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Riddle me this...

1. What makes you feel POWERFUL?

2. What leaves you feeling POWERLESS?

3. Where do you believe POWER comes from?

Tried my hand at being an ally today in the face of someone trying to casually brush aside the intimidation a friend had experienced. It's not perfect, but I refuse to sit down while this is happening. I'm still learning how, but I AM AN ALLY.

#takeaction #ally #safetypin #white privilege

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5 Ways To Use Your White Privilege To Help Others

1. Educate yourself. Learning about what white privilege is – and what it isn’t – is the first step.

2. Talk to other white people about race. Educating your own family and community is one of the most important things you can do.

3. Amplify the voices of people of color. Follow hashtags like #blacklivesmatter and turn up the volume on people of color sharing their own lived experiences.

4. Challenge racism when you see it. It’s often safer or easier for a white person to speak up in these situations.

5. Get involved in organizations doing anti-racist work.

For more ways to use your white privilege for good, visit MTV News.

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I think Batman has the right idea. Short of being born with extraordinary powers that are inexplicably without a downside (I’m looking at you, Superman), I think a constantly evolving utility belt …

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If anyone is worried right now, it’s probably Bruce Wayne. I mean, when Gotham’s biggest super villain is making his way to the White House, Batman relocates, right?

If you, like Batman, are feeling the despondency and ache of the post-election stupor, I hope some of these tools work for you. I know, I KNOW, that a lot of people are dismissing your feelings right now. “Everything is gonna be fine” seems to be the mantra of the unaffected this week. You need healing, and chances are you’re still in the early stages of the grieving process. Eventually you’ll reach acceptance. Not “this is okay with me” acceptance, not “I guess I’ll just wait this out” acceptance, but “okay. That’s happening. What do I need to do?” acceptance.

Well, the answer is, first, take care of yourself. Listen to your fears and anxieties, get to know them and the other pains you’re feeling, learn to express them in constructive ways that allow you to join with others like you and enact real change. Follow the link to see the Emotional Utility Belt I built for Batman. I hope it works for you, too.

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How to Start a Revolution (A Just-Woke but Not Backing Down Beginner’s Guide)

I’ve published my call to action, now I’m gonna tell you where I’m starting.

Ready to fight with me? Here’s a good first step:

I’m writing the Electoral Voters in my state to ask them to split their votes. I live in Texas which, in this election, had a 43/53% split for Clinton/Trump, respectively. While this seems to suggest my state is diverse and in need of diverse representation, all 38 of our Electoral Votes will be going to President-elect Donald Trump. It is not too late to change this, as the Electoral College is not meeting to solidify their votes until December. Currently, everything is just “projected”. You can read more about this here: http://choncegiving.tumblr.com/post/152984394352/notmypresident

After spending my day familiarizing myself with the ins and outs of the Electoral College (the link above is all accurate information, read it all!), I’ve decided my first action will be to write the Electoral Voters in my state. Truthfully, I don’t have much hope that a campaign like this could actually change anything. But what if? What if a single Electoral Vote delivers their vote for the 43% of Texan Americans who are, currently, going to be ignored entirely?

If you’re from Texas, here are the 38 people who will be voting in December for Trump:

TEXAS (38 Electors): Marty Rhymes, Thomas Moon, Carol Sewell, John Harper, Sherrill Lenz, Nicholas Ciggelakis, Will Hickman, Landon Estay, Rex Lamb, Rosemary Edwards, Matt Stringer, Shellie Surles, Melissa Kalka, Sandra Cararas, David Thackston, Robert Bruce, Margie Forster, Scott Mann, Marian K. Stanko, Tina Gibson, Ken Muenzter, Alexander Kim, Virginia Abel, John Dillard, Tom Knight, Marian Knowlton, Rex Teter, Stephen Suprun Jr., Jon Jewett, Susan Fischer, Lauren Byers, William Greene, Mary Lou Erben, Arthur Sisneros

Write every single one of them.

Here is an awesome video on some ways to make a letter campaign more effective from the very wonderful and impressively involved, Hank Green (@edwardspoonhands):

https://youtu.be/mp4h-3vQafk

I will also be sending letters to some of the newly elected or re-elected officials from my state to ask them to encourage our Electoral Voters to represent the constituency of the great state of Texas with all the variety and complexity it deserves.

To be clear: I know that my state CAN turn the tide of this election. I also know that it simply is unrealistic to expect all of the Texan votes to go Clinton, which means my state WILL NOT turn the tide of this election. But we could start a movement. We could start a genuine awareness of an option no one knew existed. We could change the United States, even if we can’t change who the president will be.

#takeaction #notmypresident #imagine others complexly

A Letter from Aaron Sorkin (creator of The West Wing) to his Wife and 15 yo Daughter After Trump Win

Sorkin Girls,

Well the world changed late last night in a way I couldn’t protect us from. That’s a terrible feeling for a father. I won’t sugarcoat it—this is truly horrible. It’s hardly the first time my candidate didn’t win (in fact it’s the sixth time) but it is the first time that a thoroughly incompetent pig with dangerous ideas, a serious psychiatric disorder, no knowledge of the world and no curiosity to learn has.

And it wasn’t just Donald Trump who won last night—it was his supporters too. The Klan won last night. White nationalists. Sexists, racists and buffoons. Angry young white men who think rap music and Cinco de Mayo are a threat to their way of life (or are the reason for their way of life) have been given cause to celebrate. Men who have no right to call themselves that and who think that women who aspire to more than looking hot are shrill, ugly, and otherwise worthy of our scorn rather than our admiration struck a blow for misogynistic shitheads everywhere. Hate was given hope. Abject dumbness was glamorized as being “the fresh voice of an outsider” who’s going to “shake things up.” (Did anyone bother to ask how? Is he going to re-arrange the chairs in the Roosevelt Room?) For the next four years, the President of the United States, the same office held by Washington and Jefferson, Lincoln and Teddy Roosevelt, F.D.R., J.F.K. and Barack Obama, will be held by a man-boy who’ll spend his hours exacting Twitter vengeance against all who criticize him (and those numbers will be legion). We’ve embarrassed ourselves in front of our children and the world.

And the world took no time to react. The Dow futures dropped 700 points overnight. Economists are predicting a deep and prolonged recession. Our NATO allies are in a state of legitimate fear. And speaking of fear, Muslim-Americans, Mexican-Americans and African-Americans are shaking in their shoes. And we’d be right to note that many of Donald Trump’s fans are not fans of Jews. On the other hand, there is a party going on at ISIS headquarters. What wouldn’t we give to trade this small fraction of a man for Richard Nixon right now?

So what do we do?

First of all, we remember that we’re not alone. A hundred million people in America and a billion more around the world feel exactly the same way we do.

Second, we get out of bed. The Trumpsters want to see people like us (Jewish, “coastal elites,” educated, socially progressive, Hollywood…) sobbing and wailing and talking about moving to Canada. I won’t give them that and neither will you. Here’s what we’ll do…

…we’ll fucking fight. (Roxy, there’s a time for this kind of language and it’s now.) We’re not powerless and we’re not voiceless. We don’t have majorities in the House or Senate but we do have representatives there. It’s also good to remember that most members of Trump’s own party feel exactly the same way about him that we do. We make sure that the people we sent to Washington—including Kamala Harris—take our strength with them and never take a day off.

We get involved. We do what we can to fight injustice anywhere we see it—whether it’s writing a check or rolling up our sleeves. Our family is fairly insulated from the effects of a Trump presidency so we fight for the families that aren’t. We fight for a woman to keep her right to choose. We fight for the First Amendment and we fight mostly for equality—not for a guarantee of equal outcomes but for equal opportunities. We stand up.

America didn’t stop being America last night and we didn’t stop being Americans and here’s the thing about Americans: Our darkest days have always—always—been followed by our finest hours.

Roxy, I know my predictions have let you down in the past, but personally, I don’t think this guy can make it a year without committing an impeachable crime. If he does manage to be a douche nozzle without breaking the law for four years, we’ll make it through those four years. And three years from now we’ll fight like hell for our candidate and we’ll win and they’ll lose and this time they’ll lose for good. Honey, it’ll be your first vote.

The battle isn’t over, it’s just begun. Grandpa fought in World War II and when he came home this country handed him an opportunity to make a great life for his family. I will not hand his granddaughter a country shaped by hateful and stupid men. Your tears last night woke me up, and I’ll never go to sleep on you again.

Love,

Dad

http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2016/11/aaron-sorkin-donald-trump-president-letter-daughter

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All is not lost.

“Here are a few positive things you can do right now:

Volunteer

There are plenty of organizations out there that simply need your time.

Combat racism with Showing Up For Racial Justice

Help your community with AmeriCorps

End police violence at Campaign Zero

Support your Muslim family and friends at the Council on American-Islamic Relations

Be a part of your next local election as a poll worker and encourage voters to come out

Join an organization that helps immigrants and new Americans.

Practice Self Care

It’s easy to forget that taking care of yourself is just as important as going out and doing something. If you find yourself in need of someone to talk to or having suicidal thoughts, reach out to the following:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255

Trans Lifeline: (877) -565-8860

Trevor Project: (866)-488-7386

Donate

Planned Parenthood: Give women the opportunities for proper healthcare, education, and activism.

The Future Project: Help the young people of America fulfill their potential.

RAINN: Assist the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network in combatting sexual violence, aiding victims, and ensuring that perpetrators are caught.

ACLU: Uphold the individual rights and liberties guaranteed to all by the Constitution and the laws of the United States.

Friends of the Earth: Contribute to international network of environmental groups. They’ve already vowed to fight the threat Trump poses to the environment.

NextGen Climate Action: Volunteer with this group that works to flight climate change through political action.

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LET'S GO.

May I give you an alternative for today?

Choose passion instead of anger. Choose action instead of fear. Choose to surge forward instead of shutting down. Choose to search out the light instead of despairing at the darkness. Choose to add to the songs of the the fighters, rather than the din of the mourners.

To do anything less is to join forces with a rhetoric that would see you destroyed. To do anything less would be looking into the eyes of your enemy and begging for mercy.

Fight.

#hope #fighter #activism #takeaction

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Something beautiful for an aching heart.

Something I didn't consider while I cast my vote this morning: I chatted with the man and woman in front of me cordially. I didn't get arrested. I wasn't institutionalized. There weren't posters demonizing my choice to vote by painting me to be a disgusting, ugly monster hoping to take power away from people who deserve it more. My husband wasn't angry with me for making my voice heard, and didn't mind at all that my voice technically neutralized his. On the ballot were no fewer than two woman running for president of this great nation. All that wouldn't have been possible 100 years ago, and I have a tremendous debt to women who came not so long before me.

#suffragette #vote #election 2016

So once a Stout Halfling Sorcerer who lost his family to a Dragonborn Wizard, and subsequently gained a boiling hatred for all of dragon-kind, found a dragon egg he intended to destroy. Instead it hatched and the wyrmling immediately bonded to him.

Now he’s trying to overcome his own prejudices and is raising the wyrmling to be judicious and humble.

Except, oops, the Bard thought it was a bad idea to raise a dragon and tossed a gold coin at him to ignite his insatiable greed so...

I’m prepping for our weekly adventure now, hit me with your favorite D&D moment!

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