Indomitable

Kayla. 21. I'm a mess but at least I'm in good company.

[with-practice]

i hope i make it. im rooting for myself.

[poetryandthesea]

“Writing is actually such a lonely thing to do. Sometimes you spend hours and days just within your own head, without even realizing that you haven’t spoken to a living soul in ages. And from time to time it scares me how much I enjoy to do just that: Get away from everything by spending time with these people in my mind, in worlds I created, with ever purple skies and never fading summer nights.”

- // someone once asked me if people would get addicted to dreaming if it wasn’t a natural mechanism and I have found exactly that kind of drug in writing

j.d.m.

[aristotela]

things you should do in 2018

love yourself

forgive people 

forgive yourself

care less 

enjoy every moment

indulge in healthy relationships 

indulge in healthy habits 

learn from every mistake 

do more of the things you like 

read more 

[peachisty]

dont forget to tell someone you love that you love them, thank people who deserve to be thanked, be more patient on people having a hard time, be more considerate, understanding, and be kinder, always.

[sixpenceee]

[halloweengothic]

[love-personal]

[allleyezzonme]

You know what strength is? Forgiving a person who wasn’t even sorry.

[softwaring]

[luvvs1c]

[pastelpets]

[trailcam]

[minuty]

[princvsx]

well 2017 has been a scooter to the ankle

[theredpelican]

we’re literally floating on a tiny planet in fucking space why are we surrounded by hatred and misery. why can’t everyone just calm the fuck down and lay on some grass. the sun is a GIANT BURNING ORB why does money exist. fuck everything

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Turn off Negative Thoughts

1. Notice when you are slipping into negative, absolutist ways of thinking where you think the worst of yourself, your life and your future.

2. Recognise that these are habitual ways of thinking. It’s what you always think when you start to feel bad.

3. Be aware of triggers. Often certain people and situations trigger painful, negative self-destructive thoughts. Try and distance yourself from these, or completely avoid them, if you possibly can.

4. Deliberately look for the counter arguments. For example, when have things been a bit better, when have you done something right, when has someone been kind and understanding?

5. Visualise positive things that make you happy, such as curling up with a book in bed, listening to your favourite music, and so on. Often changing our thinking to things that make us happy changes our negative feelings and thoughts.

6. Get into the habit of building yourself up, so you notice and affirm your successes, strengths, good intentions and positive traits.

[latenights]

tip: hold two drinks so you can’t text that person you know you shouldn’t