I saw they got your old blog termed. Are you like afraid of them or something?
okay because you guys wont stop BLOWING UP MY FUCKING INBOX ABOUT THIS, I'm going to say this for the final fucking time.
My old blog got terminated. Unfortunately most of my posts on choco are gone. So if anybody has an archive or reblogs of my old posts, please dm me so I can back them up to my google drive.
Here are the google docs I have already made on them. Unfortunately, since all blogs linked are now gone, best I have are screenshots.
This google doc is in response to the post infinite-survivor-mirmo/infinite-proship-choco made here: https://www.tumblr.com/infinite-survivo
Introduction Hello everyone. My name is GraveKandy. You can just refer to me as Morgan for the sake of simplicity. I’ve recently been invol
Choco has been a problem within our community for eight months. I, and many others have come forward about them only to be met with stalking, harassment, and threats of doxing.
They spread false accusations of sexual harassment, racism, ableism and grooming. They called a dear friend of mine a sexual predator for making some petty fanart of their comfort character as a meme reference. Did I think it was in bad taste? Yes. I made it very clear to them that I didn't like it. But I didn't end the friendship over it because it was petty bullshit, and it was frankly the worst thing they've done in comparison to everything choco has pulled.
They threatened to call ICE on the SAME dear friend of mine in, who is a person of color, in retaliation, thinking they were well within their right to. When I called them out for it, saying it was disgusting to directly support a fascist regime like that in response to online drama, they then tried to say I had no place to comment on their ICE threat since I was a white American.
Choco is a Spaniard.
I have been very clear from day one that I KNOW I have white privilege. I know that I am not as much of a target as my POC brothers and sisters in America. I have never experienced racism. I have never experienced what they experienced and I never claimed to. I try to use my voice to uplift theirs, and stand beside them in the face of tyranny.
I am however, still a target since I am a queer, transmasculine AFAB living under Trump's regime. My rights are also being threatened. My reproductive rights are being signed away in office as we speak. My right to be who I am, to marry the girl I love, is in jeopardy. And everyone's right to speak out against the regime is being threatened. People are being murdered in the streets for speaking out against ICE. Look up Alex Pretti.
Everyone is in danger in america. Nobody can afford food. Nobody can afford rent. Nobody can afford medical care. Not unless they are wealthy, which believe me, I am not.
I said Choco had no right to threaten the very real fascist uprising against us. I called them out for their disgusting behavior, and I rightfully called them privileged for it. They are living in Spain. A country with free healthcare, and last I checked, not living under fascist takeover.
Choco doesn't have to work. They don't have to provide for themselves. They are disabled, I know. And I am genuinely glad they have somebody to care for them. But the fact they even have a loving mother who can care for them full-time is in itself a privilege.
I have to work to afford my medication. I have to choose between paying for my phone bill, and paying for my meds. I'm currently off my meds because I had to wait for my paycheck to come in. I had to ask my own girlfriend for a small boost because I wouldn't be able to get it in time. I live with my grandparents full time, which is in itself a privilege. One I am greatful for. But it's only out of necessity. I didn't choose this. They don't pay for anything other than the roof over my head and food on the table because they can't afford to. I'm even preparing to start paying rent, despite me not having the money for it, which is money I would have to take out of my funds for my medicine and phone bill, just so we can keep the lights on. (They did not ask this of me, I'm doing this because they are elderly and cannot work.)
Even with the best health insurance money can buy in America, I still have to fight to get my healthcare covered, because insurance companies in america REFUSE to cover treatment unless they're strong armed into it by the law. I can't afford to go to the doctor. When I fell down the stairs a couple weeks ago, my first thought wasn't "I should get to a doctor," my first thought was "I hope to god my foot isn't broken because I can't afford to seek treatment"
I was beyond lucky it was only a broken toe.
So. Am I afraid of Choco? No. I'm not. I'm tired of arguing with a brick wall.
I have more important things to worry about than what horse shit some miserable little prick is spouting online. My grandfather is getting heart surgery tomorrow. I've been spending most of my time taking care of my grandmother, and making plans in case something goes wrong. I've been spending time with her, making dinner, and helping with house stuff so her plate is a little less full.
I've also been trying to focus on my new job as a small town journalist. I love it. It's a perfect fit for me, and it's a better thing to focus on than this shit.
This is the last I'm commenting on this. This is my stance. This is always going to be my stance. I'm done answering asks about Choco because frankly, if I keep commenting on them, something is going to happen to me medically due to the inconceivable rage I feel towards them every time they are brought up.
This is the last fucking time I'm bringing them up on this new blog. So do me a favor and leave me alone about it. I never wanted to make this fucking post, but you assholes strong-armed me into making it.
we do not care for drama, but this needs to be said, regardless of any hate we might receive.
we do not support infinite-survivor-mirmo/choco. if you support them or interact with them positively, you are not welcome on this blog.
we're saying this because we've been told that a few people who interact with us also interact with choco. we are grateful for the interaction, of course, but we do not want to be around anyone who supports that heinous, festering pile of worthless rot.
since this is a side-blog, we struggle to completely block people unless we use tumblr via a search-engine. we previously did not put in the effort to block those who support choco, but we will now be doing so. reach out in asks if you don't want to be associated with choco and don't want to be blocked.
jesus fucking christ. less than 24 hours. 11 hours i believe. i do not know why we trust choco and their shitty "apologies" and them saying they will "do better". they will never change. ever.
choco has doxxed
choco has tried to kill
choco has tried to cause seizures
choco has harassed
choco has accused people of being sexual predators wih no proof
choco has told a queer poc to get trafficked
choco has threatened to call ICE on the same queer poc
choco has accused people of being nazis
choco has claimed a neglect victim was not neglected with no proof at all
choco is starting a cult
choco values a fiction character over real life people
choco is not a good person. nothing they can do will ever make up for this. choco, go fuck urself. everybody is furious with u. nothing is going to change that. nothing will change what u have done and what u continue to do.
guys i’m so sorry to say this but exercising and indulging in hobbies rather than scrolling on your phone for 200 hours actually does improve your mood and overall mental health, this has deeply upset me more than anyone
still living with my parents as an adult is just like. i'm grateful to not have to pay for groceries. i have to get out of here. i'm grateful to have a roof over my head and not have to pay rent. i have to get out of here. i'm grateful to not have to worry about sending out endless job applications that all lead to nowhere. i have to get out of here. i'm grateful i'm grateful i'm so fucking grateful. i have to get out of here
just a quick (not) little reminder for some of y'all:
proship is being ANTI-HARASSMENT and ANTI-CENSORSHIP, it is NOT an actual shipping style nor label, it's simply a stance (which is also just being a decent being but I guess some of you guys like cleaning the windshield when that shit gets splattered on)
comship is shipping COMPLICATED ships such as human x nonhuman, toxic yuri and yaoi, rarepairs, crossovers, etc. this IS a shipping style and is completely valid!
darkship is shipping taboo concepts/ships such as minor x adult, incest, abuser x victim, etc. this IS a shipping style and is completely valid!
note: any and all of these can be mixed in with each other. ex: a com and darkshipper, a pro and darkshipper, and com a proshipper, etc. BUT they do not need to be as some comshippers (and I think even darkshippers, sometimes) are not proship.
a boundary is NOT "do not do X", it is "if you do X, I will do Y". boundaries also mean not interacting with what you are uncomfortable with for your own health and well-being. boundaries go both ways. DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU DONT LIKE IT. DONT LIKE, DONT INTERACT.
that is all :)
(if u want, there are images with the definition of proship, comship, & darkship under cut !! don't spread misinformation !!) (credits to the OP of these btw)
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