Lavender Lover

Beauty and activism (18 years old, minors are welcome to follow if comfortable)

[lavandin-bi]

turns out i really be.... not identifying with the word bisexual anymore. huh.

[lavandin-bi]

sometimes you cut your own hair and make sharpie earrings and that should be okay !

[tomcats-and-tophats]

Acting like bisexuals could Never Understand gender nonconformity or gay love or homophobia or complex relationships with the opposite gender or whatever is so fucking weird and it's a breath away from some real sketchy biological essentialism Gay Gene bullshit.

[justsomeantifas]

you, too, aid in eugenics every time you propagate the idea that poor folks shouldnt have kids.

[justsomeantifas]

such a sick joke that the faults of capitalist infrastructure are used as justification by the poor and rich alike to further alienate and destabilize the poor. gr8

[justsomeantifas]

every single time people say what folks should have before they concieve boils down to: money

fucked up. youre telling me wealth makes folks better parents when they arent even around to see their kids grow... too busy with the job they were told they needed before the kid. leaving them lost and neglected not because they want to but because they were forced to

[lavandin-bi]

if you convinced yourself you’re straight and lying to the entire lgbt community clap your hands 👏🏻👏🏻

[biwomensuggestion]

Bisexual is not a dirty word, it’s okay to say it out loud or even shout it out if you need to. It doesn’t need censoring and it’s nothing to be ashamed of, don’t be afraid to embrace it.

[cowardly-bisexual]

how many times will you redefine pansexuality after being called before you finally accept that it's okay to just call yourself bi

[cowardly-bisexual]

every time pansexuals are called out for being biphobic/transphobic/homophobic/etc they go "no no no that's not what pansexuality means, actually this is the real definition of pansexuality"

first it was "attraction to men, women and trans people" and when that was called out for transphobia they changed it to

"hearts not parts" which was also called out for transphobia on top of biphobia and homophobia so they quickly moved on to

"attraction regardless of gender unlike bisexuality where gender is a factor" and when that was called out for being biphobic and ahistorical they swapped it for

"attraction to personality not gender" and when people called that out for being offensive and condescending to literally everyone who's not pan they tried

"it's the same as bi but just a personal preference for a different label" and now that that has been called out for enabling internalised biphobia i'm really wondering what they will come up with next

like how many more of these convoluted excuses for distancing yourself from bisexuality can you possibly come up with before you'll finally be forced to face your internalised biphobia and learn to accept you're bisexual

[lavandin-bi]

i’m taking acid again if y’all want to send any questions you have i will try to answer them when i’m in the acid void

[lavandin-bi]

guys i tripped on acid and everytime i got too close to uncovering a big secret my brain legit would not let me abaksjaks

[lavandin-bi]

hampy hollydays to everyone except biphobes

[lluviagf]

RB FOR GOOD LUCK!

[lavandin-bi]

y’all aren’t ready to see me lookin this fine in clown makeup no less

[lavandin-bi]

this is my first post as an 18 year old by the way if any minors are uncomfortable please unfollow or ask me to unfollow i will not be upset

[lavandin-bi]

y’all aren’t ready to see me lookin this fine in clown makeup no less

[lavandin-bi]

all this biphobia has me thinking...y’all seem to assume bisexual people don’t love others? that we’re just here for a quick fuck?

bisexual people love with the light of day and we love with the peace of night. the intensity of fire and the softness of air. don’t you dare tell us that we are sluts, whores, can’t choose a side, traitors. biphobes are just jealous that they’ll never love like a bisexual can.

[actuallycptsd]

My blog is aggressively pro abortion so block me if you arnt. Your not welcome here unless you support a persons right to choose under any circumstances

[lavandin-bi]

guess what ???

i fell in love !!!

[lavandin-bi]

the kickers is ...

he loves me too :)

[lavandin-bi]

guess what ???

i fell in love !!!