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You have two choices, to control your mind or to let your mind control you.
 Paulo Coelho (via purplebuddhaproject)
It's not like I believe in everlasting love
--Ghosts // Laura Marling
And yet it disturbs me to learn I have hurt someone unintentionally. I want all my hurts to be intentional.
Catâs Eye // Margaret Atwood (via hush-syrup)
This speaks to me on so many levels
simple answers
Suppose a man makes unwanted social advances to a woman in, letâs say, a restaurant or theatre, and she eventually has to tell him loudly or angrily to get lost. She is the one who will be perceived as rude, hostile, aggressive, and obnoxious. His verbal aggression and invasiveness are accepted and expected; her rudeness (or mere curtness) in getting rid of him is noticed and condemned. One of our great myths is that a âreal ladyâ can and should handle any difficulty, defuse any assault, without ever raising her voice or losing her manners. Female rudeness or violence in resistance to male aggression has often been taken to prove that the woman was not a lady in the first place, and therefore deserved no respect from the aggressor or sympathy from others.
D.A. Clarke, âA Woman With a Swordâ (via ellielamothe)
The last Incan suspension bridge is made entirely of grass, woven by hand, and at least 500 years old. Compare and contrast with the story of the Brooklyn Bridge.Â
In bed trying to encapsulate the crux of existence in a digital doodleâyeah, one of those nights.
doodle by:Â (a sleepy) Collin Varney
Meryl Steep, in The Devil Wears Prada, makes the most chilling case for a social institution youâve ever heard.
By Lisa Wade, PhD
One of the more difficult sociological concepts to explain is the social institution.  When sociologists talk about institutions they donât mean hospitals or churches or any of the concrete organizations that easily come to mind, they mean something much bigger and more difficult to pin down.  They  mean institutionalized ways of doing things or, as Iâve defined them elsewhere:
Persistent patterns of social interaction aimed at meeting the needs of a society that canât easily be met by individuals alone.
Education, then, is an institution, as is medicine and transportation.  In my textbook, I discuss the examples of sanitation and sport.  One canât play on a team all by oneself and itâd be pretty gross to take a personal potty with you everywhere you went.  Instead, we have organized sport and the provision of toilet facilities. Eventually, institutionalized ways of solving social needs get taken-for-granted as the way we do things, often to the point that we forget that they were invented in the first place.
I was inspired to write about this by a post at Sociological Cinema by sociologist Tristan Bridges.  He uses a clip from The Devil Wears Prada to illustrate just this phenomenon.  Meryl Streep plays the editor of a fashion magazine.  Fashion is an institution because we can no longer feasibly make our own clothes.  Even the most industrious and clever among us, those who make their own clothes, will buy the fabric with which to do so.  Almost no one in a Western country has the faintest idea of how to make fabric, let alone the resources.
In the clip, Streepâs character responds icily when a holier-than-thou fashion outsider scoffs at her as she goes about her work.
She says:
You think this has nothing to do with you.
You go to your closet and you select, I donât know, that lumpy blue sweater, for instance, because youâre trying to tell the world that you take yourself too seriously to care about what you put on your back.
But what you donât know is that that sweater is not just blue, itâs not turquoise, itâs not lapis, itâs actually cerulean.
And youâre also blithely unaware of the fact that, in 2002 Oscar de la Renta did a collection of cerulean gowns and then I think it was Yves St. Laurent â wasnât it? â who showed cerulean military jacketsâŠ
And then cerulean quickly showed up in the collections of eight different designers. Â And then it filtered down through the department stores and then trickled down into some Casual Corner where you, no doubt, fished it out of some clearance bin.
However, that blue represents millions of dollars and countless jobs and itâs sort of comical that you think youâve made a choice that exempts you from the fashion industry when, in fact, youâre wearing a sweater that was selected for you by the people in this room.
An institution has emerged to put clothes on our back.  The scoffer who inspires Streep characterâs rant would like to think that she is outside of the fashion industry, that it has nothing to do with her. Likewise, many of us would like to think that weâre outside of the institutions that we donât like. But weâre not.  Thatâs the rub.  No matter how enlightened or inspired we are to fight social convention, we canât get outside the institutions that organize our societies.  Weâre in them whether we know it or not.
Lisa Wade is a professor of sociology at Occidental College and the co-author of Gender: Ideas, Interactions, Institutions. You can follow her on Twitter and Facebook.
Maybe you have to know the darkness before you can appreciate the light.
Madeleine LâEngle, A Ring of Endless Light (via misswallflower)
Fan Ho is one of Asiaâs most beloved street photographers, capturing the spirit of Hong Kong in the 1950s and 60s. His work shows a love of people combined with unexpected, geometric constructions and a sense of drama heightened by use of smoke and light. More
Approaching Shadow, 1954. Photo: Fan Ho/AO Vertical Art Space
The winners of the Wildlife Photographer of the Year competition were announced today. American photographer Michael Nichols took the overall crown with his image of five female lions at rest with their cubs (top photo).
Weâve given you just a small preview: go see rest of the stunning images at The Guardian.
Photographs by Michael Nichols, Francisco Negroni, Ary Bassous, Jan van der Greef
Melissa Harris-Perry, Black Female Voices: Who Is Listening?
I love this woman
We never say that all men deserve to feel beautiful. We never say that each man is beautiful in his own way. We donât have huge campaigns aimed at young boys trying to convince them that theyâre attractive, probably because we very rarely correlate a manâs worth with his appearance. The problem is that a womanâs value in this world is still very much attached to her appearance, and telling her that she should or deserves to feel beautiful does more to promote that than negate it. Telling women that they âdeserveâ to feel pretty plays right in to the idea that prettiness should be important to them. And having books and movies aimed at young women where every female protagonist turns out to be beautiful (whereas many of the antagonists are described in much less flattering terms) reinforces the message that beauty has some kind of morality attached to it, and that all heroines are somehow pretty.
You Donât Have To Be Pretty â On YA Fiction And Beauty As A Priority | The Belle Jar (via indemne)