Spoiled Black Woman

Head, Heals, and Standards High Hypergamous - The Audacity!

[la-grande-dame]

There are certain men who, just does it for me. One ain't shit and I probably should cut all ties with him and the other is my zaddy zaddy.

I met Zaddy in a DC mega club in the Early 2000's. I was fresh out of undergrad and he brought drinks for my entire crew, pulled one of my homegirls to the side and told her "I want her (me), what's her name". And we've been thick as thieves ever since. He was the first to buy me my first designer bag, first to fly me out of state. He taught me a lot. Especially about submission 🤣

Anyway I'm just getting in from one of our random encounters. When I'm with him It always feels at home. We made plans. Fingers crossed

[bbltheque]

[la-grande-dame]

So I'm in the DR, why my driver thought he was going to get me to trick on him?!?

Um... sir... I'mma hoe too, like... No. But you cute though so let's keep having a great time and take my ass back to my Airbnb 🤣🤣

I see why the guys come out here though. I ain't even mad 😅🤣

[prettiestluxury]

Rest In Peace Pasha🕊

one of my favorite video vixens!

[la-grande-dame]

🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

[dripculture]

[la-grande-dame]

...🥱🥱🥱 bored

[la-grande-dame]

My love for the ocean is eternal. Manifesting my Caribbean home ✨✨

[la-grande-dame]

I am his peace and his headache.

The sickness and the cure. 💅🏽👑

[la-grande-dame]

Hi, do you only use your google voice when interacting with men ?

Hey babes!! Depends on how we meet. Most of the gentlemen I know, has my real # because I know them in real life lol.

When I was on dating and sugaring sites, those guys only got my Google #. Main started with my Google number, but then he ended up getting my personal # and real name after months of dating 😆.

I'd advise that you only use a Google number to talk to these guys fr. Personal #s are reserved for those who've proved themselves worthy.

[nsaint1]

Focused & Driven

Remember why you started and keep going. Be that girl who is focused, driven, goal oriented, and a hard worker ✨

[lovemeinluxuryslap]

[la-grande-dame]

Rd 2 surgery booked. Complements of me, myself, and Main 🤣.

I have sooo much going on, this new job, work, throwing my sister's baby shower, and planning my business' first event. I'm exhausted every day. But I will say this, when you ask the universe (in sincerity) to fulfill all of your hopes and desires, you will be amazed at the people and things that will be sent to you specifically to help push you forward. You gotta do the work though.

When all of this is said and done, my waist will be smaller and 🍑 fatter, compliments of the Dominican Republic 🤣

1st round was in Miami. Won't go back there until it's time for boobs and teeth. Outside of that, only reason I'm in Miami is for a layover. Turks and Caicos me please!!

Oh, and Negril in early May w/ this Doc I used to work with. Got a Little spicy when we were away for a conference. But I had to stop cause I was married at the time. But I'm not married now... It's on! He ain't safe 🤣🤣

Seriously, you ever work with someone who was just soooo fine? smh. Tall, blessed with dark chocolate melinated skin, Philly jawn 🤤 with the beard ugh. I'm so happy we don't work together anymore. Now imma sit on it and spin!!

👑👑

[la-grande-dame]

Ex-husband's barber stopped by with a little gift 😝

Too the moon I go!! 🌬️ 🌿🍃

[la-grande-dame]

If they circle the block, double charge they a$$.

Most likely they are coming back around because they've exhausted all other options (ie. Wasted somebody's daughters time) and you're up next.

This Older guy who I met via an online dating app, texted me out of nowhere for New Years. So I asked him point blank what was he looking for? Ignore whatever his answer is because it's something he made up to win you over.

And that's that. He'll most likely will still try and waste my time, but he won't get anything without an offering.

[diamondthedime-deactivated20250]

Now that’s game 🏀 the girls don’t know how to direct the conversation to their benefit anymore

[la-grande-dame]

⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

[la-grande-dame]

Important questions that need answers

[la-grande-dame]

Y'all gotta stop being impressed by basic shit. Seriously.

Settle down my darlings.

[podencos]

I keep hitting it off well w these beautiful, intelligent women that have this particular air of an innate, organic coolness abt them that you just don’t find in people v often lately and last night my friend said “of course you do, because what you see in them is what they see in you too” and I obviously found that sweet as honey but, like… every single one of these women are in their 30s, which I am not, and I honestly think a lot of it relates exclusively to that lol. They just seem so unencumbered, shrouded less by amorphous anxieties and more grounded in the relationships they have w themselves. I’m so deeply enthralled by how they carry themselves without even realizing. It’s intoxicating, this bouquet of being sure of oneself, divorced from the pageantry of self-imposed expectations. Is there anything sexier than being in your thirties…