Unbroken

You only get a first second chance. ~Scarlett O.

[madsohmy]

“she’s in everything you do.”

— 8.4.19

[madsohmy]

“I’m somewhere between fuck you and I miss you.”

— oh well.. (via madsohmy)

[justagirlfromjustin]

Beneath the surface, where vulnerability lay exposed, I found you, and I saw myself.

[justagirlfromjustin]

My peace is nonnegotiable. You disrupt it.

[justagirlfromjustin]

He says to me, “Mom, why does she pick on me? (Of course he fails to mention that he started it!) 😇. Is it because I’m black?” So I reply, “ No baby, she’s black at heart. She does it because she loves you.” And so it begins…. “Mom loves me more! Mom says I’m her favorite. Mom said I’m smarter than you. Mom said if you don’t act right she’s going to give me your bedroom!” I can’t help laughing at these two! They fight like sibling, laugh like friends and love like family. I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love you both! @deonsosa @jmharvey_ #family #friends #siblings #love #laugh #fight #instafamily #memories #mybabies #myonlyblackson

[justagirlfromjustin]

“The paint smeared across the canvas like our lives unfolded the years of fucking chaos.”

— Shoebox Memories via ScarlettO (via justagirlfromjustin)

[justagirlfromjustin]

“You could drive yourself insane trying to understand what happened but it wouldn’t change where we are now.”

— Shoebox Menories via ScarlettO (via justagirlfromjustin)

[justagirlfromjustin]

“Somewhere beneath the surface, I found you.”

— Shoebox Memories. via ScarlettO (via justagirlfromjustin)

[justagirlfromjustin]

[justagirlfromjustin]

I traced your silhouette in starlight. I whispered your name to the wind. I believed I knew the shape of our story. But we're painting a masterpiece with colors I never knew existed.

[flashbacktriggers]

Life asked death, “Why do people love me but hate you?”

Death responded, “Because you are a beautiful lie and I am a painful truth.”

—Unknown

[kongjjen-main]

the world needs more people like Chandler Bing and I mean it

[neckkiss]

via weheartit

[sicknare]

[justagirlfromjustin]

What's Worse Than Losing Someone You Love? Living with the Betrayal.

Let's be crystal clear:

Flirting is cheating.

Belittling your partner to others to appear to be in a bad relationship is cheating.

Connecting with someone else and hiding it is cheating.

Secret messaging is cheating.

Dodging calls or hiding them is cheating. Anything you have to hide or delete is cheating.

Cheating isn't just physical. It's about shattering trust, disrespecting your partner, and creating an unbridgeable emotional distance.

When your partner expresses concerns about a new "friendship," listen to them. They're not trying to control you. They're trying to protect the bond you share. They're saying, "Please don't hurt me. I love you. I choose you. Please choose me too."

Emotional affairs can be even more devastating than physical ones. Don't underestimate the lasting damage they can cause.

The Bottom Line:

If you can't be faithful, be honest. Either love your partner fully and completely, or set them free to find someone who will. Betrayal is the ultimate act of disrespect.

And remember: If you can't be honest with your partner, at least be honest with yourself. You didn't deserve your partner in the first place. Either get your priorities straight or get out of the relationship.

-Scarlet O

[br-o-ken-poetry]

Things You Don't Comment On:

- someone’s eating habits

- appearance issues that can’t be fixed there and then

- someone else’s “bad” decision if it can’t now be undone

- someone’s laugh or voice

- someone’s “unrealistic” dreams

- someone “not looking their best” in photos

- someone not wanting to do something and trying to subtly avoid it without making a fuss

- anything that you know will make someone self conscious or insecure unnecessarily

[justagirlfromjustin]

The chain to my mood swing just broke... RUN!