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It's just very important to me that you know prairie-style gardens exist.

Ok. Thank you. Carry on.

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#0015 your north & south nodes

aries nn/libra sn - action, confidence, selfishness

independence and self-awareness ill be key topics and lessons for you in this lifetime. in your past, you may have had relationships in which you deluded yourself into thinking that you are complete when with someone else. you neglected your individuality and thereby bred a mentality that depended on others' opinions, feelings, and judgment too much, you became obsessed with compromising for others, rather than yourself. one gift of yours is that you know how to love someone and make them feel loved, according to your past life experience with partners. however, this build-up of impatience to give others love should first become redirected unto you, so that you can love yourself first before you love others. the concept of loving yourself and being your own supporter/guide may be a foreign idea, but it is the ultimate truth... once you start providing yourself with love and care, you can do so to others, but in a way that is healthy, co-dependent, or overly attached.

in your last life, you may have depended on others for what you should do/how you should feel. you feel out of balance when you don't submit to other people because, by nature, you are a people pleaser. you are ready to let people walk over you in hopes of getting their approval or respect... or simply because you don't want confrontation, or maybe because you want to be nice. not everyone is going to appreciate your kindness and, in fact, will actually use your kindness to their advantage. in this lifetime, you must establish your own identity instead of relying on what other people think of you; you must establish personal boundaries of "no", "maybe another time", "i don't like how that made me feel", etc. to build a foundation and a clear border of respect between you and others. you must, in this life, learn to take action and direct yourself instead of waiting for others. you do not live your life for others, and this is what your karma for this lifetime will teach you

you must be ready to love and nurture yourself if you want to have healthy relationships with others. if you have ever been in a relationship before, your identity may have revolved around theirs, or your identity was very wishy-washy and there was no clear sign of individuality coming from you. you may have questioned who you are numerous times and have tried discovering yourself. meditation, journalling, and personal reflection will be of great help to you, as you must be readily available to establish who you are now and what you want to be.

you must learn how to set boundaries with others and more about self-discipline. you tend to feel imbalanced when you sense something is out of order. this might demotivate you completely. however, through making routines and directing energy through things you enjoy, you will actually cultivate more success. doing things impulsively is not a bad thing but make sure you do it because there is an end goal awaiting you...

your lesson? to learn individuality and eliminate the need to depend on others. learn about yourself first, build your own identity, set routines, and create boundaries that clearly distinguish who you are and what you are ready to tolerate and not. redirect the energy you show others towards yourself and watch yourself attract people that align with your frequency.

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taurus nn/scorpio sn - self-esteem, obsession, judgment

your life seems to revolve around the question of your self-worth, obsession, boundaries, and personal values. what do you really think of yourself? are you easily swayed by what others think of you? do you have a strong image of yourself? do you rely on others or are you self-reliant? much of these questions will creep when in personal relationships, as this placement is very much relationship-focused, in the sense that this placement yearns to find a second half. in your past life, your scorpio may have devoted their lives to their spouses and may have been married to people in high power. consequently, you've come to this life with the same intention/motive. scorpio yearns to connect with someone on a deeply sensual and intensely passionate level. you, inevitably, will look for someone with whom you can "vibrate" with; you look for someone who can click with you. you offer loyalty and commitment to others, but not so much for yourself...

learning to be alone will be a key lesson for you, as well as learning the value of your own perception of yourself. there is no need to rely on what others think or what your partner thinks. there is a habit of giving your all to lovers... your loyalty, honesty, but also your individuality, your self-esteem, and self-worth. there is insecurity revolving around yourself and others and you may think you're not good enough for love or not good enough in general.

another lesson for you will revolve around material comfort. in general, you will need to learn a spiritual and material balance and you will need to find comfort in knowing you can spoil yourself materially, as well as retreat to your spiritual fantasy. do not overindulge in either. in your past life, you may have hyperfocused on spiritual escape. you may have used your intense feelings of desire, love, passion, and obsession to feel the "euphoria" of spiritual love. you thought that, through the intensity of passion, lust, and obsession, you truly felt divine, rather than just human.

scorpio has a bad habit of judging and controlling others. both taurus and scorpio have an innate need to micromanage and control what they have no control over because it makes them feel powerful. the idea of powerlessness or loss scares this placement and there needs to be acceptance that not everything can go your way. the idea that you may judge others may actually come from inner insecurities and distrust in others.

your lesson? learn to establish personal boundaries, build your self-esteem, and eliminate the toxicity of obsession, control, and your insecurities. by building a home in your body, you prevent people from taking advantage of you. you no longer feel replaceable by building boundaries and saying "no" to what you don't want. there needs to be a realization that love and good sex are essential but they cannot be your main focus if you do not have a positive self-image built. the presence of a lover will only be temporary satisfaction. by having a positive self-image and self-esteem, you are confident in your worth and what you offer. the missing link between you and your body can cause much loss by you always needing to control, by you judging others, by having no security in your life and body. additionally, learn to spoil yourself to achieve the goal of a happy body, but do not over-splurge.

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gemini nn/sagittarius sn - truthfulness, communication, honesty

in your past life, you may have been a loner, an outcast, or typically isolated from the rest of the world. inevitably, this may have caused you to become a nervous wreck, often having social anxiety or trouble communicating with others. in this life, you must learn to adapt to healthy communication, healthy curiosity, and listening to others. your "achilles heal" is your self-righteousness and your need to be right. others seem to not want to connect with you because you seem to always have the answers; you always seem to know the right way. you always try to tell others and show them you are right in some odd attempt to prove your intelligence and validation to them. you want to experience life and you have an insatiable thirst for knowledge but you are totally unwilling to cooperate with others and have your mental challenged. you wish to pursue the truth of life until you start meeting others and realizing your experience is different to theirs and that, really, you are not always right.

you must become open-minded to others and learn from them by listening to their experiences and opinions. in order to truly achieve the knowledge you yearn deeply for, you must accept the fact that people are different everywhere you go. there is no right or wrong way to live. you tend to do things by yourself because you think your way is the right way. this was evident in your past life too, where you usually wandered off on your own to pursue knowledge. your comfort to loneliness would've caused you immense anxiety or communication issues as you try to establish meaningful relationships with others. when you feel undermined or your intelligence tested, you seem to detach completely. you want to appear smart but being smart also requires you to make intellectual mistakes.

you may be the type to talk constantly or deliver your thoughts and messages in a way that is combative and assertive. when you feel your opinions or thoughts are invalidated, you tend to do too much to prove otherwise. you must be open to feedback from others if you want to learn how to properly communicate with others, rather than disregarding their viewpoint because your experience or point of view is different.

there is an obsession with wanting to be free or wanting to be alone, it can cause a lot of strain in your relationships. for example, relationships seem attractive to you until you have that urge to release yourself from it; you may be a superficial person that doesn't like when things get too serious. you think being alone is freedom but you, once again, put yourself in a situation where you are alone with your own company. part of being free means you have freedom of thought and individuality. even if you did feel restricted in a relationship, couldn't you communicate your issue? or do you feel as though you need to have it all figured out? are you afraid of not knowing what's wrong - why do you always need to have it all figured out when nobody else does? these are key questions for you.

you may be very hopeful, but ensure you don't overdo in your faith. "things will work out" for sure, but do not wait for the perfect moment to take action.

your lesson? learn duality and express your opinions and thoughts in a way that is reflective, reciprocating, and curious. become open-minded to the idea that not everyone has lived the same life as you. in order to truly become knowledgeable of life, there must be cooperation with others to know how life really works, because it's not the same for everyone. do not fear connections with others and do not fear commitment. do not think you are restrained by other people, but ensure you can keep your individuality while still working with others. learn to release yourself from the habits of detachment avoidance, and ignorance, and to challenge your mental through other people.

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cancer nn/capricorn sn - humility, vulnerability, and intimacy

in your last life, you may have been a person of responsibility and status. capricorn sn would've indicated a cold heart who hid feelings in personal relationships. you may have been distant to others and standoff-ish. you may have the idea that everything had to be hard to be perfect or good, or that in order to be truly successful and happy, you have to work hard. micromanaging and control would've been huge issues in the past and would've inevitably caused you to become controlling and paranoid of imperfection and failure. there is a strong fear of inadequacy that you might muster achievements and material possessions to fill the void of validation within you. in your last life, you became consumed by the idea that money = happiness. you rejected the process and journey and went straight for the money. you did things to appeal strongly and successfully to others. you may have these bad habits now, too.

you must learn to drop the tough and cold act and you must learn to stop trying to control things that cannot be controlled. you do this because it's what's predictable and makes you feel safe, but it's the best way to introduce failure because your paranoia will only attract misfortune. you have the capability of being a nurturing and loving person, but your trust issues and emotional restriction causes you to act otherwise. in this life, you are not built to carry the weight of the world like you did before. you think responsibility and work is what validate you but it is your genuinity and connections with others that build strong self-esteem. learn that nobody can invalidate your feelings. cultivate a strong personality within you immune to others, and you will find yourself living a life less seriously, and more childlike.

what you want from others is to be loved and admired for who you are, but how do you achieve this when you make it so difficult? you must learn how to let others love you by risking vulnerability. not everyone is out to get you, and you must realize this. you can be a loner because you're so used to your own company, you habitually isolate yourself from other people. now, you need to communicate your feelings as they come and honor the gift of intimacy. when you let your feelings bloom freely, you then manifest and attract good connections money won't fulfill.

your lesson? to play the role of a mother rather than a father. hat this means is that you must leave the energy of action and financial pursuit to embody someone much more emotional, sensitive, and motherly. this doesn't mean becoming feminine from masculine but allowing yourself the space to breathe. you have an instinct drawn to achievement but it's now your time to take on a much more cooperative role, working with others to build a solid center of feeling. you must accept you cannot control everything, nor can you take responsibility for everything. learn that life works with you, not against you.

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leo nn/aquarius sn - ego, confidence, and playfulness

you may have a habit of excessive daydreaming and postponing your plans to wait for more information. this is a very humble placement that will teach you the importance of confrontation, individuality, and childishness. in this lifetime, you are dropping aloofness, fear of confrontation, and detachment. aquarius is a sign that loves to belong and make friends, so much so that aquarius blurs into other people, inevitably losing their own sense of self. there is a strong need to belong and a strong need to build a group or society of some sort but there lies the question of, if you had your perfect friends, would you become them or stay the same as you are? if this part is unhealed or recognized, you may notice that, in your friend groups or with your friends, you tend to become them, whether it be by picking up certain characteristics or opinions or hobbies/habits you normally wouldn't have. suddenly this placement causes you to depend on your friends and others for validation.

this placement will teach you about quality friends, but they will ultimately test you to see if you really are ready to be yourself, despite being in a friend group or having friends with characteristics you may find admirable. having friends close in personality to you is not a bad thing, but it gets out of hand once you start dressing like them, thinking like them, and spending excessive amounts of time together, until you forget what you're like on your own...

you may be the type to feel a passion of creativity and genius rush through you, but your thirst for knowledge often overwhelms you and shuts you down. in your past life, you may have spent much time being a helper/humanitarian to others, you seem to have lost touch with your inner child, and the happiness of life. instead, you tend to overlook your inner child's needs and take life seriously. a lesson for you will be to see life as a game rather than as something serious. there is a need to know things but an unwillingness to experience things in order to know. instead, there is the idea of "i must know everything now."

learning to manifest using your mind will be important also. you may excessively daydream and idolize scenarios, ultimately romanticizing your life. this can be a good thing if done right. if you learn to use your mind and daydreaming capabilities, you could manifest in ways done so effortlessly and perfectly. you must be ready to dive under the veil of superficiality instead of overlooking everything to gain a deep understanding of everything around you. you may wait for life to get good for you instead of making it good for yourself. you lack courage and the will to create your own destiny, and this life will teach you that you must motivate yourself and play with life to get what you want, instead of having an "it is what it is" mindset...

there is a far of commitment, whether it be on a personal or romantic level. romance is often superficial and poorly exercised as flirting, kissing, sex, or lighthearted conversations become the center point for this placement. when things start becoming serious, there is an instinctual habit to detach and run away. this can be in general too when you feel as though you need to escape or run away when things get serious for you. you detach quite easily - a habit you have learned to save your heart from getting broken.

your lesson? to learn how to experience life on a level that is fun and profound. your soul craves to experience others, but you must also experience yourself. you must trust yourself and others and learn how to dive beneath the surface. you must learn how to take responsibility and how to transform daydreaming into manifestation. learn to honor your own individuality, take courage for your own plans, and look for friends you can be yourself with, rather than to blur into...

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virgo nn/pisces sn - realism, self-confidence, and service

giving up, inaction, or escapism will be of prominent lessons to you in this lifetime. in your last lifetime, you may have been the type to go with life's flow too much. you may have been the type to become easily discouraged, to drown yourself in other people, and to flow in and out of life. with pisces sn, there is the typical victim complex inherited in this lifetime also. withdrawal and oversensitivity would've caused your last life to breeding great depression, sadness, and unfairness. in this lifetime, there is a need to establish a concrete grounding in reality.

in your last life, your self-esteem may have been incredibly damaged or low, you never really found your place on earth. you waited for someone to save you rather than saving yourself; you wanted to escape life to escape responsibility and the pain of existing rather than making your problems go away yourself. you lacked routine and self-esteem so much so you deluded yourself with false dreams and daydreaming. you don't do well in competitions or in situations where you must confront someone or something. you spent considerably amounts of time being upset and a victim you never really had the chance to make life yours. you believed (or still believe) that life is against you and that everything you have been through or will go through, is a punishment for something you've done before. what you need to realize is thoughts and mindsets will become reflected in your everyday life. once you start treating sadness like an addiction, you will attract this. you may have also had a bad relationship with money. in this lifetime, you must learn that money is not an impure subject or thing, but actually a currency to exchange for your wants and needs.

being compassionate, giving, and vulnerable with others is your thing, but beware of being taken advantage of. you must learn to establish clear boundaries between yourself and others and to appreciate details rather than vagueness. don't overlook others or things by looking at the bigger picture, but be sure to analyze things or people more. it's especially important not to give everyone your time if you can't or don't want to. being a helper is in your blood but ensure you don't do it in vain or because you feel as though you want to be a savior for others. you must make your life productive and achieve something that is of material significance, rather than chasing the idyllic high of dreaming and escapism. spirituality and religion may have caused you to become obsessed with faith, but it has caused you to become detached from the material world, where you temporarily belong.

feelings of paranoia and mistrust may be relevant to you. in your last life, abuse may have been a big topic, whether it be from others or yourself. in this life, it is important you establish a clear faith that guides you through your purpose, rather than hoping for a spiritual escape. do not overindulge in suffering and do not let it become your personality. you must learn to stick to a routine or something that allows you to be present and aware. you must help others only if you are ready to balance this with helping yourself also. instead of suscepting to the chaos of life, you must learn to bring order to it. do not overindulge in feelings of betrayal, paranoia, or sadness, but learn to rationalize your feelings in a way that doesn't neglect how you truly feel. learn to prioritize work instead of aimlessly walking through life.

your lesson? to learn the importance of routine and grounding. you must focus and remain on earth, even when your head isn't. practice spirituality but don't let it consume you. don't wait for a great spiritual retreat while you are still stuck on earth. do not practice in mindless games with others and do not engage in the addiction sadness can bring. learn to take accountability for your behavior. help others, but only when you know you help yourself also. participate in things that help you build your self-confidence. learn to trust others, but do not let them take advantage of your kindness. do not look at the big picture without analyzing the fine print in any and every scenario. learn not to give up over inconveniences and learn to build a tenacious and courageous personality.

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libra nn/aries sn — decision making, cooperation, friendship

in your last life, you may have been overly selfish and individualistic, you refused to know others, or at least neglected their presence or existence in your life. you were overly impulsive and let this control your life. you are unaware of partnership, or at least hesitant on it, because you want to do things your way. you think your speed is the right speed, your way is the only way, and your opinion is the only opinion that matters. you may live life on a constant high where you challenge yourself.

rage and stubbornness are key things to leave behind. in this life, you should learn to appreciate the greatness of partnership and relationships because they can actually build you up quicker than you can on your own. you may instinctually stomp down on others to get what you want but be completely oblivious of the damage you have caused until after. in this life, you must learn to balance the input of yourself and others. it's not fair for you to put down others to get what you want - you need to learn you must partake in other people's opinions too.

you must work with people who bring you lessons of empathy, sensitivity, and communication. asking for help is never a problem, especially when you do it to be better. in relationships, you may fear intimacy or commitment because you may feel your individuality is threatened and you may leave immediately. this is not a healthy mindset to have, just because your personality is being challenged. and actually, any issues you have, such as feeling restrained, are perfect opportunities for open communication with your partners or people in general. you are used to being self-sufficient and relying on yourself. this is actually a common trait in people who are narcissistic and see life as a game of survival. your need for solitude and independence will only get you so far before you realize there are more ways to make life great and productive, including working with other people.

you may be so tied up in yourself that you forget others have feelings, too. in relationships, for example, it may become difficult for you to comprehend your partner's feelings because you rarely think beyond your own brain. you need to become more selfless with people instead of always assuming you are right and that you deserve everything, while others don't. by becoming inaccessible to others you limit the connections you have in life. you try protect your identity by letting people see parts of it, rather than expressing yourself to others.

your lesson? learn duality by working with others in a way that is healthy and cooperative. your last life comprised of you fighting to be alone and independent, but it bit back by starving you off relationships and causing you to become overly self-reliant. working with others bears no threat to you. asking for help is not a bad thing. assertiveness and impulsivity are great traits to have but they should be in balance with patience and careful decision-making. humble yourself by recognizing you cannot make it through life alone without the aid of others - romantic or platonic - because your karma relies on others for help. you must learn healthy communication and learn to get along with others by becoming open-minded to their lifestyle. you can maintain your individuality while in a relationship — don't convince yourself you can't.

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scorpio nn/taurus sn — self-worth, money, and partnership

your "achilles heal" in this lifetime is believing your worth is tied to money and materials. you are the type to believe that "once i have this and that, and once i have more money, i will finally be happy." all you want is money really, and you may be possessive with what you have, or secretive with your possessions. in this lifetime, you are meant to share with others, whether romantically, platonically, or in work, to foster a culture in which you become openminded on things that matter beyond just money and possessions.

in your past life, you may have had a life with rigid rules. now, you may have been born with an "it is what it is" attitude, causing you to stagnate throughout life because you believe things are supposed to go a certain way always, rather than becoming aware of other ways to achieve your goals. you are born with certain values or beliefs and in this lifetime, you will be tested on whether you are willing to let rigid beliefs go, or if you will stick with them, using them as your pillar for security, predictability, and safety. if you fail to experiment with life and acknowledge your soul needs for things like travel, meditation, and prayer, you may become stuck with living "one way", shunning your spiritual health and sticking to what is predictable. there is the habit of extreme tunnel vision and you must become aware of it.

one key lesson for you in this life is to learn partnership with others, especially in romantic relationships. you may feel tempted to do things by yourself "my way, or the hard way" but one challenge for you may be the lack of resources you find because truthfully, you are not supposed to work alone in this lifetime. you may have spent some time in your past life in solitude but you have the gift of creating and building and earning money with someone. think of them as another step towards what you want...

another lesson for you may be to release your urges to be stubborn, rigid, and fixed, and to humble yourself. you have a habit of being a "know it all" with no regard for other people's input and thereby think everything must be done your way because it is the only way. you may feel as though your life is going to be a long, hard process in which you will become enslaved to society to make money and work. your life was not meant to be difficult now, because you have already overworked yourself in your past life. instead, there needs to be a refocusing of materials and money, towards the question of your spiritual health, what makes you happy, and what you can do to improve yourself spiritually.

your lesson? learn to surrender and trust others. learn to be vulnerable with others and to let yourself love unapologetically. money is a tool for what you want but don’t let money consume you. you put too much emphasis on money and therefore let it dictate your self-esteem, your worth, and life. learn to experience joy with others. you must learn to be open minded with other people rather than sticking to a thinking pattern so rigid and stubborn. let go of control by allowing yourself more freedom in expression. try not to take everything so seriously — you live one life once, make the most of it.

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sagittarius nn/gemini sn — solitude, intuition, knowledge

there is a fine line between intuition and faith and, for you, you must come in the middle of the two, as this is your karma. in your past life you may have not relied on your intuition enough or completely disregarded it while actively seeking for the "truth" of life. you may have become so engrossed in learning about others, you don't know much about yourself. you have worked with others to the point where you're not sure how to have one opinion. you second-guess too much to the point you overwhelm yourself with possibilities of what-ifs. this is how you miss out on people or events or on basic day-to-day living: by second-guessing and making assumptions that aren't there. you can't bluntly take information for what it is; you always feel there is a double meaning to it. you don't trust your intuition because it's not a tangible thing to rely on. it's a voice in your head or it's a feeling in your heart or gut — you simply can't decide.

in this life, you must learn how to be alone and how significant solitude can be for the soul. when alone, you learn to listen to your own intuition and build a rapport with it. when alone, you learn about yourself and what you like. solo-travel is perfect for this. you get along with just about anyone but you are bad for saying "no" to what you don't like. this comes from wanting to please others and always wanting to be involved, so much so that you almost never miss any opportunity in case you miss something important. you want to feel involved and mentally stimulated - when you're idle you feel lost. you may have a bad habit of gossiping or lying to get what you want. this is because you understand others so well that you tend to abuse this skill and manipulate your way out of situations, for example, or manipulate people to get what you want.

you may be the type to hop opinions as new information surfaces. you are not the type to listen to your intuition and base an opinion on personal experience, what seems right, and morals. you tend to base your opinion on the ultimate truth and to accept it for what it is; you, however, change it as new information becomes available. you are optimistic and extremely hopeful but this can be a huge weakness if you ignore your intuition for events that are harmful or negative. you tend to think everything will work out until it doesn't. this isn't a bad thing and, actually, your thoughts seem to become reaffirmed when it works out the next time.

you must accept you can only work with others so much until you must take time for yourself also. you have spent considerable time with others and must work in solitude to learn about yourself and to establish faith and a connection with your soul/intuition. you are so tied up in being accepted by others you limit your happiness to those people. you forget what it's like being alone because you engross yourself in others and their opinions, their likes, and their opinions. being social is never a bad thing but how do you maintain your own identity when you don't?

your lesson? to spend more time alone and establish a crystal clear connection with yourself. you rely on others for validation but it should ultimately come from you. you must learn to approach life in a way that is hopeful and adventurous. you must also learn not to be a people pleaser and to eliminate yourself from the shackles of gossip and lying to deceive others. you may play mind games with others or simply deceive them because you don't want to be seen or simply because that's just who you are. learn to be subjective and to have an opinion of your own, rather than settling for other people's opinions, or the "ultimate truth."

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capricorn nn/cancer sn — self-control, individuality, self-respect

key attributes for you to develop in this lifetime are: self-control, self-care, looking towards the future, individuality, and goal-orientation. in this lifetime, there will be a huge lesson of contrasting emotion to logic and direction. in your last life you may have been horrible dependent on others and may have washed away your identity completely as you submerged yourself in the past of yourself and others. cancer is a highly reflective and sentimental sign, with an attraction towards nostalgia and familiarity. however, this trait may be abused when you overindulge in thinking about the past, about what you've lost, instead of looking towards the future. on the contrary, capricorn is a present and future-oriented sign with big dreams. in your last life you may have been so emotional you overwhelmed others with your demands and needs. you may have been manipulative to others. in this life you must free yourself from these bad habits, as they don't serve you anything good, and instead bring you down, and others too.

you must learn to take responsibility and more action in your life. you are overly passive or don't feel like you need to take action but even when you do need to take action, you don't. you spend too much time alone and can't seem to take charge. in this life, you will learn to take control of your life and steer it in the direction of change and success. you may be so embossed in helping others, you forget your own needs. you may have had bad family karma in which too much was demanded of you and you felt drained and overwhelmed. this is similar to how you may have been in the past — draining, demanding, and overwhelming.

you may fear rejection as a result of a low self-esteem. this stems from past life karma where you didn't receive enough love to prove that you are worthy. therefore, the only validation you could've gotten was from you and, whenever someone tells you you're not good enough, you feel as though you've been proven right: you're really not good enough, no matter how hard you try. this breeds many bad habits such as being codependent on others and constantly wanting attention or stimulation from them because it feeds your inner void. with capricorn, you must learn to protect yourself and feed yourself, rather than pulling other people in for the sole purpose of feeding your ego.

an important lesson for you will be to cherish feelings and happy times but also to let go of the past and accept it for what it is. you may be uncertain of the future, thereby staying in the realm of the past rather than acknowledging the past and the possibilities of the future. there's a strong need for attention and emotional stimulation. lack of emotional awareness and emotional security cause you to be emotionally immature, manipulative, and toxic to others.

you must learn to become secure in your own being and to recognize life has so many possibilities, it's almost infinite. you can do what you want, but until you learn to build stability and strong self-esteem inside you, the possibilities won't really satisfy you. you must drop the fear of failure by realizing rejection is merely redirection. what is meant for you will find you. you have a deep need to belong but you must firstly belong to YOURSELF before you can commit to others and start demanding from them.

your lesson? to maintain a positive, future-oriented, and present focused. acknowledge the past and reminisce, but seldom. do not indulge in the feelings of the past because the past is not going to show up in your present or future. you must learn to control your emotions and to become more goal-oriented in this lifetime. your lesson will be to detach from the toxicity of codependency and attachment and to take more responsibility in your life. do not be afraid to take risks but approach life from an adult's perspective. do not let insecurity consume you, but use insecurity to build yourself stronger.

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aquarius nn/leo sn — friendship, humility, working with the collective

in this lifetime, you are learning to let go of stubbornness and pride and to create win/win situations with others by working with various people. in your last life, you may have experienced extreme amounts of fame and attention. now, you have inherited similar thinking patterns of "i deserve the world" or "i'm too special for everyone." you must practice humility and honesty. it will be your duty/responsibility to rebuild your identity after such a climb to fame.

you may have spent considerable amounts of time on your own or on personal projects you have completely lost touch with others and no longer have group awareness. what this means is that you input your opinion or will or demands in almost every scenario you're in instead of touching base with others in a way that is curious and honest. you tend to do things your way, unaware that it may not be the best way to do something. you have insane resilience and passionate ambitions but your need to control and micromanage everything causes everything to collapse on you because you didn't gamble enough. you are confident but let it get to your head. it's what we call an overdeveloped ego: you focus on yourself so much you don't know how to focus or connect with others.

a lesson for you will be to learn humility and to embrace change and rebellion when necessary. you must learn to work with others, whatever the relationship may be, and to let go of your ego. you have a lot of love and compassion to give to others but you feel as though you're too good for anyone when this is never the case. you are more than good enough; don't delude yourself into thinking you are better than everyone, and that nobody can ever be as perfect as you. this will make you undermine others because you refuse to see the positives in them because you are so tied up with your own qualities.

you constantly need attention and approval and, in this lifetime, you will learn the importance of balancing the ego and being humble. you must work with others and give back to humankind, as they were the ones who brought you your attention and grandeur in previous lifetimes. you must direct your energy towards others instead of to yourself. by constantly feeding yourself with attention, you tend to think you don't need anyone and that you can do it all by yourself. this is not true; there are many parts of you that, in actuality, are insecure.

your lesson? to work with others and learn the balance between yourself and the ego. you must acquaint yourself with the desire of friendship and to relate with them on levels that extend beyond normal conversations and superficiality. you must learn others are special too and learn they can actually contribute to your character development rather than always doing it all on your own. understand that differing points of view are just as important as yours. you may be the main character but there is a reason why side characters exist; they serve the purpose of being guides to you.

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pisces nn/virgo sn — spirituality, release of control, reflection

virgo sn is a sign of anxiety, obsession, and inflexibility. virgo is an earth sign, a mutable one at that, capable of adapting to its environment, whatever the demands may be. however, this placement can cause much distress as the traits of being analyzing, honest, communicative, and critical, become twisted and turn into something so much more depressing and harmful. this placement can breed someone who is so critical of others, is a gossiper, and is passive-aggressive.

your need for order is your ultimate "achilles heal" as with order comes control and obsession and perfection. you are a perfectionist but you over-analyze details and strive for perfection in everything you do. your obsession with perfection causes you to become inflexible to things you're not familiar with. in this lifetime, you will be forced to live life with the flow, rather than through a lens of panic. excessive routines and planning won't be of much use to you because this life challenges you to think spiritually and freely. in this life, you are challenged to trust in the divine and to learn a more wishy-washy approach to life. you should trust in the universe or God more than you trust planners and routines. you may be excessively judgmental and spend a lot of time criticizing others, while never doing the same to you. why? because this is a highly insecure placement with little stability and almost no self-esteem. you project your insecurities through passive-aggressive remarks and are highly hypocritical. you try to fix others by always looking for what's wrong. this is also applicable in general life, where you need to fix something to feel some sort of satisfaction within you.

in this lifetime, you will have to learn to work with others, but in a way that is reciprocating and honest. you must forget to be right all the time. you must forget you have to know everything always. you must forget you always have the answers because you really don't. you must accept change as it comes to you instead of resisting it because once you resist it, it will come against you in strengths tenfold.

in this life, you must focus on what really feeds you spiritually and soulfully. this is a life of reflection and meditation. you must let go of the details and look at life through a lens much bigger than now. you must look at life with an open mind. this is a self-purifying placement more than anything. you may have a habit of always trying to do everything, which ultimately causes you to do nothing. you rush yourself to do everything, you don't actually end up being productive at all, despite being a very productive sign.

you may appreciate hard work so much, you revolve your life or time around it. material success isn't really of much concern to you, but if it is, it's a highly toxic way of being. in this lifetime, you will learn to let your head sit in the clouds for a bit, instead of over-rationalizing everything always. not everything is so serious all the time, is it?

your lesson? to become more vulnerable with life. virgo is a sheltered sign and rarely shows emotion. however, pisces invites you to ride on life's current and to take time to think about life and the universe on a bigger picture. you must find peace and engage in meaningful work instead of focusing on the mundane. fix the need to always needing to fix everything and needing to be right; learn to accept others and not criticize them. your critical nature comes from your horribly withered self-esteem and, without work being done on it, you will become trapped in a cycle of judgment and comparison. work on yourself and purify your self-esteem through meditation, journaling, creativity, alone time, and meaningful engagement with others.

[resqectable]

“You can’t live your life for other people. You’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts some people you love.”

— The Notebook

[piscesmerc26-deactivated2023093]

❥,,Sad/Troubling placements in a chart☔️:

❥,,12H Placements. (Esp. Sun, Moon and Venus) I don't usually prefer to discuss them in this topic but it's the truth. 12H are usually blinded by illusion that they have to WORK HARDLY on to get rid of, they're born with a sense of hyper awareness, heightened intuition and derealization, all at the same time. 12H placements are also known to be pretty karmic. For Sun, they may have had an emotionally absent father, for Moon it'd be their mother, for Venus likely their partners/friendships and relationships. Advice for these people are to spend time alone more, allow yourself to explore spirituality and dont be afraid of saying no, your feelings are just as important as the next person's🫶🏽.

❥,,8H Placements (Sun, Moon, Venus).These individuals are INTENSE. Having this placed on a personal placement especially the moon can be detrimental to the person. 8H placements usually have spiraling emotions, heightened intuition and typically have trust issues because of their past, and are similar to 12H placements. While both being dark, 12H and 8H are wise and spiritual individuals, they go through lots of pain to help others avoid it. Advice for these individuals are to cope with physical activity, anything that can release frustration and pent up anger, inlcuding exploring their identities and going on walks, similar to 12H placements.

❥,,Moon/Sun-Pluto Hard Aspects + Conj. These people are going through constant restless transformations, for the moon person, it can be in their family or emotions, for the sun it can be their image/personality. These people struggle mostly in their earlier years of life due to being exposed to many different troubling experiences in life. These people can not know how to express their individuality. They are often surrounded by people who have dark energies or controlling people who see their power and want to dim it. These people are very resilient individuals 🫂. These people and 12H/8H Moons are more likely to ghost people often. Advice for these people are to constantly tap into their emotions, utilize them for greater things, additionally doing activities that heal their inner child.

❥,,Mercury-Pluto/Mars/Moon hard Aspects. The dark side to this aspect between these planets can be trouble with expressing thoughts, especially when placed in square or opposition, it can be hard for them to decipher their emotions from their actions. Many may not understand what they try to get at, these people should turn to journalism and writing, when they do, they may find a sense of peace. Advice for These individuals are to try journalism, reach out to professionals anonymously or online, tapping into art is also an option, these people can find peace through writing down their angers on paper and burning it.

❥,,Moon in Scorpio and Capricorn (HM: Aquarius, Gemini, Aries and Sagittarius). Specifically Scorpio and Capricorn, these individuals may have had a complicating relationship with their mother, they may had certain ways of acting or different ideals that strained the relationship. Their mothers could have been emotionally unstable in some way. For Aquarius and Gemini, these individuals don't usually have emotionally available mothers, they often blew up on them or were constantly way too over protective sometimes even for no reason. For Aries and Sagittarius, these people may have had VERY impulsive mothers, mothers may have had a crazy past with their behavior and placed the Fire moon child on high expectations that they couldn't reach, these individuals often hide their true identity to seem more likeable. Despite seemings social, these individuals have very low social batteries and are likely to ghost. For all moon placements, this is intensified if placed in water houses (4H, 8H, 12H). 🫂♥️ Advice for these individuals are to express their emotions with people close to them, or similar to the recent observation, reach out anonymously.

❥,,Venus Square/Opposition Saturn. In my opinion, this aspect seems highly relevant no matter how far the orb is. These individuals can feel restricted with love all the while desiring it, they long for someone to care for but dislike being CARED for. These individuals can feel conflicted most of the time with the idea of relationships and are likely to twist their faces when they see couples in public (lmao). If orb is between 0-3, they may not believe in the idea of love or that it can be given to them. This is intensified if Venus is also negatively aspected by Neptune. Advice for these individuals are to look more into their self love and their true values before jumping into relationships.

❥,,Chiron 11H/4H/3H. These Individuals may have been shunned when it came to family and friends. Often treated like the outcasts or the "weird kids", they may have expressed their individuality more when in their younger years but as they got older, were forced to fit themselves into a diluted and mundane personality. Advice to these individuals are to grow themselves slowly to express individuality and stand up for themselves if possible, their words can go long ways.

❥,,Pisces(12H Merc.)/Cancer(4h Merc.) Mercury. These individuals may have had gotten bullied in younger years, many saw them as defenseless and siblings might've spoken over them a lot instead of letting them speak. Often misunderstood, unheard and wise individuals. Many people do not take the advice of these individuals but they always end up right in the end, its always an "I told you so" moment, even so many will continued to ignore the advice of these individuals. 🙁♥️🫂 Advice for these individuals are similar to Chiron placements.

❥,,Saturn 1H/4H/5H/6H/7H. One word. Limitation. These individuals often missed out on the pleasures in life, they can constantly be hard on themselves and often never gave themselves chances to be themselves and have fun. These individuals need to recognize that it's okay to make mistakes and its okay to spend time alone but they should not restrict themselves from enjoying the pleasures of life. ♥️🫂 Advice for the individuals are to stop themselves occasionally, and force themselves out of their comfort zones and try small but new things.

❥,,Saturn-Neptune Opposition/Square. These individuals have trouble with separation from reality and illusion, these people often have on rose colored glasses and tend to not trust the right people, they can often find themselves being betrayed by people they thought cared for them. Prone to depersonalization and dissociation. Please take care of yourselves, these individuals must learn to protect their energies and heighten their awareness♥️🫂.

❥,,Aquarius/Capricorn placements (Esp Risings). Also known at the Saturnian placements. These people may have karma on their sides but that also means karma hits them 10x as harder. Wherever these signs are placed in your chart require one to mature and learn hard lessons based on it until their mature years. Advice for these individuals are to maintain their awareness and find grounding in the midst of the chaos they can experience.

❥,,Sun/Moon-Saturn Trine and Hard aspects. These individuals similar to Saturnian placements go through heavy karma in life, they're often mature at very young ages due to their experiences. They feel things heavier than most and they often have great advice that can save others from their troubles. These individuals may only seem their bad qualities and fail to point out their good ones. ♥️🫂 Advice for these individuals are to explore self love and understand how to save their energy and limit themselves from self-criticism.

❥,,Sun/Moon-Neptune hard aspects. These individuals may have toruble setting apart from their images(Sun) and their emotions(Moon). Everyday life can seem like a challenge due to this. They may not seem themselves the way others see them similar to Sun/Moon-Saturn hard aspects. ♥️🫂. Advice for these people are to protect their energies and grounds themselves, w the use of Mudras, sigils, meditation, and more.

I should've done this before but if I'm missing anything please comment them! I will reply with an observation ♥️. That is all for tonight, cya! ~ J.

[xxviiilix]

[kientosyamaza]

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us

[p96al]

be patient with your progress, and the timing of the universe. rushing things expresses lack of trust. whatever you are waiting on will come.

[rueyam]

the older i get the more sensitive i become to warm genuine words, like wow you really think that kindly of me? hold up, lemme cry

[yourebatz]

нow are yoυ dιvιnely proтecтed

ᴘɪƖє ᴏηє queen of cups rx, knight of cups rx, page of wands, justice.

It seems to me your spirit guides are very protective. When the Queen of Cups rx popped up I instantly thought of mirrors. People may often project onto you. Something about you reflects the deepest, darkest, self hatred in other people. To them it feels like YOU are doing something, or something is off with you, when it's actually a reflection of their own darkness. 

You could have a water stellium, or a lot of water placements. I'm picking up heavy on water ascendants, suns, or moons here.

Maybe with a mix of air placements in mercury or the big 3. As a result of this, people tend to unfortunately not recognize when the "attacks," "energy," and "negativity" they feel is actually a reflection of them. You could find that when YOU act out, punishments can be harsh because of the weight your energy holds. The pain, suffering, manifestations of poverty, ill health, and just general baneful magic or negativity sent your way often results in those intentions manifesting into the sender's life.

There could be moments where you feel unfairly spiritually vulnerable, or ditched because bad energy is getting through. This because of 3 things. 1. YOU were out of pocket in some way and are facing the consequences of your actions. 

2. Your opponents are racking up worse and worse karma, so the blow-back is severe. 

3. Your spirit guides want you to protect yourself. They're testing you and want to see if you can hold down the fort. 

s/n: When it comes to you, your guides can secretly be vengeful. Though, they don't want that to get to your head. Clearly the people in this group went through a lot and never got proper justice for it. That could be why your spirit guides are very protective. The people wield ill intentions against you could suddenly fall into deep and isolating depression. They may begin suffering from emotional instabilities and outbursts. Many of them end up isolated. Friends, family, and coworkers distance themselves from the individual. They could end up with no one to turn to in their darkest moment. Your spirit team does not play when it comes to you. 

Your spirit guides want you to be protected and in a good place. I feel your guides are incredibly picky about who they let around you. You may get waves of the ick about people, even for no reason; it seems they can even get frustrated how you seemingly overlook this ick feeling you get. 

It feels to me that your guides are incredibly picky about who they allow in your space. You may get waves of the ick about people. They may get frustrated at your tendency to overlook this feeling they send you as a warning. 

the hanged man, the fool rx, 6 of swords, 7 of swords

This is interesting, I can tell this will take a lot of channeling information. So let's start with the fact that at times your "isolation" is protection. The moments when you have this urge to isolate would be an indicator. It's like they will seclude you from others, and you become engrossed in your energy. You need to trust those periods and talk to no one. Spend that time nurturing yourself, cleansing your space, and recuperating. I also thought of bear traps or those episodes of scooby doo where the gang gets caught in Fred's trap instead of the villain. It's like, your enemies will plan to cause you harm- and then they'll fumble their plan and do it to themselves. When you approach revenge or balance in an egotistical way you're less likely to be able to see the outcome. I see that your spirit guides play a role in people perceiving you as unintelligent or naive. It's so that you can immediately pinpoint what's going on based on their actions. Don't give people the benefit of the doubt so much, but don't be so quick to throw long-term friendships away either. Allow people time to grow, and recognize that your energy is extremely transformative.

They make sure you can move on quickly from these people and help you to take action to protect yourself in the background. I also see that they may cause people discomfort, anxiety, or even straight-up attack people who try to hurt you. It seems to me some of your ancestors could be known in the spirit realm. I will leave it at that though. Do not let this information get to your head, and remember that you have much learning to do. I hope this reading resonated. If you'd like to buy a personal consultation on this topic I will be accepting basic readings for 25$ and in-depth ones for 45$ on this topic.

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4 of pentacles Rx, the tower, the moon Rx, the devil Rx

AND I THOUGHT PILE ONE WAS SEVERE. GOD DAMN.

Hey there Pile Two, so firstly, I must say your spirits rip people to fucking shreds. I want to get some insight into why people might try to harm you- so let's see. I feel that people may feel envious of you. It's interesting because many of you have not had much in life. You could have grown up poor. Others may have gone through emotional, physical, or other types of neglect. You went through so much pain and suffering; much of it was unfair. It seems that something karmically could've happened- there were experiences you weren't entirely supposed to go through. I think your ancestors and spirit guides may feel bad these things happened to you. I heard Anubis' name; some of you are protected and guarded by Anubis. That message is not for everyone.

I feel as if the people who try to hurt you may be very karmic. Through this current life, you're supposed to break free from the people who abused you in past lives. That is why their lives end up destroyed. Your abusers could end up in legal trouble. All their secrets are revealed to the public. Your enemies lose money, and some lose their grip on reality or sanity. I heard reversed just now, so whatever they did to you happens to them. I heard "dues" and "time to pay your dues," so when you make big decisions, like cutting off an abusive friend, partner, or family member, you find many blessings. If it hasn't happened, it will as you age up.

10 of wands RX, the world, the knight of cups, queen of pentacles

These cards are honestly so sweet. Your ancestors or spirit team removes blockages for you when people try to block your blessings. They bring you everything they can, and sometimes more. I feel that they nurture and help you cleanse and recuperate your energy. I sense a grandmotherly spirit who wants to speak to you more. They push things to be in your favor. You may feel overwhelmed like many bad things are happening one after the other as if you have no control. Then suddenly, you have this insane breakthrough and the blockages come tumbling. They like to turn these situations into learning moments.

That way once it is time for you to step into your power, you've been prepared for your spiritual duties. They are on a mission to protect you; there is something very sacred and inexplicably different about you. One of your ancestors could have predicted your birth, or have been waiting for you to be born. I feel that they provide for you. I mentioned neglect at the beginning of the reading; I get the sense that the random money, living situations, and luck you ran into were from them. They did all they could to take care of you as child and teenager. That's so wild because my boyfriend is playing NBA 2K23 and the announcer on the game said "22" and the word count (I've separated them into smaller paragraphs and run them through a word counter as I type) was 222. So they definitely provide for you, and happily.

What I'm about to say may not be for everyone, but you could have many people that pray for you. If you have witches in your family. I see pieces of paper with names written on them being burned for protection. I also feel that they could keep people away from you. The reason you may feel outcasted or hard pressed to find friends is because they protect you. All in all they just want you to be safe, and focus on studying. Whatever that means for you.

ᴘɪƖє ᴛʜяєє

10 of pentacles rx, 5 of wands, 5 of swords, knight of swords

Your guides take away the stability of the people who try to start shit with you. I know a lot of this group may be very depressed or struggle with maintaining a positive outlook. Your envy or jealousy towards others can at times manifest into your own life. It's interesting because some of this group deals with entitlement issues. I'll get into your reading in a second, but this message feels pretty relevant. You'll notice some of the things listed here that happen to enemies show up in your own life as well. So be aware of how you treat others and what path you choose in the new year. Now then, onto the reading.

Your enemies find themselves penniless, their reputations could be destroyed entirely. Their family members disown them, or they start having family issues. People lose money, their savings could have to go into something very inconvenient. They could get into arguments and be verbally attacked often. Their words and secrets come back to bite them. I sense that your spirit team has a hard time being able to divinely protect you in many situations; Because a lot of this group is prone to gossip, backstabbing, and mistreating others, and is generally very lacking in self-awareness. This won't apply to everyone, and to those who don't participate in those kinds of behaviors; Your spirit team protects you by bringing you glimpses of the truth. Your spirit guides could also protect you by surrounding you with people who will defend you. I feel like some people defend you at all costs, there is a lot of self-reflection this group needs to do. Because I'm picking up that some of you take advantage of your friends.

knight of wands, 2 of wands rx, 10 of swords, ace of wands

I see that a lot of chaos and lack of clarity could enter the lives of the people who harm you or intend to harm you. The irony here though, is many of you tend to live life in a constant state of confusion as a result of your actions and lack of self-awareness. I get a strong feeling of opportunities for the people who cross you getting whisked away. Also, I want to apologize to the people in this pile who aren't resonating with certain bits. If you are not a person who lives their life in that negative manner I wouldn't worry too much about that. Just focus on the actual important bits for you. Anyways, I see opportunities being taken away and losing their popularity. Being struck down and put in their place, you could see people who unfairly try to cause harm to you get knocked down many pegs. HOWEVER, it is warned here to be careful about trying to knock people down because YOU see fit. Allow your guides to dictate that. Back to what I was saying though, you could see people being struck down publicly. A lot of their weird & negative ways are exposed and they may have their reputation destroyed. I see that you also could bring a lot of light to what is hidden about people. So it's possible you could be the one who is guided to expose or shed light onto people and things. However, I once again want to give a warning, many of you are not ready to function in this energy yet. A lot of shadow work and self-honesty is required. You need to learn to be kinder to others and to not engage in the behaviors you don't like in others before you cast judgment.

[dark4ngel]

This is so good, I really resonated with this💕

Good job 💕

[shynestar]

[funnytwittertweets]

[brok3np4radise-deactivated20250]

Every one says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive.

C.S. Lewis

[astrobydalia]

How you connect with others: 7th house and 8th house

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When talking about the 8th house in regards to relationships, the first thing that we think of is sex, however the 8th house rules sex because it is all about any type of deeper intimacy in any committed connection. Our 7th house tells us how we relate to others and what type of connections we like to establish with others but the 8th house can tell more about what you need in order to nurture and establish a deeper connection with someone. Of course many other things in the chart are very telling of how you connect with others such as Moon or Venus, but in this post I'll focus on the the 8th house which is all about going past that one-on-one interaction (7th house) to really let the other person in, which is why you may or may not be comfortable with your 8th house energy. This house is very telling of the type of energy you need in order to build trust and strong binding and also how you behave with the people you trust

*Please note:

If you're using placidus and you find that you're in situation where for example you're a water ASC but your 8th house is ruled by water and not air just pay attention to the 7th house description of water asc and the 8th description of fire asc and so on. If your 7th and 8th house are ruled by the same sign for example Virgo, these descriptions still apply cause the following sign (Libra) will still occupy some of the 8th house but you could also relate to the earth 8th house description of air risings

Planets and the rest of the chart will give more nuance and layers to these energies

Earth risings really want to get to know someone on a really deep level due to water DSC. They don't necessarily overshare (they very much can), but they are the ones who can get through to others, they're the type to want to make small talk vulnerable or deep right away and you will notice this with how easy it is for them to get through to others. They are very good listeners and can easily make people feel loved and appreciated even through a casual interaction. They do this because they want to know who someone is deep down so when intimacy comes they feel free enough to show their wilder, adventurous or even childish side without being judged since they have fire 8th house. They want to be pampered back and feel a little "selfish" and free and dominate the situation or their partner doing so. I like to think of it as they charm people in (water 7th house) so they can be adored (fire 8th house) but not in a malicious way of course. The type of dynamic they seek with people they trust always involves playfulness, spontaneity and will definitely be out the door if you judge their personality or ego in some way. If they don't trust you they will be able to stir you up emotionally without showing you their real personality which can result in them leading people on a lot. This does not mean they are fake but since they are earth risings, they are used to keeping it together all the time so they want to be able to let loose during intimacy. They are attracted to people who they find a little daring cause they are looking for someone who takes out their feisty side.

Virgo risings (Pisces 7th house, Aries 8th house) -> their way of making deeper connections is actually very child-like due to the dreaminess mixed with impulsiveness. They can get infatuated quite easily and want a partner that keeps them on their toes always longing. They commit passionately and blindly

Capricorn risings (Cancer 7th house, Leo 8th house) -> they want to feel cared for and pampered so admiration is a big factor here for what makes these natives want to connect more deeply. They are very attentive people and want a partner that respects them and always takes them into account

Taurus risings (Scorpio 7th house, Sagittarius 8th house) -> these people want to go all in in their connections in every aspect, no bs kinda vibe, specially when it comes to intimacy they want to be able to just go wild with their partner, explore the good and the ugly and simply have fun doing so

Fire risings prefer people who give them light-hearted and fun conversations which they genuinely find entertaining and interesting and they’re more open to interacting with all sorts of people due to air DSC. They are easily swayed by other's mind or surface-level charm, but they want to get to know the actual deeper personality of others, so these natives are actually more sentimental than what they may actually look in a casual interaction. Once they've been charmed by someone mentally, when it comes to intimacy they want to feel comfortable enough to show their deeper self and to know each other deeper due to water ruling 8th house. They're the type to want a relationship where you can talk about gossip and their trauma just as comfortably, but they won't trust someone they can only have surface level conversations with or someone who is inconsiderate with their emotional expression or disregards their deeper views of things. As fire risings, they are used to coming across as tough and confident but when it comes to intimacy they need to feel like there's always an open door for vulnerability and softness if they need it. If they don't trust you emotionally, they'll just enjoy having a casual mentally stimulating conversation and then move on, so it's easy for them to come across as charming to many people. They want a connection that has a fun and light-hearted dynamic but with a strong emotional bond underneath it all. These natives are the type to fall for charming and intelligent individuals that are 'softies' on the inside

Sagittarius risings (Gemini 7th house, Cancer 8th house) -> with this mix they definitely will get intimate with someone who says just the right things and verbally comforts them. They want a relationship where they can keep things youthful and emotionally soft with not much turmoil

Aries risings (Libra 7th house, Scorpio 8th house) -> these peeps are the epitome of charming, they want to connect with people that they relate to in some way but will accept and embrace their dark side and secrets, their way of making deep connections is by taking the person into their inner cave with them

Leo risings (Aquarius 7th house, Pisces 8th house) -> these natives have a habit of getting in problematic relationships and romanticizing them for it. They fall for unconventional or chaotic people and then have this "they don't understand that I see past that and I love you for your soul" sort of intimacy

Air risings tend to surround themselves with people that provide them with brand new experiences, people who are entertaining, fun and independent due to their fire DSC. They always want to do new things with the people they like and come in contact with and they also like people who are 'their own person'. These natives are often very blunt and outspoken actually and it's not uncommon for them to be seen as rude, bold or nonchalant sometimes, but as much as they enjoy interacting with stimulating and bold people, when it comes to intimacy and a deeper connection they desire stability and reliability due to earth ruling their 8th house. Basically they won't commit to and specially won't trust someone who is fun but lacks consistency and dependability. Deep down they themselves are very reliable, but they reserve that side of themselves for the people they love and trust, therefore they will commit to a partner that will reciprocate this type of energy. They are very fun people to be around and they're usually rather popular, but once they trust you they will show a more serious and respectful side to them. They will want to connect with people who are independent and stimulating but deep down is chill, low-key and reliable underneath it all. When it comes to deep intimacy they will feel like it's safe to trust someone who shows patience and consistency even if it's not too emotional or fiery. Being air risings, they're very mental normally, so they will like to commit and give themselves to someone that grounds them

Libra risings (Aries 7th house, Taurus 8th house) -> they like spontaneity and indulgence. They are drawn to people who they find immediately attractive and catches their eye, but they like to connect deeply with someone by sharing strong sensuality and calmness that goes beyond a first-time thrill

Aquarius risings (Leo 7th house, Virgo 8th house) -> they love to connect with people who have golden retriever vibe to them and is very loyal and helpful. They will connect deeply with someone by lighting up their day with lots of fun and laughter but also by casually being always there if they need anything

Gemini risings (Sagittarius 7th house, Capricorn 8th house) -> these people love connecting with individuals that bring expansion into their life and will connect deeply with others by giving them some authority. If these people trust you, they will secretly take what you say very seriously

Water risings are quite charming, but they're the type to draw people in while keeping a respectful distance with them. They don't mind being approached but they definitely don't like when people get too close too soon cause they like the process of building a connection. They usually come across as a little serious and stiff when interacting with others and it's not rare for them to keep their social circle small or always interact with the exact same people. This is because they take relationships seriously and like consistency and predictability in their connections and interactions, but when intimacy comes they want to trust someone enough to freely detach due to air ruling the 8th house. They won't commit to someone who is reliable but boring and uninteresting. Being water risings, they are constantly very perceptive of the energies around them, so when it comes to intimacy they will feel very good with someone who they can just take it easy and have a more light-hearted energy. Ironically, these are the most distant and detached risings when it comes to connections and intimacy, but this does not mean they don't love deeply. In fact, this "let's just say, do and talk about whatever, it doesn't matter" side is one they reserve for people who they really trust, that's why they can be dry towards other people who they don't find interesting. These natives usually fall for people who they have to "figure out" in some way sort of like "oh you're reliable and consistant (earth dsc) but I can tell (water asc) that there's more to you and I wanna know more (air 8th house)"

Scorpio risings (Taurus 7th house, Gemini 8th house) -> they definitely want physical attraction paired with some mental thrill so it's common for them to fall for players or be players themselves. They will connect deeply with someone who they can share physical and mental chemistry all in one

Pisces risings (Virgo 7th house, Libra 8th house) -> these natives are naturally very helpful and thoughtful, but they know how to keep to themselves and not give too much. That's why when they connect deeply with someone they're the type to want to share every single with the other person

Cancer risings (Capricorn 7th house, Aquarius 8th house) -> with this double Saturn influence, these natives are the most serious and selective about all their connections, they will feel very connected to someone that gives them a traditional commitment while also opening their minds to new and odd things

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[divinelyviolet]

Astrology Observations:

-Found a trend with Aries Moon/Venus (honorable mention Leo Mars) to be into BDSM or more rough type of sex

-People with Pisces placements in big 3 are more selfish than other placements, though people they let into their lives don’t seem to mind. Pisces in Big 3 aren’t usually shy about what they want

-Sagittarius in Big 3 always seem to have the opportunity to either travel or experience unique things with basically no cost to them. Always seeming to stem from some type of pure good luck and/or charismatic nature (them knowing someone who knew someone got them backstage/ got a job that lets them travel for free/etc)

*Bonus: Sagittarius in big 3 seem to have the ability to rub luck off onto people (whether good or bad depends on the Sag in my opinion)

[allmyloveandyours]

Astrology Observations #2!!!

Hi I'm back with more assumptions and thoughts (i got a lot of them). These are all opinions! Take what resonates! Also I'm not a professional, tell me if I got something wrong :D

Venus in Gemini/Air signs are not flaky (Idk I see a lot of people say this). They're surprisingly loyal, although they may be loyal to people who embody air style qualities rather than them exuding it themselves when it comes to love.

Jupiter opposite Ascendant in your chart can point to a very eccentric person, but they also may have trouble seeing how they actually are, and can have a negative self view, especially with "harsh" (Neptune, Pluto, maybe Mars) planets in 12th house.

Saturn in 11th house can point to achieving your goals later in life/after your Saturn return. With heavy air in the chart, you could've been a wild child.

Cancer Mars natives remind me a lot of car salesmen. They kinda can convince you to buy anything they want, especially if Lilith is in 2nd or 10th house. They can convince you to do anything.

Your close friends may have similar Lilith/your Lilith's get along. Everyone I've been extremely close to also have an Aries Lilith, or something that Lilith would get along with it. Kinda just a fun observation but still. Has anyone else noticed this?

Wherever Neptune is in your chart can tell you where people project onto you, or where you're forgotten the most. For example, Neptune in 4th may have people putting you into positions of Cancer like roles (caring, and supportive), or thinking you have a more than fine family life when you don't, as that area is where you essentially become a mirror.

South Node in Synastry is the coolest thing ever tbh. That's something you immediately feel in your soul. Especially South Node conjunct Mercury. That's your sibling right there. Blood or not.

Celebrities you adore may have the same moon sign/element you.

Singers with Venus in Taurus or Libra have the prettiest voices. Their lyrics either very poetic and powerful of they primary sound expensive or talk a sing a lot about luxuries.

Venus conjunction Midheaven will always be remembered as pretty. ALWAYS. Life and death.

Any planets in 8th house could show what people obsess about over you. For example, Pluto in 8th could have people obsess over your transformations, or try their best to expose you to more taboo things. Whatever the planet rules over normally, it can add a bit of a forceful or darker theme to it. It isn't always intense but it's always interesting when you notice it.

I've been thinking of Placidus vs Whole Sign, since my astrologers use both those, and one of them said that Placidus is more mental and Whole Sign is the world around you, and I have a lil bit of a theory:

Placidus - mental, friends, fans/what people see in you

Whole Sign - first impression, vibes you give off, the house system you look at for results.

They're both accurate, but Whole sign has always been the most accurate when it comes to external results like solar returns and such, and Placidus is kinda how people treat me if that makes sense?

Just a theory I don't know too too much about the difference of their (someone explain maybe plz I'm begging use small words)

Virgo in Lilith could face people nitpicking them for the littlest of things. The house can tell who's doing it/what it's about. Like In 9th people could try to pick at how you study/be classmates, elements of your spiritually/people of the same faith, and attempt to wear you down.

Aspects to your natal Juno can show your "turn ons" and icks when it comes to finding the one. Juno trine Moon could mean you like someone who's open with emotions and can be vulnerable, but square Moon could mean you're not a fan of sappy or dotting people.

Squares in Synastry are my favorite to look at, especially with longer terms relationships. Anything aspects to the ascendant can tell how they first met (in my experience). My favorite scenario was a married couple who met when the husband crashed a friend of the wife's bday party. Squares in sun, Venus, Mars, and Saturn. The wife later said that he stood out like nobody's business, but she liked that 🥺

Juno in Synastry is also something I like looking at with family members. Having a relatives jump conjunct a personal planet is such a warming thing. Like Juno conjunct Moon can mean they're emotionally invested in your well being, or conjunct Jupiter means they may go out of their way to help further education or world view. It's really sweet.

Mars can show where you come off too strong. Mars in 2nd could show you come off too strong when it comes to making money or showing off personally skills. 12th could be you fighting the urge to come off too strong and giving off a ":|" vibe instead.

Ok that's it correct me on stuff if you feel like it idk I like talking to ppl about this stuff