"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
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we're not kids anymore.
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@kensula
Not that I think all marriages are doomed but when deciding who to marry you should ask yourself “is this someone I’d want to divorce?” As in, is this someone I believe would be mature and fair, even when they’re upset and don’t particularly like me at the moment. Is this someone I could continue to trust while going through an adversarial process? And if the answer is no, don’t marry them.
fucked that you can’t fix other people especially when you really care about them. Oh so im just supposed to be there for you while you suffer. like a useless cunt gargoyle
did you sleep well tonight? (I love you) we should do this one day (I love you) did you eat? (I love you) I brought you this because it's your favorite (I love you) have you taken your vitamins? (I love you) I made this for you (I love you) did you get home safe? (I love you) I made you some tea (I love you) how's the project that you're working on? (I love you) don't forget your umbrella (I love you) take my scarf (I love you) I'll wait with you (I love you) I'll wait for you (I love you) (I love you) (I love you)
[A white fortune cookie paper with blue text reading: The stars appear every night in the sky. All is well. Lucky Numbers 10, 16, 18, 27, 30, 32]
a love you don’t have to heal from.
i want someone to look at me like they already decided i’m a problem worth keeping
I think people would be less suicidal if they were allowed to talk about being suicidal without risk of being sent to the Torture Dungeon
The irony of pain is you wanted to be comforted by who hurt you.
bro im so tired of everybody and their ulterior motives
Craving comfort but feeling guilty when you actually receive it is such a confusing kind of pain.
Because a part of you wants softness so badly. You want reassurance. Understanding. Someone being gentle with you for once. You want to feel emotionally held instead of constantly carrying everything alone.
But the second someone does care about you, another feeling appears almost immediately.
Guilt.
Suddenly you feel like you are being dramatic. Too emotional. Too needy. Too dependent. Like you are taking up too much space just by needing comfort in the first place.
So instead of fully relaxing into being cared for, you start apologizing. Downplaying your feelings. Pulling away. Acting “fine” too quickly because vulnerability starts feeling embarrassing once someone actually sees it.
And honestly, a lot of people learn this guilt somewhere.
Sometimes from growing up feeling like your emotions were inconvenient. Sometimes from being comforted inconsistently. Sometimes from only receiving care when things became severe enough to “deserve” it. Sometimes from being treated like a burden for needing support at all.
So now even kindness can feel emotionally unsafe.
Not because you do not want it, but because part of you still believes needing comfort makes you difficult to love.
But human beings are meant to need each other sometimes.
Wanting reassurance does not make you manipulative.
Wanting gentleness does not make you weak.
Wanting someone to care when you are hurting does not make you “too much.”
And I hope one day comfort stops feeling like something you have to apologize for receiving.
I hope one day you let people hold your feelings gently without immediately trying to shrink yourself afterward.
You deserve softness too. Not only when you are easy, useful, independent, or perfectly okay.
Just as you are 🤍
realizing nothing can fill my void other than doing everything i said i would do for myself
you've met me at a very "yeah i'm trying to work on that" time in my life
I will probably get through this just like I have gotten through everything before but I need to be really stressed and scared first
To love someone is to attend a thousand births of who they're becoming
