Krys's Warning

If anyone would like to come forward with information regarding an experience you've had with Krys, anon is ON and the submission box is open. Everyone you say will remain Anonymous for your safety if you want.

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Anonymous submission of Krys' new blogs

[kryswarning2020]

Everything goes quiet for months and then suddenly people are trying to claim that Kier owns my callout blog again? Lmao you people are whack. This blog is about more than just Kier; they’re only one of many people who’ve been hurt by Krys, hence why I left it up even after she left the fandom.

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akasupergirl & azombieme just for letting you guys know this is the same mum of the callout, she followed me like nothing happened before -- before has in forcing ship on my star wars muses last year & then eventually blocking me for pointing out her edit stealing after she followed another of my blog despite knowing it was me & made me a villain for telling her off aka made a public post with my URL & having folks avoiding me.

Thank you for the head’s up, it’s important for people to know these things so they can avoid her if she makes them uncomfortable.

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i think that kiers is just upset she's not the only hamilton on tumblr and that insecurity became too much. it's not someone else's job to hold your hand cause you have duplicate anxiety. the 'callout' post shows both in bad lights in different ways. kiers should take the blame she deserves as well.

I think you may have misunderstood some of the details of the callout. Krys never roleplayed as Hamilton, at least to my knowledge. Kier wasn’t upset that there was another Hamilton on Tumblr, they were upset because Krys broke an exclusivity agreement that was blog-wide saying Krys would not interact with other versions of Hamilton, and Kier would not interact with other versions of her character. That was also a relatively minor incident compared to a lot of what happened with Krys. 

The biggest concerns were her continuously name-dropping Kier while they were in the hospital, and also accusing them of faking a suicide attempt for attention, lying to muns about their relationships with other muns (claiming to be close friends with people she barely spoke with), refusing to tag any triggering subjects, using peoples’ graphics without permission, acting hostile towards mutuals who asked that their rules be followed and then blocking them, and also not informing partners of her age. Several people came forward to say they had no idea how old Krys was because she had presented herself as ‘over 30′ when in fact she is 41. 

On their own, one or two of these incidents would NOT be considered a big deal, but when you add them up together, that’s a lot of people Krys either hurt, made uncomfortable, or lied to. Those that supported the callout have also expressed relief that she left because she’d attempted to pressure them into shipping with her characters.

You’re entitled to your opinion, but whatever insecurity you think Kier might have had nothing to do with us (the mods) making this blog. Kier couldn’t care less about Krys anymore, and wants nothing to do with any more Tumblr squabbles. Other people chose to get involved because we were concerned. The historical fandom is small, and we should stand up for our own, that means calling out Ableism and gross harassment of much younger muns when we see it from people who should know better.

Thank you for your concern, if you have anything else to say the inbox is open.

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This just seems wrong. Putting the information out there is one thing but allowing anons to come in and say whatever they want is taking it a step too far. Makes it feel like it’s actually a very personal attack rather than just trying to stop people from interacting with this person. Maybe think twice about how you’re handling it, the information is out there now and taking it as far as this could only lead to something terrible happening. There is a real person behind that page.

There’s a real person behind quillborn also. And all of the other people Krys either hurt directly or in directly, either by using them for free stuff and smut RP, or by lying to them, lying about them to others, slandering people on her dashboard and more.

I don’t wish any harm upon Krys, and I promise you, NO ONE helping run this blog wants to see her hurt in any way. But actions have consequences. We are not the only people who felt uncomfortable or unsafe around Krys, or she wouldn’t have lost 30+ followers.

People who get emotionally abused tend to think they’re completely alone, or imagining things. It’s only when others speak up and show them they’ve had it happen too, it begins to reveal a pattern.

We’re leaving this blog up so that people know what Krys is capable of, in case she comes back. It’s important to protect more vulnerable members of our community. And to show the people that might try to hurt them that it’s unacceptable.

The askbox will likely be closed at some point once the dust fully settles, so hopefully that will ease your concern, Anon.

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More evidence of Krys flat out REFUSING to respect the boundaries of others: 

She blocked this person who asked that their rules be respected. The person this screenshot is from also has written directly into their rules that they do NOT want people who write things like rape interacting with them as it makes them uncomfortable, which Krys has in her rules saying she will explore (without tagging). 

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Krys,

KIER IS NOT INVOLVED IN THIS CALLOUT. We have stated this multiple times, and they have also stated this MULTIPLE TIMES. The reason there is a blog about this is because the individuals behind this blog do not want to be identified but we feel that your behavior needs to be addressed. It has been proven because multiple people, as you see, have came forward with complaints about you. You are an adult. You are capable of accepting that your behavior has been bad.  You have been name dropping Kier constantly when YOU KNEW they were in hospital. You have slandered their name when they were vulnerable and, look! You are still continuing to slander. YOU ARE 41 YEARS OLD SLANDERING A MENTALLY ILL, AUTISTIC 18 YEAR OLD. Does that make you feel good? Is all of this worth keeping your precious graphics that you refuse to take down even though you have been politely asked several times to take down?  This isn’t all fun and games to us. This isn’t just petty drama. This is the well being of a vulnerable person we are talking about. We are not here for little debates on force shipping and tagging. We are worried about the well being of other young people that you have been in contact with.  So, you name dropping Kier AGAIN has literally proved our point. Your friends who are wishing VIOLENCE on Kier are just as bad. 

Keep digging yourself into a deeper hole, Krys. None of this would have happened if you acted like an adult and a real friend - which includes not publicly accusing an 18 year old of faking their suicide attempt and continuously slandering them WITHOUT ANY SORT OF EVIDENCE.

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I remember ages ago I went to roleplay with her and because I only had female muses she just wasn't interested and blatantly ignored me

Hi there anon! You are definitely not the only person who has had a similar experience when wanting to write with her, and we’re sorry that you felt ignored! Rest assured that you and your female muses are very much wanted and valid and we hope you’ve found some good partners now!

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I’m seeing a lot of things on this call out that makes me feel uneasy, and not in the way I think it was intended to. I’m seeing a lot of ageist stuff on here, smut shaming. To be honest even the gifted graphics that are now being called ‘stolen’ irks me considering the chat transcripts mention the person they were given to had offered to pay for them initially. I get that this was a very contentious relationship between both parties - but I don’t know...I feel like I’m missing something here.

Hey there!  We absolutely respect your opinion regarding this matter, but we want to assure you that we are not in any way ageist or smut shaming. The people behind this blog have written (and been friends with) both older muns and write nsfw content themselves. The issue isn’t her age or the content that she decides to write in terms of nsfw content. The issue is publicly harassing a mentally-ill autistic teenager whilst that teenager was in the hospital due to a s/uicide attempt and unable to even defend themselves, coupled with using graphics after being requested by the artist to remove them.  This, alongside with many people coming forward and stating that she would fetishise LGBTQ+ men, would push ships, not tag any of her triggers but state that she would be writing content such as rape, plotted pseudo-incest behind her partner’s backs and engaged in toxic behaviour is the problem. Because no matter how you put it, that is not okay.  The graphics may have originally been gifted, yes, but any right to their use still remains with the artist as the fact of the matter is they were never purchased. Since the person using them went on to harass the artist for no reason, they have no right to be using that artist’s work and giving absolutely no credit for it, by the way. 

I understand that you may not see this situation as damaging, but to the people involved, it very much was. The mods have nothing against older muns or those who write smut ( to do so would be hypocritical ). We do have something against the mistreatment of others when you’re old enough to know better, and we hold anyone else to the same standards of decency. 

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Krys vc: I don’t write smut that often! **uses a naked woman in stockings holding a fan as her header** Really I don’t! I’m innocent! **Tries to force ships on teenagers** I would never!! **only interacts with male characters if they’re het or bi** I have zero interest in nsfw content why don’t you believe me??

Hi anon!  Despite whet her rules state, we have been informed by multiple of her writing partners that she does, in fact, write nsfw content and engages in sunday nsfw memes often. It is definitely true that replacing her stolen graphic header with a more provocative one does her no favours in convincing others of her motives, and is rather inappropriate when there are minors following and engaging with her. 

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I don't see the issue of someone not tagging posts if they explicitly state in their rules that they will not be tagging things? It up to those who are following to accept that?

Hi, thanks for the ask! Not tagging things is an issue for several reasons, actually, which I’ll happily list below.

1. It breaks basic RP etiquette, which is, at minimum, tag triggers even if you don’t tag anything else. If she doesn’t want to tag NSFW that’s not great but it’s whatever. Not tagging anything ever, though, is a problem because...

2. She explicitly states in the rules that her blog will cover themes such as rape, suicide, and more. Many people find these topics extremely triggering. Rape in particular is considered a rather taboo subject in the RPC, and some people would take issue with the fact that she writes it at all. Bare minimum, she should tag it so people don’t accidentally stumble upon it.

3. It’s completely possible for someone to see her posts without actually following her. If you don’t set your Tumblr to stop this, your blog can recommend other blogs to you that are ‘in your orbit’ as well as other peoples posts if they share similar themes or key words that you do. If someone, as an example, looked up a lot of things relating to Marie Antoinette, Tumblr might suggest her blog to them randomly because of how the algorithm of the site works. 

4. She isn’t clear on whether she will or won’t tag triggers. She says she ‘probably’ won’t, which is extremely vague. Probably won’t could mean not tagging minor things like negativity or smut, not more major or potentially harmful topics.

And finally 

5. She has written with muns as young as 18 and possibly younger before, people who may be new to the fandom/tumblr rpc world and not know exactly how it operates. They may be unfamiliar with what a trigger is or just not aware of the existence of rules pages, which I certainly wasn’t when I started out, and I was older than that. The bottom line is, at Krys’ age, it’s just basic decency for her to tag at minimum things like sexual assault, becasue the number of neurodivergent people in the community is very high and always has been. It’s just a common courtesy, like not reblogging memes from blogs and spamming their notifications. 

My biggest issue isn’t what she writes, Anon, but her basic lack of respect or caution for anyone else but herself. It’s not only dangerous if the wrong person stumbles upon it, it’s selfish to not have any form of system in place to protect partners or visitors to your blog from seeing content that could be mentally detrimential to them, especially since the average Tumblr RP’er tends to be in their late teens to mid twenties. She should know better, it’s not cool to be so flippant about others’ comfort when it’s called the roleplaying community for a reason.

I hope that clears things up for you. The other Mods on here might feel differently from me but that’s how I feel.

[kryswarning2020]

Little confused and just need some clarification. You say the victim has nothing to do with the making of this call out and yet there is a trove of private message proof that clearly couldn’t have been given to anyone else without permission to share. Or did the poster set this up without the victims consent?

Hi there, anon. Thank you for approaching us!  Though the victim themselves wasn’t an active part of the callout or the posting/writing of the document, they did give their consent to be named and for those specific screencaps to be shared as they had already been shared within their close friends. Kier has asked to be left out of the actual callout/warning process and wants nothing to do with the drama or the person involved in the callout itself going forward as Kier has expressed an explicit desire to move on and heal. Besides permission to use their name and talk about their experiences, they requested not to be involved beyond that and that is something we have very much respected <3

[kryswarning2020]

not to age shame but it is a little weird she follows minors and writes those things. it’s a bit inappropriate, in my opinion - especially if she isn’t tagging anything.

Hi there!

Yes, we agree that these subjects intended for mature audiences should always be appropriately tagged, but especially so if the blog in question also interacts with a younger audience. In their rules, it states that they will not tag triggering or darker content, as they themselves have no triggers of their own, despite knowing how harmful it can be to people.

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The person this blog is about still has the graphics up on their blog. She never told me how old she was either, I am disgusted I ever considered us friends.

thanks for sending this in anon! yep, she still does even though she has been asked multiple times to stop. it goes to show her true character. i am sorry you’ve had such an experience with her. her behavior is abhorrent which is why we wanted to make people aware. 

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A WARNING TO THE RPC REGARDING KRYS ( @VIVELAREVOLUTIONMONAMI / WEARENOTTHESAMEASYESTERDAY )

WARNINGS FOR : SUICIDE MENTIONS, MANIPULATION, BULLYING, GASLIGHTING, INCEST MENTIONS, ABLEISM, ABUSE, DECEIT AND POSSESSIVENESS. 

This is a post designed to warn the roleplay community of the user known as Krys or Krystal, found under the URLs vivelarevolutionmonami and wearenotthesameasyesterday. She is primarily active within the historical community, but also has muses involved in DC, Star Wars and other main franchises and RPCs. This callout is written by multiple people, all of whom have been negatively impacted by Krys’ behaviour and are concerned at the patterns they have noticed regarding her treatment of not only her writing partners, but of the mentally ill members of this community and people who are neurodivergent. ( Please like / reblog this post so we know who it has reached and who has seen it. )

Originally, the people involved in this post were going to let sleeping dogs lie and were not going to speak up on the mistreatment they had received, but this changed a few days ago when Krys publicly humiliated a mentally-ill teenager, claimed that their recent attempt had been faked and tried to make other people believe them when they posted no proof. Enough is enough, Krys, and you will not be allowed to mistreat and harm anybody else in this community again. 

This callout does name Kier as a victim by name, but we would like to assert that Kier has had no direct involvement with the creation of this callout as they are still recovering and wish to be left out of this. We merely sought permission to use their name as Krys publicly namedropped them two days ago. THAT BEING SAID, DO NOT USE THIS WARNING AS AN EXCUSE TO SEND HATE TO ANYONE. Hate is never tolerated. This is solely to prevent people from being hurt, and we will not be forced to remain silent any longer. 

HERE IS A LINK TO THE FULL CALLOUT.

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@vivelarevolutionmonami / @wearenotthesameasyesterday

you can’t ignore us forever. you have a LOT of explain to do, krys. 

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I don’t want to sound like an asshole, but did anyone else get the feeling that Krys’ Marie Antoinette was just some sort of Mary Sue self-insert so a forty year old could live out her creepy fantasies of fucking younger men? Her rules say she doesn’t write smut that often which sounds like BS tbh.

hi, anon, thank you for bringing this to our attention, you are absolutely correct! there definitely seems to be something nefarious about it all. her rules is quite an interesting topic. we do know she definitely likes nsfw stuff considering she frequently sends her writing partners sinday memes.  

her rules state she is “well over 30″, which to me is slightly fishy considering she is 41. while she has been open about her age in past one-off posts, some partners have told us they were uncomfortable that she wasn’t explicit enough with her age in her rules, especially when pursuing nsfw topics with muns who are just 18 (of age, but are still quite young) thank you for bringing up this topic, anon. if you have anything else to add to this discussion, we would be happy to hear from you. edit: to clarify, krys sometimes wouldn’t tell her young partners her age, and they found out through munday posts.

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i had a very brief experience with krys. i felt really pressured into shipping w/ her. i felt like she couldn't take no for an answer. that is a part of the reason i softblocked her - another reason is bc she never tagged /anything/. i thought it was just me being picky so i am relieved to find i am not the only person who had this issue.

hello anon! thank you for sending this in. i am so sorry you had this experience with krys. it is certainly not just you being picky. this seems to be a common trend with her when i comes to both of your complaints.