"the tailor"

The name's Lance, and I'm here to defend the universe one kinkshame at a time. I go by they or he pronouns, por favor~! If I follow you it will be from my age regression blog! ^^

[look-in-bio-for-new-account]

PRETTY SURE I’m, you know, a freaking age regressor…. so yeah, I’m not gonna stop using that term for my COPING MECHANISM thanks ✨

[lance-against-ddlg]

Just for those of you who are triggered or remotely upset when seeing kink terms used in age regression.

Reminder: Don’t harass! Blocking gets the job done. Stay safe! 💙

[look-in-bio-for-new-account]

DON’T HARASS???? LIKE YOU’VE BEEN DOING TO ME FOR THE OAST HOUR OR SO???????? PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE SERIOUSLY PATHETIC AND NEED TO GET A GRIP :))))))))))

[lance-against-ddlg]

1. It’s been 20 minutes and most of your messages to me have been “FUCK OFF” and insults. 2. I have been nothing but polite, you are the one who would be harassing if it were defined as being insulting and such.

[look-in-bio-for-new-account]

1. Oh sorry let me just TIME our conversation 2. After I said “bye” many many times and you continued to HARASS me about my community 3. I was actually having a good mental health night for the first time in months, but thanks for ruining that for me you absolute asshole 4. @ my followers, block this person, they will harass you and are not worth your time

[lance-against-ddlg]

1. You said bye within the various fuck offs and I was simply trying to explain myself so you would understand. 2. That's not my fault. I do not know you and your personal life. 3. I don't plan on even looking at your profile, so no, I will not harass anyone and never have.

[look-in-bio-for-new-account]

PRETTY SURE I’m, you know, a freaking age regressor…. so yeah, I’m not gonna stop using that term for my COPING MECHANISM thanks ✨

[lance-against-ddlg]

Just for those of you who are triggered or remotely upset when seeing kink terms used in age regression.

Reminder: Don’t harass! Blocking gets the job done. Stay safe! 💙

[look-in-bio-for-new-account]

DON’T HARASS???? LIKE YOU’VE BEEN DOING TO ME FOR THE OAST HOUR OR SO???????? PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE SERIOUSLY PATHETIC AND NEED TO GET A GRIP :))))))))))

[lance-against-ddlg]

1. It's been 20 minutes and most of your messages to me have been "FUCK OFF" and insults. 2. I have been nothing but polite, you are the one who would be harassing if it were defined as being insulting and such.

[look-in-bio-for-new-account]

PRETTY SURE I’m, you know, a freaking age regressor…. so yeah, I’m not gonna stop using that term for my COPING MECHANISM thanks ✨

[lance-against-ddlg]

Just for those of you who are triggered or remotely upset when seeing kink terms used in age regression.

Reminder: Don't harass! Blocking gets the job done. Stay safe! 💙

[lance-against-ddlg]

Please reblog if you are an anti who supports asexual people!

I've heard some things about popular blogs being aphobic and I'm ace so I'd rather not interact with them ;;

[poffpoffblocker]

Where my fellow ace antis at  👋 👋 👋

[lance-against-ddlg]

hola!!! right here 🤗🤗

[thebootydiaries]

[cobaltdays-deactivated20210208]

[elfvenomm]

oh my gawd this actually happens ??

[laurdlannister-kingslayer]

girl hell yeah, I swear to god idk why they do that, they think gay people are zoo animals that strip or something 

[the-archmagister-deactivated201]

My face when I hit on a girl at a gay bar and she says she’s straight and so is her boyfriend and all their friends.

[bookthrower]

That has to be extremely aggravating.

[the-archmagister-deactivated201]

Straight people like to experience gay tourism to show us queers how open minded they are. As if it didn’t occur to them we might be hanging out in gay bars to meet other gay people.

[erinnn41-deactivated20180827]

My gay friend took me to a gay bar once i dont see the big issue of me going there whilst straight. Its not some exclusive club for gays only the same way we dont ha ve straight people clubs.

[the-archmagister-deactivated201]

So you don’t think there’s a reason there are gay bars?

[erinnn41-deactivated20180827]

There is a reason it is for people to find like minded people but its NOT exclusive for gays only. Just like standard clubs arent only for straights i have had quite a few gay friends over the years and not one has batted an eyelid as ive joined them at a gay bar, I understand some people go there because they fetishize gay people and are looking for gay bffs but not EVERY straight person is like that.

[socialistexan]

Gay bars exist because before 2003 it was illegal in most states to be gay and one of the few places where gay and trans people could go and be themselves was a fucking mob-owned bar. The cops used to kick down gay people’s doors and arrest them while they were in bed. Trans people couldn’t walk down the street without getting at least questioned by the cops. Bars were the only space for us, and even then they’d get raided by the cops.

It’s why the riot that kicked off the modern gay rights movement happened at Stonewall, a bar. It’s why gay gathering places are bars instead of coffee shops or restaurants 9/10 times. (It also doesn’t hurt that drinking eases the pain of being the almost constant target of harassment and anti-gay legislation, also why alcoholism is so high in our community)

This isn’t some fucking hookup culture thing, or finding “like minded people” it’s something that was forced onto and built into our culture.

You’re exploiting our spaces that you forced us into to begin with. Don’t walk in here and tell us why gay bars exist when you’re this fucking ignorant.

[drxcos-deactivated20210126]

i hate when people r like “do you like them? oooh you’re blushing you do!!!” like, no you cold corndog im fucking blushing bc you’re embarrassing me and making me uncomfortable

[time-dolphin-ryan-lochte]

SOMEONE SAID IT

[respectfulmemes]

[angelsagainstcgl]

FIND UR KINSTER URL !  Tag urself, mines: dassys-bratty-pet-69

[cthulhu-against-pedos]

TEAM RICK: 123

Mine would be Snugglybearsdumbbaby123

[tavs-social-justice]

maamscrazycutie

[bunerabunny]

RookiesKinkyPrincess666……. why?

[against-bad-ships]

Dassysdirtyangel69

[fuck-your-kink]

maassmellypuppy666

[mikasaagainstddlg]

snugglybearsdepravedsatantist666

im crying why

[ibukiagainstddlg]

Mcsteamysbigcinnamonroll69

[peachy-discourse]

maamskinkycabbage420

holy fucking shit

[frank-n-furtersweettransves-blog]

dassysbrattymermaid420

WAKE  ME UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[katsuki-yuri-against-kink]

i am now snugglybears-depraved-cabbage666

nice to meet you all

[lance-against-ddlg]

pookiesdirtytoy666........... what a..um.. what a catch.....

[pemsart]

some reminders

[cptsdbaby]

shut up and let survivors hate their abusers, we have at least this right

[elriabrunnr]

DAD THE FEMINAZI DEACTIVATED

Catch me at their funeral wearing only designer ((also is this Lance))

[lance-against-ddlg]

Ye it was me but I was on anon bc I didn't want to use my main account lol

I'm lowkey sad she deactivated bc I wanted to argue with her points ))): rip

[lance-against-ddlg]

The thing I hate about Spanish is how often I’m talking and go like “okay so para el festival we need-” or “yeah, my padres y me-” LIKE WHAT THE FRICKITY FRACK DIDDLY WACK ARE YOU DOIN TO ME BRAIN???

[lance-against-ddlg]

I also switch to Korean sometimes with some "aish" and "ani/aniya" and throw in some "annyeong" in there bc my friend is teaching me some. Rip me

[lance-against-ddlg]

The thing I hate about Spanish is how often I'm talking and go like "okay so para el festival we need-" or "yeah, my padres y me-" LIKE WHAT THE FRICKITY FRACK DIDDLY WACK ARE YOU DOIN TO ME BRAIN???

[elriabrunnr]

Why do you care so much about other people's kinks?

Why do you have a nazi symbol in your icon? Why are you sending me asks when minors follow me and you have nsfw on your blog? Why do you care so much about what I do? Why would you ever care enough about what someone hates enough to send them an ask?

TW for this account for any minors !!!

[macabreswaghag-deactivated20170]

Because I’m a feminazi. Why the fuck do minors follow you when you talk about kink and post sexual content? You may be anti kink but it’s absolutely unacceptable for children to be exposed to in any capacity you fucking creep. Why run a blog for children where you speak about things that aren’t meant for children?

Why do I care? Because you consistently misrepresent and demonize my community. Because I was born the way I am, and I struggled with my sexuality for my entire adolescents. Because you use your platform to make ridiculous claims about kink. And apparently you have no concept of how hurtful it is to people who were born with this form of sexuality to be bashed. If you think that we don’t get that it’s weird and that people judge us then you have never had a real conversation with the people you bash.

Also I’m pretty sure you’re a dude? I hate when the patriarchy tells me what should and shouldn’t get me wet.

[lance-against-ddlg]

I wanted to drop by and let you know that MANY people in the anti community are minors because they have been exposed to your kink, (and yes I mean it's simply a kink and a not sexuality by its secondary and tremendously more common known definition of a persons sexual orientation).

Otters-against-ddlg's blog isn't strictly for minors, so it is not "a blog for children". Many of us antis accept minors who are antis as well because they deserve a safe space that isn't your kink. Many of these minors have also been IN your kink, making us safer for them in a much greater way than any of you have been to them.

You are not born with your kinks like you are your sexual orientation. Your kinks are created throughout time and through influences of media and social interaction. If you lived off in the middle of no where with a community that is never sexual until reproduction, does not have access to any media or even the knowledge of kinks, you would not have kinks. You are not born with these things like you are your eye color or ear shape.

[lance-against-ddlg]

hello! i was wondering, are u kin with lance? or is that just a mascot for this blog? (also ur links dont work btw!)

I wouldn't say I'm kin with him, I just find myself relating to certain characteristics of his and such with his personality and I absolutely adore him, so I thought it would be a good fit! Thank you for letting me know about my links! I'll fix them as soon as I can (: