The Deceptively Pleasant House of Ladygrl

just a girl.

[surqrised]

Sometimes you just need someone to tell you you’re not as terrible as you think you are.

Unknown

(via surqrised)

True dat.

[ladygrl]

That video going viral of the couple laughing and talking about how they purposefully made a woman's ride on a shuttle bus super uncomfortable simply Bc she chose to stay where she was and sat quietly the whole Time as they shoved her and took her photo really pisses me off. They stress how it was just a quick shuttle from the rental car place to the airport but yet they couldn't fathom not being hip to hip and decided that the gall of a woman denying their childish demands should have the consequence of public humiliation. Fuck those asshole. That's some bullshit. Grow the fuck up, jerks. I hope no one treats you or anyone you know the way you've treated, and continue to treat, her 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻

[bette-davis-deactivated20200803]

#mood.

[ladygrl]

I hate that I'm having a total Ross Geller Moment

[ladygrl]

Bah humbug

After putting time and effort into thoughtful gifts for my family, which took their side projects and long time passions into consideration. After putting aside 100 small things I wanted to do, things which meant something to me, to accommodate their whims. After going without so they could have I was presented with 3 candy bars from the liquor store as the entirety of my Christmas present. Literally. That's was it. Not even a nice note to say I matter. Nothing. Next year I am taking a cruise to the Bahamas by myself and they can go Fuck themselves.

[traingazelle-deactivated2022090]

Things I've learned in the past week.

1. You can’t move on to step B if you aren’t willing to float in the space between A and B for a moment.

2. Don’t underestimate the empowerment of wearing really nice underwear.

3. Dress for the job you want. Or dress like you already don’t work at the job you have. I’ve worn a dress to work every day this week and I’ve never seen my employer so unsettled.

4. If it feels very urgent emotionally. You probably shouldn’t act on it until it doesn’t.

5. You will miss people for who they were before they turned into who they are. That doesn’t mean you should get back in touch with them.

6. Number 5 is much easier in theory.

7. It’s ok for other people to think you’re an asshole. Just don’t be one.

8. Sacrificing your own needs for others doesn’t make you a good person.

9. Doing a phone interview naked on your bedroom floor really takes the pressure off.

[ladygrl]

My job is pretty rad and the perks include seats in the company suite and being given the opportunity to attend meetings at this year's UNGA. Not bad for a recovering dirtbag who moved to the US with a couple hundred dollars and no damn clue what she wanted in life.

[wilwheaton]

(via R0NS4o8.jpg (528×528))

[wordsnquotes]

People will love you. People will hate you. And none of it will have anything to do with you.

Abraham Hicks (via wordsnquotes)

Realizing this early in life was a blessing.

[luxgalador]

so i have a cat now

[wilwheaton]

A STREETCAT NAMED DESIRE, CARL.

[mysharona1987]

“We were never that close”

Yeah, I can see why.

[charleythehouseplant]

The answer is spectacular though.

A: I am having a hard time wrapping my mind around this letter. I encourage you to reread it and to ask yourself that time-honored question, “Do I sound like a villain in a Reese Witherspoon movie?” You are, presumably, sympathetic to your own situation and are invested in making sure that you come across as reasonable and as caring as possible, and yet you have written a letter indicting yourself at every turn. This girl is “like a daughter” to you, and yet you want to shove her to the side of your other daughter’s wedding just because she walks with a limp. Your daughter’s wedding will be perfect with Katie as a full and honored member of the bridal party. A limp is not a fly in the ointment; it’s a part of Katie’s life. It is not only wrong to have asked your daughter to consider excluding her best friend over this—it is ableist, and cruel, and it speaks to a massive failure of empathy, compassion, and grace on your part. You must and should apologize to your daughter immediately, and I encourage you to profoundly reconsider the orientation of your heart.

[ladygrl]

"... and I encourage you to profoundly reconsider the orientation of your heart."

[ladygrl]

Wanna know what living with asthma is like?

It's not all wheezing and taking hits off inhalers on the bad days. It's also sweating a lot and taking breaks which means a simple chore can take 2x a long. About 20 mins ago I sorted my laundry to do one load and sweat through my shirt so now I'm taking a rest before I can make the trek to the basement. It's something they tell you to make a conscious effort to give yourself permission to do. Therefore my current status is me laying on my couch with a paper towel in my hand so sweat doesn't run into my eyes. A fan is blowing on me and I'm punching this into my phone to keep the sorrowful anxiety about my ever present mortality at bay.

[ladygrl]

This has made me laugh, out loud and heartily, for 2 yrs now.

[micdotcom]

Watch: The most wonderful moment of joy came when he entered a Nazi guard bungalow.

[nerapalooza-blog]

We are the last generation who can hear from these survivors directly. Do not take that lightly. Do not waste that opportunity. Do not forget your freedom isn’t infinitely guarenteed. And do not, do not, let it happen again.

[bricesander]

[ladygrl]

Cookie for ever

[alicenthightower]

The Cast of ‘It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia’ during the LA PRIDE Parade on Sunday, June 12th, aka ‘The Gang Supports Mac’. (x)

[sleighinbedgrowyrhair]

[bellygangstaboo]

weird…brilliant? ohhhh. white.

[d-e-l-ete-d-deactivated20181014]

[brat-the-wurst-deactivated20231]

As an employee of a fast food place that is a real jerk move. But as a customer that’s real smart.

[tripalittlelightfantastic]

If you read the original article he lives 45 minutes from the nearest Chipotle and he was bringing dinner home for his wife and kids but everytime he did that the tacos would get insanely soggy. This way they’re not soggy when he gets home

[ladygrl]

I would call it in when I was about 15 mins away to give the staff a few minutes. I looked online. They have a group order option on the app where you can basically do this in a more considerate way....with a heads up.