Chillin in Defence Mode

20+ x chubby reader writer. Can be found on A03 under PhilistiniPhagotinni. SFW&NSFW, proceed with caution. No requests. Minors DO NOT interact, you will be blocked. Please do not copy, translate or repost any of my works.

[philistiniphagottini]

My Sand Box; My Rules

Call me Nagi. 20+ x chubby reader writer. Multi-fandom blog. Self shipper, mostly non-sharing/selective sharing yume. 18+ blog. F/O List. Minors please do not interact with me or any of my works, you will be blocked.

Please do not repost, copy, translate or feed my writing to an AI. You DO NOT have my permission.

Character x chubby readers only

Askbox is open.

I do NOT take requests.

Positive feedback is welcome and encouraged. No constructive criticism please. Writing is a fun hobby for me and I will improve at my own pace. Even if it is a grammatical error I will most likely find it on re-reads. Please respect this boundary.

Comments and reblogs would be greatly appreciated. It keeps me going :)

Please block the smut and nsft tag if you do not want to see anything related to those topics.

Link to my second blog thebystiallubellion

Link to F/O List here

Link to my Masterlist can be found here

Link to my AO3 is here

Dividers used by cafekitsune

[dream--mausoleum]

Mighyena, use swagger!

[m000sey]

Meganium 🌱💗

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

Fanfic writers, reblog if you’re okay with people sharing the links to your fics to their friends and/or for fic rec posts without having to ask for your permission first

(I saw a debate about whether or not it was okay for people to share fic links around without asking the authors first, since some authors may not be comfortable with the links to their fics being shared around on twitter or tumblr. so I thought this post could be a blanket permission for authors who were okay with the links to their fics being shared around!)

[curator-on-ao3]

Are you kidding me? (Rhetorical.)

For goodness sake, rec the fics. Rec them on Twitter, Tumblr, Facebook, Bluesky, Instagram, Snapchat, Discord, or the reanimated corpse of MySpace. Rec them on Pinterest. Rec them by semaphore, smoke signal, or Morse code. Rec them via a page ripped out of a college-ruled notebook and folded into a tiny triangle and flicked across a classroom while the teacher is looking in the other direction. Heck, rec them on Slack, Teams, email, text, postal mail, or a message scratched with a long stick into snow, sand, or dirt. Just rec the fics.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

people are confused “unsolicited criticism in fanfics is rude” with “fanfics are above criticism.” no one says fanfics are above criticism. what we’re saying is that, unless an author specifically asks for feedback and criticism, unsolicited criticism is rude, because unlike anything else that you pay to consume and therefore can rightfully be criticized, fanfics are free and they are someone’s hobby. authors are kind enough to share what they write as their hobbies with you for free. you don’t have to like these fics. you can click away from a fic you don’t like at any point you want. but—again, unless specifically and directly asked by an author—it’s rude to tell someone, who is kind enough to allow you free access to their house, their art, that their fics should have been xyz.

so no, fanfics are not above criticism. just like how a gift someone gives you is not above criticism.

but giving fanfics unsolicited criticism is rude. just like how it’s rude to tell someone that you don’t like the gift they gives you for free, out of kindness.

[fangswbenefits]

I don’t know who needs to hear this but you absolutely have to cater your fandom experience.

If something bothers you, you are free to disengage.

You don’t have to post elaborate think pieces to justify why something isn’t your cup of tea. It’s fine. Not everything needs to be a discussion unless you want it that way.

We live in a day and age where people online believe they have to justify why they block someone, not engage in a way that others push on them, why they don’t want to spend their free time having fun instead of engaging in drama, etc…

You absolutely do not need to do this.

[the-bar-sinister]

Sleeping on top of your F/O's chest while they pet your hair.

[takaholic]

too many videogames to play. too much fanfic to write. too many posts to look at. i take a nap.

[willgrahamscock]

I have to make mistakes in order to learn & grow

[nightlight-selfships]

Your f/o wouldn't think you're dumb / stupid, they wouldn't insult your intelligence or way of thinking. They accept it just they way it is, and they don't want you to ever think you're less than for anything of the sort.

[navigatorsnorth]

Phenomenal spare wheel cover I walked past the other day

[vergils-beloved]

SELFSHIPPERS PLEASE REBLOG THIS POST WITH YOUR FAVORITE GIF OR PICTURE OR CLIP OF YOUR F/O!! OR YOUR FAVORITE PIECE OF MERCH WHETHER YOU OWN IT OR NOT!! ANY FAVORITES!!

i want to see all of your beloveds!!!

[philistiniphagottini]

I have loved this picture of mortenax blade for a long, long while

[nanamisbakery]

Shout out to self shippers that don’t get many notes/followers. Your f/o loves you for you, not your social media presence!

[philistiniphagottini]

A big thank you to @negativesd09 for taking my commission and drawing these two together. They were kind and so very good to work with, thank you for the experience! I adore how these sketches turned out they drew Dan Feng and Raye so good! They look like they are so in love and it makes me giddy every time I look at it >//<

[sealovinq]

a reminder that it's okay not to have intricate lore with your f/o. you don't have to figure out how you first met, how you became friends, how your relationship with them grew, how you knew that you'd stick together forever. it's okay to immediately jump to the part of your story when you are already together without the need for a back story. it's okay to draw yourselves together even if you haven't explored how you would even get there in the first place. it's okay to just exist with them without having to give justification as to how you came to be together. your f/o is already happy to simply exist with you.

[rewuyuu]

[nightlight-selfships]

Your f/o loves you. Yes, even if you're insecure, even though you're not perfect, they love you for you, because you're you. Not despite this trait, or despite this part of you. They adore you because you are you.