks, which are often of your own making because of your gullibility and tendency to easily trust the wrong people. Nevertheless, your indomitable faith keeps you from bitterness and you don’t stay down for long.

5th: You indulge in secret or unusual love affairs. You have a tremendous interest in sex, but mainly from an angle of curiosity, not passion necessarily. You’re very selfish and everything often revolves around yourself, or at least you think it should. You’re tenacious and persistent in your love affairs when they last, but once they’ve run their course, you move on surprisingly quickly. You attract people fairly easily and this is lucky for someone like you, since you need people to validate you own center and self-worth.

6th: You want a sense of freedom in your work, since you intensely dislike routine and don’t want to be confined to a desk or cubicle. You’re not so much patient as you are intensely curious, so investigative and scientific work would suit you well, as well as real estate. You have a great deal of mental energy, and you need to be active, interested, and busy in your life and your work. Your creative force is often manifested physically, and this tends to take a toll on your health.

7th: You bring a great deal of energy to your social relationships, so much so that you might suffer physically from a bad or failed relationship. Your loyalty stands many tests. You hate to give up and take a bad union as a personal defeat. Once you give yourself over to your powerful emotions, they’re not easily changed. You often feel the need to conquering others and bending partners and loved ones to your will; essentially your relationships become a battlefield where victory ultimately comes by conquering yourself.

8th: You have very strong physical urges. Your approach to love and sex is very simple and direct, yet very powerful and all-consuming to you and your loved ones. When it comes to sex, you’re ruthless in trying to produce heightened feelings and you have no sentimental ties in a relationship, just an emphasis on the intensity of feeling; you need to learn how to relax and let things flow, even if nothing exciting happens. You love life but face death and dissolution objectively. Inside, you’re emotionally uncertain, and that’s why you cling to life’s objective realities. You’re not one to go all out on faith and trust, you need someone you trust to install this mindset in you first.

9th: You seek the meaning of life. You are not superficial and do not live on the surface of life; there is depth and emotional intensity in your desire to know an understand life’s purpose. You are not orthodox in your search for truth. You like to travel and do so as much as you can. You are quite likely to pursue higher education in order to supplement your need for deep knowledge.

10th: You are not satisfied until you have made your mark on the world. You have all the drive necessary to succeed in the material world. The limelight is extremely important to you. Your power will be felt in whatever you do, but you will have to work hard for it, as well as put great effort into any achievements you experience. You have healing power and may be great in the medical field.

11th: You have a great emotional intensity when it comes to your friends, and are fiercely loyal to them. You may even be possessive and clingy when it comes to holding onto your friends. You’re apt to be rather demanding and sit in judgement of others who fail to meet your standards. The friendlier and more cooperative you are, the more likely you are to see success.

12th: You have a tendency to be resentful of others and may exhibit jealousy, both traits which are deeply embedded in you. You may have many secret enemies based on your powerful personality, but you are often your own worst enemy. You have a need to regenerate hidden emotions and underground feelings. You are able to bring about transformations and endow your life with meaning, but at the same time you may be afraid of the intensity of your hidden feelings and drives. In the same way that you fear transformations, you may also have a strong fear of death.

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If y'all want to make a clown a gay icon like… Harley Quinn is right there

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Harley quinn and pennywise are wlw/mlm solidarity.

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No Harley beats the shit out of Pennywise with her bat and takes the kids out for ice cream and group therapy

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birds of prey (2020)

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Wow wish I had a cool gf

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man’s dating a village wise woman and complaining 

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honey that’s just a witch they’re harmless unless you fuck them over

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Undeveloped vs. developed Venus signs (relationships and love)

Aries Venus:

Undeveloped: gets very angry because of smallest things, competitive, compares themselves to their partner, easily jealous, gets offended a lot, often only wants physical affection, doesn’t want their ego to be hurt

Developed: wants the relationship to be fun, active, shows you lots of love, adventurous, open about feelings, appreciates the little things, loves to go out, shows you off, you can always talk to them

Taurus Venus:

Undeveloped: possessive, overly jealous, doesn’t talk about their emotions, high-sensitive, wants to do everything right, anxious about falling in love, very shy and reserved, fear of being rejected

Developed: most romantic person ever, wants the best for their partner, gets you gifts, shows affection a lot, always supportive, happy when with people, great people-pleaser, loves to spend time with their partner even if it’s just for napping

Gemini Venus:

Undeveloped: judging, control-freak, manipulative in a way, bad intentions, showing less to no emotion at all, you never know where you’re at with them, won’t let you talk, doesn’t really listen

Developed: funny and lively conversations, shows you the bright side of life, gives good advice, tries to be a lil more affectionate, smiles a lot and gives you positivity, is like a best friend and partner at the same time

Cancer Venus:

Undeveloped: controlling, manipulates your emotion, cry-baby, needs you a bit too much, drama queen, jealous, a bit clingy, love is “melodrama”, deeply affected/sad when something goes wrong

Developed: cares about their partner and their health, always a shoulder to lean on, gives the warmest hugs, helps you, tries to understand your opinions, just wants to spread love, shows affection a lot, romantic

Leo Venus:

Undeveloped: wants to be treated as royal, could use you for their goods, egoistic af, when their needs aren’t fulfilled prepare for fight, needs attention, fishing for compliments, doesn’t really care about how their partner feels, clingy

Developed: treats YOU like royality, supports you and your goals, no.1 fan of your relationship, shows you off, goes on cute dates, thoughtful gifts, romantic, positive about your future, wants to spend time with you

Virgo Venus:

Undeveloped: doesn’t “care” about love, thinks they don’t deserve love, plays the victim, gives everything in a relationship without getting something back, shows no emotion, difficult to see under their hard shell, hard to commit to a person/relationship

Developed: your go-to-person, shows enough emotion, embraces the little things, really sweet and affectionate, makes thoughtful gifts, cares about you and your health, always trying to make you happy with little jokes, best teamwork-partner ever, selfless

Libra Venus

Undeveloped: clingy, overly romantic, has a new crush everyday, can‘t really commit to one partner, you never know where you‘re at with them, everything revolves about them and their feelings, missing sense of identity, indecesive

Developed: really sweet and affectionate, wants the best for their partner, invests a lot of time in the relationship, determined about love, loves to show their love, shows you off, tells everyone that their partner is the best, cares for you

Scorpio Venus

Undeveloped: possessive, too much jealousy (you can‘t even talk to someone else), not stable enough to handle a rejection, concentrates only on their partner and forgets about themselves, often too passionate and a lot of fights

Developed: gives you enough freedom to be yourself, romantic and cute gestures, pushes you to new things, is productive with you, teamwork is always on point, gives you security and stability, great sex life, wants to be happy with you

Sagittarius Venus

Undeveloped: often too flighty, doesn’t stay around one partner for too long, difficulties to express their feelings properly, doesn’t search for something true, thinks they’re always right, often brutally honest and disrespectful

Developed: tries to give their partner safety but also an adventure, always wants to do something new and crazy (in a good way), loves you for who you are not what you look like, is proud to have you and shows you their feelings

Capricorn Venus

Undeveloped: does not have a lot of self-confidence and doubts themselves constantly, afraid of falling in love and ending the relationship in a disaster, cold and comes off as heartless, only interested in their work, makes up no time for their partner

Developed: one of the most romantic and affectionate lovers, when they really love you, they’ll show and prove it, give you stability, respectful and not too clingy, wants the best for you and always helps you with everything, is really concerned about being happy with one person

Aquarius Venus

Undeveloped: a bit of a loner sometimes, it’s very hard for them to show affection and love, often don’t know what love feels like, tries to avoid relationships, cynic,pretty harsh, hard for them to open up to someone, lost in their own world, not interested in romance

Developed: would go to the end of the world for the person they love, shows love in their own and very special ways, down for anything, you can talk with them about literally anything, soulmate material, wants the best for you, needs their freedom but you can always find compromises

Pisces Venus

Undeveloped: too dreamy, can’t commit to one person, but if they do they’re too clingy, don’t think of themselves and only cares about others which isn’t always good, plays the victim a lot, lonely, wastes time not talking to their crush and tell them the truth

Developed: loves to spend time with the one they love, also tries to think of themselves, helpful and caring, very sensual and sensitive, they would never ever hurt you, loyal and honest, a sweet little romantic, gives the best advice

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Basic Astrology Part 10

The MC 🌌

The 10th house is also known as Midheaven ( MC ) and it actually shows in one’s chart the upper point that somebody strive to be (depending the sign ) . Also , how we are viewed from the public , our career , skills and capabilities we practice and have for our future , our role models and authority figures or people we really admire .

Aries MC : They appear bold , energetic and intimidating on the public with strong will . They will prefer careers that push themselves to reach the top (athletes) , careers that require leadership skills and organizing ( director / management ) , discipline ( army ) , risk-taking ( firefighter / cops ) . They strive to be the best ( top ) , to stand up for themselves in hard situations , to be direct and assertive in their jobs .

Taurus MC : They appear sensual , grounded and reliable on the public with strong foundations . They will prefer careers that express beauty and arts ( artists , cosmetics , musicians , dancers , singers ) , money related and business ( bank , accountant , businessman ) where they actually have control and calculate their moves , building ( architecture ) . They strive to be practical and efficient , hard working and loyal to their values .

Gemini MC : They appear easy going , sociable , witty with good sense of humour . They will prefer diversity in their careers since their adaptable , they like to learn new things or teach new things since they are experimental ( teachers ) , they have a way with words ( poetry ) , writing books or fanfics ( writer / author ) , collecting fresh information ( journalist ) . They strive to be friendly , open minded , try a lot of new things (including careers ) before deciding where to settle .

Cancer MC : They appear sympathetic , kind , gentle and sentimental . They will prefer careers that allow them to help others due to their sympathetic nature ( social worker ) , careers that involve health ( nurse ) , careers that allow them to express their feelings ( actors , musicians ) or with animals ( veterinarian ) . They strive to be the ones who protect others , who have a mother - like vibe , who support others in their goals and dreams . They might dream of working at home , somewhere they feel safe .

Leo MC : They appear majestic , loud , generous with bravery as their main trait . They will prefer careers that allow them to express themselves ( drama , acting ) , become famous ( idols , influencers ) , work on projects ( management ) , fashion or commercials . They strive to charismatic , leaders and role models for other people and inspire people to work hard for themselves (Top Priority Self ) .

Virgo MC : They appear calm , organized , innocent and with logical thinking . They will prefer careers that help other people , especially health and hygiene ( doctor , massage therapist , spa worker , dermatologist ) , careers involve teaching ( mathematician ) suits them due to rational thinking and calculating nature , enviroment with books ( librarian ) . They strive to be perfect on whatever career they choose , remain humble and put order in their life .

Libra MC : They appear charming , sociable , diplomatic with interpersonal intelligence . They will prefer careers that involve beauty ( arts , cosmetics ) , fashion ( modeling ) , public relations ( counselor ) they can see each side of a problem , law ( lawyer ) defender of justice , interior design , jeweller . They strive to be appealing , pleasing , the “ link ” that connects other people , live a balanced life .

Scorpio MC : They appear mysterious , intimidating , alluring with a quiet personality . They prefer careers where they can be very ambitious ( businessman ) , where they have control and predict events ( accountant ) , jobs that are connectes with the past ( archaeologist ) they seek for answers , investigators , psychology due to their observing habit and understanding of the deepest part of themselves . They strive to be daring , bold , opinionated with fixed view in their mind , careers transform them .

Sagittarius MC : They appear spontaneous , funny , happy go lucky and independent . They will prefer careers that involve foreign language ( teaching / translating ) , beliefs and faith ( priest ) , restless energy ( athletes ) , law enforcement , television travelling shows , museums and guide . They strive to be open minded , non judgemental , straightforward and optimistic outlook .

Capricorn MC : They appear serious , cold , pessimistic and hard working . They will prefer careers that allow them to achieve high social status ( businessman ) , positions with power ( president , director ) , also that require accuracy ( surgeon ) , army / cops due to discipline , money related jobs and crafts . They strive to be professionals , keep low profile in public , succeed in anu field due to their mature and logical thinking . ( hard work pays off )

Aquarius MC : They appear quirky , friendly , open minded and intellectual they encourage change . They will prefer careers that have to do with politics , with social media and information , scientific research , physics , chemistry , visual artist , youtuber . They strive to differentiate from other people , experiment new things , envision a better future for them and the others .

Pisces MC : They appear delicate , kind , caring and artsy with big heart . They will prefer careers that allow them to express themselves freely ( drama , acting , dancing , arts , singing ) , animals ( veterinarian or animal breeder ) , video game director , fanfics , poetry , ( where they use their imagination ) , co workers in healthcare . They strive to be sensitive in the needs of others , self sacrificing , humanitarian and freedom loving .

( I just wanted to add that there can be much more careers for each sign from what I have actually wrote down , since planets on 10th House / Midheaven will benefit with more opportunities ❤)