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Fuck it, I’m posting the selfcare checklist. I created this for my university seminar students on how to make yourself feel better when anxiety, loneliness, or whatever negative feeling hits. These 10 things are questions literally every single person needs to answer

Have I? (physical needs/daily needs)

Eaten

Drank

Slept

Showered

Have I? (metaphysical needs/every few days needs)

Sat down (reoriented motivations, stopped working, etc)

moved/exercised (have you been sitting too long?)

been outside (10+ minutes in daylight)

Have I? (social needs/weekly)

Talked to someone?

Gone somewhere?

Done something novel? (not exactly new, but interesting or diferent)

You have to answer these questions in order and if you can’t move forward, repeat steps/start over. If you find you can never move forward that’s when it’s time to seek professional help.

legsdemandias

Yes! You can reblog this!!

#important

fernsnouveau

Chat Blanc and Ephemeral do NOT work as proof for why Adrien should never find out about Gabemoth, or why the love square identity reveal shouldn't happen.

They only demonstrate why Gabriel shouldn't find out that Adrien is Chat Noir.

Because he will then be able to plan and play out how to dump the Gabemoth and corpse mom reveal onto unsuspecting Adrien the most manipulative, traumatic way possible, with the explicit purpose and plan to akumatize him. And, at least in Ephemeral (Chat Blanc is unclear), he still needed to actually mind control Adrien too, it seemed like he would have resisted otherwise.

If the narrative allowed Adrien the growth to accept that his father is abusive, and capable of being a supervillain, if Adrien was allowed to have the character development to process this on his own terms, then he could have been the one to figure out Gabemoth's identity. It would have been more meaningful, and done more for his character arc, than anyone else making that discovery. It would have connected an important personal breakthrough (abuse victim starting to become a survivor by comprehending that they were abused) with an important plot breakthrough (ladynoir finding out who their enemy is). It would have meant that Adrien, who's been forcibly reduced towards blank, passive "perfection" and significantly denied agency and the capacity to have a meaningful impact, could contribute something even if he then wouldn't be able to directly fight against his father.

cosmokrill

Fun fact in the original post I accidentally said Norris instead of Morris and didn't catch it before I posted it to both the stanarrator discord server and my Twitter so uh... I made this to play it off as a joke and not a spelling error