Starting 2025 has been confusing for me. I have a lot of goals Iâm trying to move toward, and Iâm doing my best to leave the past behind. But it feels like some of that confusion is still following me into this year. As much as I try to move forward, itâs been difficult.
Thereâs a lot Iâm trying to navigate, and with that navigation come new problems not problems Iâm creating, but problems arising within my relationship. Things like the lack of communication, especially about job security, and the feeling that what I do and who I am isnât fully valued. Lately, Iâve felt taken for granted⊠even taken advantage of.
And honestly, Iâm reaching a point of giving up.
Itâs been 12+ years, and I havenât seen the growth I need in this relationship. Itâs not that the person isnât caring or loving. Itâs that the level of growth, partnership, and improvement Iâve been hoping for just isnât there. Weâve gone through so many challenges together, but they never seem to truly resolve or get better and Iâm finally at my breaking point.










