Firstly, here’s a Google Form on which you can submit scents and ideas you have for A/B/O! There’s more info in the description of it but the goal is to have a source for creators where they can find a list of scents in order to make their creative process easier.
Basic info
21, Queer, She/Her.
Call me Jay!
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Ko-Fi
My inbox is always open and I’m happy to chat with people! :D
Keep reading for more detailed info on my fandoms/ships/etc!
Fandom
At the moment my main fandom is BNHA, however I do like VLD (Voltron) too.
Most of my content is about my favourite characters - Bakugou and Dabi, but if you want to send me headcanons about other characters/ships then feel free to do so.
*some of these do get their ages changed in my mind, I either age one of them up or the other down.
NOTP’s:
Kiribaku, Tododeku, Kacchako, Izuchako, most poly ships as they often involve dynamics I don’t like (e.g. I don’t like TodoBakuDeku because of Tododeku).
Headcanons
You can find my posts/headcanons under the tag ‘jayrambles’ (I’ll put this in the tags of this post so that you can click on it easily).
If you want to use any of my headcanons for your fics or art or whatever please just message me and ask and give me credit once you post, I’ll probably say yes but I’d still like to be asked!
If you have any questions or want to discuss any headcanons that I’ve posted or if you have any of your own and you just want to talk about them I’m more than happy to do that, I always love talking to others about hc’s. My ask is open!
But if you just want a random headcanon then you are free to send me the folder emoji (📁) and I’ll post whatever comes to mind.
Commissions/Requests
It is rare that I will accept an actual request. If someone sends me a headcanon that I happen to really enjoy and get inspired by then I might write a drabble/one-shot, but I don’t take actual requests for full on fics since I am a full-time student with other obligations and this would take up quite a bit of time.
Normally, if my commissions are open it will say so in my description and the top of this post, but you can always DM me and just enquire about it.
Other than commissions, I do accept regular tips on my Ko-Fi, however please do not feel obligated to send anything! I am grateful for any kind of support though, I’m sure any student living away from their family feels this way!
The link to my Ko-Fi can be found right here!
Triggers/tags
Anything triggering will be tagged but if you have any specific triggers or if I forget to tag something please feel free to send me an ask/message and let me know what you want me to tag!
If I ever criticise BNHA or show any sort of criticism in general, it will be tagged with ‘negtalk’ and/or ‘jaycritiques’, so if you don’t want to see that sort of thing, please mute those tags.
DNI (Do Not Interact)
Queerphobes, racists, radfems.
If you harass people over their tastes in fiction please do not interact with me either, this is a large platform and we can all co-exist through the magic of blocking and ignoring each other, thank you!
think my issue with writing is that i always think there's something else to do.
writing requires a lot of my energy, and so when i have work and i come home im too tired to sit down and think and actually put words to paper (google doc but whatever). but now that im on "holiday" and not working and i have nothing to do, i actually want to write.
anyways capitalism is killing my desire to write gay porn and i do not appreciate that
can we like…get rid of the so-called leather and rubber “pride flags” ? it’s honestly ridiculous and offensive to the lgbtq community. those aren’t pride flags.
The leather pride flag is the second oldest pride flag. It has been at almost every single US pride parade and protest in history.
It’s older then you are, it’s older then I am. The leather community is responsible for pride. Leather daddies were the ones chasing away cops when they tried to arrest us for being queer in public back when Pride Parades were illegal in the US. They are still the ones chasing away cops and corporations from smaller pride events and those that aren’t sanctioned by Wells Fargo. The leather community is essential to the queer community and has a long and rich history.
Please fuck off if you’re not going to learn the actual history of pride.
And don’t fucking out your hate in our tags, asshole.
The leather pride flag represents an expression of self which is inherently queer, and a community which has been around for generations. It is not offensive to the LGBT+ community in any way. I have seen cis gay and bisexual men standing shoulder-to-shoulder with trans men, all of them united by their leather community roots. The leather community is more diverse and nuanced than you perhaps know, but that is no reason for you to shit on a community you don’t understand.
Here is a photograph from 1998, displaying the leather pride flag, the bear gay pride flag, and the rainbow flag. This is our history.
Source.
Here is a photograph from 1987: three queer women entering into the Ms. National Leather Association Contest, or simply gathering as spectators.
Source.
A flyer from 1989, rallying the leather community to march in a Stonewall anniversary protest.
Source.
A photograph from 1988: Tony Deblase, the creator of the leather pride flag, and a gay man, embracing a fellow member of the leather community. Over his shoulder is Judy Tallwing McCarthy, a Native American woman who was part of the leather community from 1959. She co-founded the first lesbian BDSM group in Portland, along with her partner, Sashie Hyatt.
Source. Source.
Just because you don’t know the history, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Be humble, and always assume you have more to learn. Hatred, and outright dismissal of communities you know nothing about, is the most aggressively anti-LGBT thing I can imagine.
The leather community has always included trans people, lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals. The leather community is global and nuanced. The leather community is where many of us encounter our found families, and our lovers. For you to dismiss that is cold-hearted and ignorant. Just because queer sex is involved, doesn’t make the community dirty or bad.
I’m again fucking begging the baby gays to read/watch/listen to How To Survive A Plague.
Do you have any. Any idea. Any god damn clue. How kink intersects with LGBT and queer community. Queer history. Do you know why the community pushed for, and against, closing the bathhouses during the 80s? Do you know who organized awareness campaigns about HIV, even way back when it was still called GIRD. Do you know who created the safe sex pamphlets, the classes, who pushed for disclosing your health history to partners, who distributed contraceptives and condoms and dental dams at parties and meetings and baths? Do you even know where the safe sex education we have now comes from? Do you know where a bulk of the language about consent came from? Do you have any good god damn idea what the kink communities have done for us, and continue to do for us?
Keep their names out of your mouths because you clearly don’t know what the hell you’re talking about
If there is one thing I could say to young queer folks, especially young queer folks in the U.S. who are coming of age in a world that is more accepting than the one I knew growing up, it’s this:
Don’t be so quick to sanitize your queerness and make it corporate pride daytime TV-friendly. Don’t be so quick to jump on the purity bandwagon. Don’t be so quick to speak on what your community should look like before you’ve actually learned the history of your community, and always be aware that there are things you probably don’t yet know.
These things will not protect you. They never have. And all you’re doing is isolating yourself from community, from support, from the strength we all have when we stand together in a world that would gladly pick us off one by one.
Queerness isn’t as hidden or embattled now (in some places) as it once was, but make no mistake: when our existence was illegal everywhere the people you have this knee-jerk “hide the weirdos” reaction to are the very ones who would’ve had your back against the cops and the gay-bashers.
The people who made me feel safe to come out in my 20s flew the rubber and leather flags alongside the rainbow flag and often the trans flag as well. You don’t get to tell any of them they don’t belong anymore just because you don’t understand.
i love love LOVE giran !!!! he's such a creepy nasty old man, ugh i love him.
but okay fic idea:
abused katsuki who runs away from home. attacked on the streets constantly. just so much pain and he can barely function as a normal person. he's so jumpy, terrified of everything and anything.
and giran who's there with him after and during every panic attack, using his quirk on him to make him forget, at least for a minute.
All I'm gonna say is that the way Hawks does a 'soft launch' of their relationship is by discreetly tucking feathers into Endeavour's hero costume. A feather in his boot. In his waistband. The back of his neck.
Sometimes he'll allow it to trail over his skin during an interview and everyone watches as Endeavour tries to swat it away, not even knowing it's Hawks making his presence known.
Shouto bleaching his hair in the middle of the night. He gets tired of the red, the constant comparisons to his dad, and so he buys the cheapest bleach he can find and dumps it on his head.
Katsuki runs into him in the kitchen while he's getting a snack in the middle of the night. And at first he doesn't even recognise him cause ?????? why is there a random dude with half white and half rly patchy orange hair in their kitchen ???
But then Shouto turns around and all Katsuki can see are the dark circles under his eyes and the exhaustion and hurt and he looks so.... sad. so pathetic.
Katsuki doesn't really say anything about the hair. he doesn't say how fucked up it is. because he gets it. a lot of people may think he's obtuse but he'll always understand hating comparisons, feeling second best.
so all he does is pull a chair closer and push shouto onto it.
'sit the fuck down, you've made a mess', but the words have no bite to them.
shouto doesn't say anything as katsuki dampens a towel and gently wipes away the remains of bleach on his skin. he doesn't speak as katsuki makes comments on how he's irritated some spots, how he'll go to his room and grab some ointment for it.
but he does reach up, delicate fingers wrapping around katsuki's wrist, eyes fluttering shut.
