Sugarplum

29 year old Sub, having fun and learning about my interests in Kink.

[beachgothgay]

Weird how opening spotify in a web browser with a decent ad blocker allows you to skip ads just like would happen if you had premium. Sure hope no one takes advantage of that.

[sniper-fox-deactivated20251231]

Sure hope nobody modifies the hosts file in C:\Windows\system32\drivers\etc to block Spotify ads in the app…

[megamindmutual-deactivated20191]

PSST! HERE’S A TUTORIAL ON HOW TO BLOCK SPOTIFY ON WINDOWS!

[socialpsychopathblr]

Lovechild Boudoir

[catsofinstagram]

From @walter.and.winston: “Walter was so intrigued by meowma’s eyes as a kitten 👀😻” #catsofinstagram [source: https://ift.tt/2xcWysq ]

[sydney-pimp]

Pro tip: This is how you deal with a sub who approaches you.

This girl matched with me on Tinder, & even though our kinks aren’t on the same menu, I’m looking forward to dinner next weekend… think I’ve made a pretty cool friend.

[ihatemoe]

[greylilacs]

Lesson 1: don’t talk to the children during nap time. 

[elfiia]

If my depression was a person, I’d punch them in the face. BUT FOR NOW, I’ll settle for the next best thing, baby~

[a-friend-for-u]

Self Harm Alternatives!

These are some positive and healthy alternatives for when you are struggling with thoughts or urges to harm yourself i hope you choose to use a few of them!

hold an ice cube and squeeze it

play with makeup

paint or draw on your body where you wanna do it

brush your pets

call a loved one and talk for as long as you can

rip up napkins or paper

racquet ball

go for a run or walk

squish an empty water bottle

meditation

break some sticks

punch a pillow

listen to music

hang with positive friends

scribble all over a piece of paper as aggressive as you like

sit in the sun

write your feelings on a piece of paper then rip it up or burn them

allow yourself to cry as ugly/loud as you can

take a cold bath or shower

take a hot shower or bath

safely hit a punching bag

play an instrument

try and write a song with all these feelings

poetryyyy

watch your favorite movie

drink something soothing like hot chocolate or tea

count to 100

scream if it’s safe to

play with a sensory object (my personal best coping skill)

toss a rubber or foam kind of ball at a wall

hotlines

make some lists

re organize your room

distract yourself with vines or cute animal videos

splatter paint

browse through some positive tags on tumblr

get a new piercing or tattoo !

take a nap if you can

cuddle a comfort item or person

experiment with essential oils

put together some new outfits

go long boarding, skating, biking, dancing, etc

go bus hopping on your local transport if you have the chance

vent

do some arts and crafts

visit an animal shelter

volunteer

random acts of kindness

paint your nails !

[tiredonewithscars-deactivated20]

Again and again and again and again

Until i give up

[aatalante]

I just want someone’s hands on me

[daddys-kitten3469]

[nothingbutmeme]

[magickalcat]

Hahaha

[teddybearsandcuddles-blog]

One day…

[wnq-movies]

“When you are young, you believe there’ll be many people you’ll connect with. Later in life, you realize it only happens a few times.”

— Before Sunset (2004), Dir. Richard Linklater

[ecliss-a-deactivated20231124]

“Being alone is better than sitting next to a lover and feeling lonely.”

— Before Sunset (2004)

[freshmoviequotes]

Before Sunrise (1995)

[freshmoviequotes]

Before Sunrise (1995)