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I had come back to create an account, but apparently, past me already did! Howdy, twitter refugee seeking a safe and loving environment <3 Suit is Wolfer, wolf dragon, highly mobile tail, moving jaw, naughty as heck. Completed in May 2022 :3

kisuneko

I’m back, bitches

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tumblr guide for new users!!!

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Twitter on fire.

Me.

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Lol

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my common sense watching my idiot brain overthink everything

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Being a good person is a choice. Don’t let people fool you into believing that truly good people never have bad thoughts, are never tempted by the easier path, by the low road, never mess up or act out selfishly. Never believe a person can be good without making a conscious effort.

Every single time you do something good, you’ve made a decision to make the world a little brighter.

Goodness is not an inherent trait, it is a choice. Keep making it! I see you, I’m proud of you, and I’m rooting for you!

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Bless.

You’re a good person not because you have “no capability” to do bad stuff but because you don’t allow yourself to do bad stuff when you’re able to do so.

And that’s what make a good person worth respect.

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Family is Hard, Christmas is Harder.

This year, my sisters will be experiencing Christmas without one of their parents for the first time. This will be the second divorce for me, and already parents are fighting over who gets to see them. Already blame, finger pointing, accusations of going behind backs, and making plans are happening…. the phone calls, the tears, the drinking. I let my sisters know and I want anyone else going through this to know: You aren’t alone. None of this is your fault. None of it. It’s a vicious cycle. Your parents love you and want to see you, and spend time with you before you grow up, and go away. But they are feeling defensive, angry and emotional. Having to work around some schedule to see someone, but avoid another is not what the average person thinks about when they hear “going home for the holidays”. I feel like any time I go home, I have to schedule everyone in on separate days, like I’m some sort of family physician. This is NOT a good feeling when going to a place you are supposed to call home. And now my sisters are going to experience this. My mother (first divorce) just sent me the best advice I needed to hear:

“…I would wanna just chill and maybe not see anyone. But that’s me. It’s your time. Protect it and use it how you see fit, ok? Families are fickle.” So I want you to hear the same.

Please don’t get pressured into doing something you don’t want to. There can be pressure, you will feel it. the anxiety, and panic. If your family causes you so much grief just thinking about Christmas… me and my mom suggest that it’s time to make your own tradition. Find a friend that you can be with on whatever occasion, like Christmas. Be with them, Make your own happiness in these hard times. i will be doing this in the future. And I will be telling my sisters this as well.

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strange omens gather at the end of the street

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Raigad, the Quaint (by Sanket Khuntale)

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😍

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Burning some steel wool [x]

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Words I never say: Mesmerizing and Beautiful

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This is quite satisfaying tbh

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Destruction magic

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Let’s ditch self-deprecating memes in 2018

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how am I supposed to cope

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By actually finding healthy ways to cope instead of displaying a depressed attitude constantly.

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#me

if you click to open this thread you die in real life

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predicted answer: “have sex with me”

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I read this thread and it’s surprisingly wholesome. Lots of guys either wanting to be the little spoon, making jokes about blanket hogging, or wanting their girlfriends to say what they like so that they can pleasure them more.

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Tbh I’m starting to think most of tumblr seriously lack any serious interaction with men, and not only sexual but to a platonic/friendship level.

I don’t mean to attack anyone but how come all this people decided men would think something pervert and rapey? How come people who actually checked were so surprised that men wanted something humanly acceptable and maybe even *gasps* cute?

I am serious in this question: did you ever had male friends? Because this thread to me was the LEAST surprising thing on earth.

In HS, having been a butch lesbian and having had a ton of male friends, the typical sex questions were “hey, can you tell me how to mae her feel good?” or “hey, how do I tell if she likes it?” or “do I sound clingy/pathetic if I want cuddles after?”. Boyfriends worry about their girlfriends pleasure, their happiness and what they think of sex. They do. And when they don’t do much to pleasure them, most of the time is because they are inexperienced. Women do have a problem with communicating their desire, nobody denies that it’s also society’s fault but if you don’t ask stuff you can’t get surprised you don’t get it and out there it’s full of men wanting to do things with respect and to make their girlfriends happy.

Boys are WHOLESOME. As girls are. People are wholesome and nice and vulnerable and in strive for good things for them and others.

And even those who made sexual comments like “blowjobs” or “more boob stuff”…. why is it bad? It’s a NSFW thread???? It’s the space to talk about that. Would you have the same reaction if in their matching thread women said they want their boyfriends to go down on them more? Or if they said they’d like him to touch them in different zones? Would you have complained if women said it of their girlfriends? Then why shaming boys?

Having needs both sexual and emotional is natural, the important is not force them on people who don’t feel like that and these men didn’t (which is why the thread exists in first place).

Men have emotional needs too and pretending they don’t and buying into the “all men think about is sex” and “ah men are all rapey and dirty” is sexism, not only towards men but because it implies that women are purer than them which leads to the HolyMary kinda misoginy that denies women their need to physical pleasure.

Also let’s stop pretending sex is inherently dirty and bad. Sex is fun, as long as it’s consensual.