shouta’s boywife and female husband

all/any pronouns

[kurogiris-husband]

f/o list, shortened tumblr version (link)

full f/o list (link)

byf (link)

hello!! im August/Clavell, n this is my selfship sideblog. im an aspec transmasc 20 year old prodarkshipper whos prolly a fictophilie, with some of my main f/os being Shota Aizawa (🐈‍⬛💤), Hizashi Yamada (🔊🐈‍⬛), Nemuri Kayama 💤🍔) Oboro Shirakumo (☁️🦔) and Kurogiri (🌫️🌅), all of which are from MHA!!! im a sharer/hypersharer, so i don’t mind doubles interacting with me, i even encourage it!!

i made this blog partially out of impulse, but also cause i wanted to sort through my selfship stuff easier, without tumblr saying my selfship tag that i regularly use doesnt exist when i search it on my blog. with that, my main is @xdrakesboyfriend n i have a selfship blog dedicated to just Hizashi Yamada (@hizashis-bf)

while im a gachikoi (link), i do view romantic n queerplatonic doubles (even non sharing ones) as polyamorous metamours (link), so i dont mind them interacting like i said. same thing applies to my hizashi selfship blog

general ao3 account

darkship/dark content ao3

selfship ship names and emojis spreedsheet

main trigger warnings for my selfships

non sharing doubles of my f/os i suggest not interacting for ur own sake, especially if youre a non sharing yume of any of my mha f/os, due to me currently posting about them the most

[kurogiris-husband]

my “extras” tag makes me feel like bakugou….. “heres my f/o n this random faggot that doesnt deserve a tag”

[guerrillatactics]

“You and your brother are so close!”

Thanks. I’ve been inside him.

[yet-another-blorbo-poll-blog]

If your blorbo were to text someone (if they could do that), what type of emojis* would they use?

Emoticons (like :), :D, :(, :3)

Emoticons (like O-O, ^-^, ಠ_ಠ, T^T)

Regular emojis

Reaction images/gifs

Some different form of emojis that isn’t mentioned above

Multiple of the above

All of the above

They wouldn’t use any type of emojis at all

Voting ended onJun 28

*I know there’s not only emojis on this list but I couldn’t find a better word for this T^T

[have-an-fo-who]

Do you have an F/O who you want to be non-sharing with but the majority of fan content made of them is mostly by other people who selfship with them/are attracted to them/etc?

I do

I do not

Voting ended onJul 1

[d0ggycomplex]

big brother dick can n will save u btw

[have-an-fo-who]

“is your f/o extremely underdeveloped lore-wise and lacks fanon/canon content?” Sorry if it’s been done too much, thank you in advance!!

Do you have an F/O who is extremely underdeveloped lore-wise and lacks fanon/canon content?

I do

I do not

Voting ended onJun 27

[have-an-fo-who]

Do u have an f/o who looks human but actually is not?

Do you have an F/O who looks human but is actually not?

I do

I do not

Voting ended onJun 27

[have-an-fo-who]

do you have an f/o from roblox

if so, who are they

Do you have an F/O who is from Roblox

I do

I do not

Voting ended onJun 27

[have-an-fo-who]

do you have a hypnotist F/o

Do you have an F/O who is a hypnotist?

I do

I do not

Voting ended onJun 28

[kurogiris-husband]

save for my selfship w arcanine (whos a pet f/o), some of my more recent pokemon f/os, such as emboar, froslass, hisuian decidueye n swampert (all pf which im still debating on whether or not theyre actually f/os) tend to lean more towards being queerplatonic, sensual, aesthetic or some sort of mix of those three.

[wik-ships]

touch starved f/o who never initiates. they're always watching your hands when you're nearby, silently wondering if you'll touch them. they act like it's no big deal when you finally do, but the quiet sigh they let out betrays how much they need it.

touch starved f/o who wilts when you forget to give them a kiss in the morning, never one to ask, but the second you remember they're grinning giddily as you pepper their face with kisses.

touch starved f/o who gets bold when it's just the two of you, building up the courage to rest a hand on your hip, your arm, your thigh. it's never pushy, always gentle, just a quiet reminder that you're real beside them.

dividers by suupersonic and @whor3ing!!

[selfshipping-madness]

F/O who gorges themselves into a food coma. Just passed out on the couch, their swollen belly going up and down as they breath. Bonus points if they have a tummy ache 💖🎀

[kurogiris-husband]

6, 16, 23, for the ask game

6. Do you prefer to shower or bathe with f/o?:

it depends on the f/o, some f/os such as falin, toshiro, shouta, sanji, nemuri, kin’emon n zoro i would much rather take a bath with, while other f/os such as hizashi, oboro, luffy, crocodile, august, x drake n kurogiri i would much rather shower with. this mainly comes down to rather or i not i think theyre bath ppl or shower ppl, n if i think it be more convenient to shower w them than take a bath with them or vice versa

16. What is your f/o’s preferred love language? (physical touch, quality time, acts of service etc)

i think shouta, hizashi, nemuri, oboro n luffy would love quality time n physical touch to different extents n for different reasons. nemuri, hizashi n shouta cause of oboro’s death, n them wanting to spend as much time as they can w me out of worry, as well as them enjoying being physically close to me for pretty much the same reason.

luffy, meanwhile, loves quality time due to how rocky n inconsistent his childhood is, never really having a consistent caregiver until dadan n the bandits, n than having the strawhats split up by kuma. he likes knowing that im physically there, n that im not leaving, which is a small part of the reason why he also likes physical touch too, tho hes more causal about it tbh

23. In a play fight, who is winning? You or f/o?

f/os like nemuri, zoro, sanji, luffy, crocodile n fukaboshi are definitely winning, tho i do think fukaboshi would be more gentle about play fighting than the others, mainly due to his strength n size, n possibly due to him not knowing what it is? tho, i wouldnt be surprised if mermaids had their own version of play fighting. f/os like zeff n kin’emon wouldnt entertain my play fighting but would win regardless n f/os like fuyumi would likely lose, even if they were giving it their all, tho fuyumi also grew up w 2 older brothers, so would likely put up a good fight… but also touya is well… that n from what i remember didnt seem to have much of an interest w bonding w fuyumi

[philistiniphagottini]

Self-ship Ask Game

Couldn't find a self-ship reblog game I liked so I came up with a bunch of random questions. Feel free to reblog if you want people to ask these questions about your self ships ^^ Have fun!

Send an f/o and a number (s) into my inbox.

What are your pet names/nicknames for each other?

What song(s) represent you and f/o?

Who cooks more for the other? You or f/o?

Who catches the bugs in the house and who is climbing the other like a tree to get away from said bug?

Who steals the other's clothes and wears them around the house/for bed?

Do you prefer to shower or bathe with f/o? 

Who fell first and who fell harder? Both? You or f/o?

What are the tropes/tags for you and f/o? (Think AO3 tags)

Who was the first to confess? You or f/o?

Who is the more affectionate one in the relationship? You or f/o?

Do you have any pets together?

Between you and f/o, who talks more and who listens intently? 

What is a gift your f/o has given you?

How does your f/o take care of you when you are sick?

Night out or night in with f/o?

What is your f/o’s preferred love language? (physical touch, quality time, acts of service etc)

Who represents the sun and who represents the moon in your relationship? Elaborate, if you like. 

It’s movie night! What are you and f/o watching?

Who is an early riser and who likes to sleep in? You or f/o?

Who gets colder easier and who warms the other up?

How does your f/o cheer you up when you’re feeling down?

What are your favourite hobbies to do together with f/o?

In a play fight, who is winning? You or f/o?

Pick a Pokémon to represent you and your f/o :3

Do you and f/o participate in Valentine’s Day?

What is your favourite physical feature of your f/o? What’s their favourite for you?

Is your f/o an introvert or extrovert? What about you?

Who is the mischief maker? Are you both? Neither? Is one trying to dissuade the other? Encouraging?

Who is more protective of the other? You or f/o? Equal?

Who gets jealous easier? You or f/o?

How does f/o kiss you? 

How does f/o hug you?

If you’re afab, how does f/o handle your period? What do they do for you?

Gush about your ship lore! Gush about f/o! Gush about s/i! It’s a free pass :)

Dividers by @cafekitsune

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

Hyposharing

A term for yumeshippers who are sharing mainly because they are apathetic towards or unbothered by doubles. Examples include:

Being non-monogamous/not easily jealous

Being a casual yumeshipper/yumeshipping purely for fun or just doesn’t take their yumeship as seriously as others do

Feeling like their version of their f/o is only theirs (maybe due to having a lot of headcannons and thus being very different from canon), with other person's versions of that character being their own (Starsharing)

Edit: The colours I used for this flag is from the interacting nonsharer flag (LINK) which is basically HypoSharing but for nonsharers

[gaysnek]

I made a polyamorous ficto/yume/selfshipper flag! I don't know if one already exists, but having more can't hurt, right? lol

Anyways, feel free to use!

I'm not going to pretend I chose the colors with meanings behind them, I just went with shades of red and pink because its associated with love and passion. That's about it. (Also took the heart and infinity symbol from that one polyamorous flag)