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RPm•MA Psych student●A Pain in the..

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made an estimate of the expenses for thesis:

where in the... Will I get this money!!!

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Torn kung itutuloy ba ang masters or hindi na hahaha hays

San po ba nabibili yung motivation magtuloy ng thesis kasi?😵‍💫

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So an update on this. Nag ethics clearance lang pero pinag Re-admission ng staff.

So itutuloy po. ☕️

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In Almost 8 years...

I never realized that I will be alone again.

Spoiler alert: It will eventually happen after this year.

If I'm honest and selfish, I'd say, "don't go".

But it seems that I don't have a choice, nor do I want to be a hindrance to his career path.

I can't help but feel like I'm not part of the choice, or how will this go, as far as our relationship is concerned.

Now, it's more if like, how would I cope with this?/

He asked, "what will you do if I leave?"

I replied "I don't know". Not because I'm hiding anything, but that's just how I thought. I don't know.

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Torn kung itutuloy ba ang masters or hindi na hahaha hays

San po ba nabibili yung motivation magtuloy ng thesis kasi?😵‍💫

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Item: The Couch Rarity: ⏶ Common

Couch co-op or online?

Feed your dashboard by answering my question, blogger.

online ☺️

'had to google what "couch co-op" mean. hehe

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I hope April is good to you.

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I kind of agree sa sinabi ni Alessandra de Rossi sa ToniTalks.

"Success is when you wake up on the morning not proving yourself to anyone."

In line with what Ms. Alex said, it is when you know you've made it and accepted yourself for who you are.

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An eventful day to reset and recharge.

Also, dahil naka maintenance and Wifi dito sa building, maybe it's a good thing to stay offline for a while.

🌿

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First valentines day na walang duty

sugar rush na may teen-tier na kilig 🤣☺️

yes. candy flowers ✨🍭

happy balemtayms 💕

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Lucky 🍀

Got the goddess.. got the weapon 🌘🌗🌖🌕🌔🌓🌒🌑

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Welcome home, Moon Goddess 🌕🌖🌘🌑🌒🌓🌔

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Kuya hunchhhhh

yes?

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Tell a secret. We listen and we don’t judge.

Hindi ako marunong mag drive 😂😂

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Krismas kringle kuya hunch 🎄🥺

Merry Christmas ✨☃️🎄🎅🤶🦌🛷

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Here’s the thing, all I’ve done is try to be nice to her and she still doesn’t like me. Why do girls always choose the bad boy over the nice guy?

While it is easy to assume po na ganun ang nagiging siste ng preference ng karamihan mga babae, it is also safe to say that there are women also prefer dating nice guys over bad boys

Studies suggest that most women/men who are looking for short -term passionate relationships tend to find partners who are physical and assertive. Low-self esteem is also a factor because they tend to conscientiously think that such a level of physical attraction and dominance is what they deserve.

Studies also show that women who prefer nice guys tend to have qualities related to high-self esteem, and they are aware that a long-term relationship is what they want. On the other hand, they do not often seek passionate relationships that are physical.

There are studies who also say that women prefer a balance between the two. To have long-term intimate and companionate relationships with a sense of passionate sexual and physical attraction.

My conclusions, dear anonymous, is that:

Not everyone has the same preference in picking their mate.

Personal expectations and relationship goals are intrinsic in people.

While it is valid that you feel frustrated about how things end up on your end, it is not your fault, that, in this case, the person that you like doesn't like you back.

Recommendations:

In this case, Look at people's perspectives individually. In the dating game, get to know the person and evaluate your own preferences.

Self-awareness is also a good practice to process this. It is not the question of why other people tend to prefer some traits over others, but asking yourself, do you deserve to be in this situation? Are you supporting yourself enough?

Knowing your thoughts and feelings on the matter is a good way to start processing your experience. But, do not identify yourself to be the problem just because people do not like how nice you are. You can still find ways to be self-compassionate and appreciate your good qualities that you must recognize and acknowledge and it is possible to be recognized by people who deserve you once you appreciate yourself more.

*Virtual pat on the back with consent*. I used to think that I would end up alone, too. But hey, you're doing your is best.

thanks for the question and sorry for the late response 🩵🙏

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Wicked ( no spoilers)

Napag-isipan ko lang:

Wicked is not only a description for Elphaba's character.

Lahat ng characters have potential for wickedness even those who promote kindness.

It is the choice they made that defines how they process this wickedness in their hearts. It is whether they choose to stay wicked or otherwise.

Hmm