Systematic

[saudi-blogger]

I can care about you and still cut you off and I can miss you and never talk to you again.

[latenights]

do u ever just get waves of missing someone? like you’ll go for a while and be ok and then all of a sudden ur heart hurts

[whatevskies-blog]

sorry i couldn’t hear you over my internal monologue 

[alexzulii]

[unbotheredmuse]

[thats-sowild-blog]

I feel attacked and held accountable 🙃

[loveybun-deactivated20170904]

me: mayb…i am worthy of love n attention ? brain: unrealistic. blocked

[squidwurd]

i accidentally messed up my life how do i start a new account

[yourbigsisnissi]

Eventually you hit that point where you’re no longer interested in convincing people that how you feel and who you are is valid and decide that as long as you know your truth and what works for you, that’s what matters.

[ineptbox]

[b0yhearts-blog]

dating a boy bigger than you: his hoodies will look cute and oversized on you

dating a boy your size: you can share hoodies and they will fit and look nice

dating a boy smaller than you: your hoodies will look cute and oversized on him

conclusion: all boy sizes are cute and good

[neckkiss]

via weheartit

[sheabutterbitch]

A long time ago I took a course on the sociology of marriage and my professor said “With compromise, you both lose. As a couple, you must collaborate on the best possible outcome.” Ever since, I never prioritize compromise in a relationship, only collaboration.

[lamujeroscura]

this seems like a great concept and all but. what does it actually mean?

[sheabutterbitch]

Compromise is typically thought of as a 50/50 split amongst partner’s needs. They’re both left partially unsatisfied, but this dissatisfaction is deemed acceptable because it is ‘equal.’ However, with additional effort, many problems may be solved through collaboration; keywords: additional effort.

In collaborating, one may try to make the conflict more complex in order to expand the possible positive outcomes. This requires trust in both parties, empathy, and consideration for one another’s needs.

The objective should shift from getting what you want and ‘keeping things quiet’ to making sure your partner feels heard and considered (as they should do with you). Essentially, you must trust that your partner has your happiness in mind, and you must have theirs, instead of fighting for your own best interest.

For further explanation, Google “compromise vs collaboration.”

[licknuhohoho-deactivated2015121]

I need to get laid

To rest. Put me in a coffin, let my soul ascend

[svinto]

i wish there wasn’t such a stigma around being proved wrong, bc it’s a part of life, no one can be right all the time. if we didn’t feel as much shame about it i think a lot of things would change a lot faster

[feminismandhappiness]

we all need to practice saying “I hadn’t thought of it like that” “I hadn’t seen it that way before” “I must have misunderstood the first time I heard about it” “if I had known those facts I wouldn’t have thought like I did”

[luvbey]

I get road rage walking behind people.

[arandomthot]

I hate that I relate so much to this

[i-am-a-fish]

I don’t even keep up with the memes anymore I just accept them. When we’re sad we play despacito? Okie dokie.