something about maturity
Emotional maturity is one of the most attractive things in the world. Being able to openly communicate, not feeling attacked when told you hurt someone, not letting your emotions control all of your actions. I've found that the romanticization of toxic relationships and unhealthy dynamics has led people further away from always striving to be better, trying to improve themselves for them and their partner, as well as the people around them. As someone with bpd, i get that it's usually easier said than done, but trying to be the best version of yourself should be rewarding in itself. Questioning your thoughts, your way of speaking, the way you make others feel without blaming them, these are all skills worth striving for. anyway woof woof or something
