Honestly, I don’t really act like the damsel in distress / poor student with men. I look good everytime, I enjoy life, I have a standard (and I play more in creating « imaginary » competition which, depending on the type of man you have in front of you, can be an ex, other dates), I communicate my standards accordingly. I don’t demand, I don’t scream, it is readible both internally and externally. Give them a need to fulfill though, if you scrolI through my archive, there is a post on that as well. Give them a month to prove themselves and if that standard is not up to par, I just say we might be incompatible and have different wants and pull back.
I made a post on this earlier but social media is fake and all the girls that are screaming the loudest they would never do xyz are the exact same ones doing xyz. Live for yourself and go only as far as that you are comfortable with after when you are by yourself and replaying it in your head. Preferably, before you decide him, you rule out what you absolutely don’t want to happen and then that is your « ultimate no ». As a woman, naturally, we have hormones too and get horny, so don’t punish yourself for experiencing pleasure.
Ultimately, Eurosummer has started and we are acting accordingly. You know that feeling when you are on vacation / in another country and you just don’t give af? That’s the feeling we are bringing home.
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