Emotions, Emotions, Emotions!
Ok, I’m not writing this as an emotional woman in distraught because someone called me a robot who doesn’t give a shit about others or how others are “feeling.” I’m not writing this as one of the most emotional zodiac signs (Pisces) in the stars YET is considered a heartless being most of the time.
Just to be clear, this is NOT a rant against someone. And after reading this if you think it is, you know who you are...
ANYHOO, I would like to open the conversation about how we as humans have different levels of emotions in a given time and how we all express these said emotions in different ways. For example, in school if someone were to steal my dessert, I would as a child cry my eyes out until my delicious item was returned and this wretched thief was punished. Someone else would keep all their emotions bottled up till one day, they decide to take revenge and poison the kids lunch. On a side note, as an adult, I would have ripped that kids’ arm off. No one steals my dessert.
Man, sounds like I’m writing out my therapy session to the world...
Ok, I’m going off topic! Emotions are things that can’t be controlled sometimes. I come from a pretty hot n heavy family and things are said which we don’t mean at the heat of the moment. But, even letting it out is healthy is so many ways! If you bottle up your emotions, all it leads to is more damage in the end.
I personally like to run away from most conflicts as I reallllyyyyyy dislike confrontation....Hmm maybe I am a robot after all! #personalrevelation
Other times, we can’t fully express how we feel to someone for a number of reasons. We may feel the truth will be too painful to bear or it’s something that could change the dynamic of the relationship for the worse. Or we may not be as expressive, even to those we love and feel for the most.
As humans, we have to gift/burden to feel all kinds of emotions- anger, love, lust, jealousy, sadness, laughter, fear, etc. It’s all of these that make us who we are and direct how we conduct ourselves to the people around us. Hint: learn how to juggle and balance what you’re feeling and don’t be afraid to tell it like it is.
The trick is seeing who sticks around for the good and the bad parts of this emotional roller coaster!
#emotionalrobotout
